Mr. Zhu Ziqing has eight children. He had five children (in fact, there were six children, the youngest son, Zhu Liu'er, died of lung disease in 1929 at the age of 31) with his wife Wu Zhongqian (who died of lung disease in 1929).
The story between them is both funny and a little poignant. As a parent, there may be a sense of déjà vu. It's already hard to bring a child, let alone so many children.
"Every day for lunch and dinner, it's like two tides." The children come and go between the kitchen and the dining room, while urging Mr. Zhu Ziqing and his wife to "open a meal".
The children rushed back and forth to move the stools, and this one said, "I'm sitting here!" The one who said ," big brother won't let me!" The eldest brother said, "Little sister beat me!" ”。 Mr. Zhu Ziqing constantly mediated and said good things on the side. The children were sometimes very stubborn, and Mr. Zhu Ziqing was sometimes impatient, so he began to reprimand, and the reprimand was not good, so he slapped him.
So I cried and sat. The situation has just stabilized, but you want a big bowl, he wants a small bowl; you say red chopsticks are good, he says black chopsticks are good; this one wants dry rice, that one wants porridge; you want tea and soup, you want fish and meat, you want tofu, you want radish. You say he has a lot of food, he says you have a good dish.
Mr. Zhu Ziqing's wife always comforted the children, but Mr. Zhu Ziqing was a violent temper and used the old method to immediately conquer them. So there were those who cried again, and soon they wiped their tears and picked up their rice bowls.
After eating, the children climbed off the stools. The table was a mess, full of rice grains, soup, bones, dregs, chopsticks and reclining spoons, like a colorful map model.
Outside of eating, the kids' big thing is play. When playing games, the big children have big ideas, and the little children have small ideas, and they can't stick to each other, so they argue again. Either the big bully the small, or the small bully the big.
The bullied cried and shouted, and went to Sue Zhu Ziqing or his wife. At this time, Mr. Zhu Ziqing will use the old method to judge, and there are times when he does not care. The most embarrassing thing is that two children are holding the same toy, one child prefers that one, and the other child does not agree. In this case, no matter what, it is always necessary to cry. These things don't happen every day, but there are always many.
When Mr. Zhu Ziqing got married, he was only nineteen years old. At the age of twenty-one, there was the eldest Ah Jiu; at the age of twenty-three, there was the second old Ah Cai.
When Ah Jiu was two and a half years old, Mr. Zhu Ziqing's family lived in a school in Hangzhou. At that time, Ah Jiu was particularly fond of crying, and he was particularly afraid of people. As soon as I didn't see my mother, or when I came to the guest, I started crying. At that time, there were many people living in the school, and there were always guests. In order to keep the child from disturbing the guests, Mr. Zhu Ziqing deliberately tricked his wife into going out, closed the door, and pressed the child to the ground and beat him.
Later, Mr. Zhu Ziqing's wife often mentioned this matter to him, complaining that he was too cruel, and ah jiu was only a two-and-a-half-year-old child at that time! Mr. Zhu Ziqing will often think about this matter and regret it endlessly.
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Mr. Zhu Ziqing's family life is unfortunate.
At the end of 1928, Zhu Ziqing's wife Wu Zhongqian gave birth to Xiao Liu'er, who was tired, skinny and bone-skinned, and had a fever every day, and at first she thought it was dysentery and did not pay attention to it. In order not to affect Zhu Ziqing's work, he has always insisted on working, hiding from Zhu Ziqing and not letting him be distracted.
Sometimes Ming ming lying, heard Zhu Ziqing's footsteps, a bone to sit up from the bed, a long time, Zhu Ziqing felt strange, he took her to the hospital for examination, found that the lungs rot a big hole, the doctor advised her to go to the West Mountain to recuperate, but she could not leave the child, and was reluctant to spend money, the body looked more and more bad.
In October 1929, Wu Zhongqian returned to Yangzhou with his children. Before separating from Zhu Ziqing, Wu Zhongqian cried and said, "I don't know if I can see you again?" Wu Zhongqian returned to Yangzhou only a month ago, leaving his children and Zhu Ziqing behind on November 26. When the news reached Beijing, Zhu Ziqing was in pain.
Three years after Wu Zhongqian's death, Zhu Ziqing wrote the essay "To the Dead Woman". With the brushstroke of whispering about the past, Zhu Ziqing fully vented a strong love for his wife Wu Zhongqian, and pinned his infinite thoughts on his wife Wu Zhongqian.