Pay attention to the diary of the fish parenting do not get lost on the way to parenting
Children always make mistakes and talk well and don't listen, what will you do? Either the parents have the upper hand to fight, or the child has the upper hand and goes with him, but you will find that in these two ways, the child will make the same mistake later, and some children will be more and more pimpy, and the more they fight, the more disobedient, so how to educate? I send you three sentences, as long as you really understand, do not play unaccustomed, your children can have a good character.
The first sentence is not aimed at the child, the child grabs other people's toys, how do you rob me so rudely and beat you, you are targeting the child, there is a consequence of doing so, you will see the child is not happy, the heart is easy to get mad, want to beat him, want to beat him. You can directly say that grabbing the toy is not right, you grab the toy again I will take it away for you, if it is only for the behavior, then you have a lot of balance in your heart, the most important thing is that the child knows that it is this behavior that is wrong and not him.
The second sentence of the child is also responsible for the behavior, the child does not collect the blocks do not have to fight, confiscate the blocks is good; the child does not eat without feeding, do not give food before the next meal; the child grabs other people's toys in the playground and does not have to scold, you tell him that the toys are returned to others, if you rob me again, I will take you away immediately, so that the child is responsible for the behavior of the most effective way to rule the case.
The third and most important sentence with the mouth said that you can never teach children to swim, you have to go into the water demonstration to swim to him first, say a hundred times is not as good as you do it again, such as children are timid and dare not find others to play, you say to other children in person that Auntie has toys here How about we play together. There are also children who grab toys and can't express, you can squat down and demonstrate: can children play with You? Your preaching is a wind in your ears, and your intentions to demonstrate the child will see it in the eyes and remember it in the heart. There are four words in the word and deed, but it is difficult for countless parents. When a child makes a mistake, remember to think about the last two words, did you do it yourself?
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