Class Teacher Reminder: 12 Bad Habits of Failed Parents! None of them are good parents! (Required Reading)

Children are a mirror for parents.

In daily life, every word and deed of parents is subtly affecting children, and our habits are the most easily imitated by children.

There are many bad habits that unconsciously "bring bad" to the child.

The following is a list of the 12 bad habits that children are most likely to imitate their parents, and teachers remind parents to pay attention to it!

1

Be diligent and thrifty yourself, and be generous with your children

Harm:

Parents think that this is love for their children, but this may make children learn luxury, do not understand return and pay, and do not have a good sense of financial management.

change:

Loving children is not to give him expensive, but to give him the right one. Teaching children to manage money from an early age and understanding the principle of frugality is the best gift for children.

2

No courtesy

Harm:

Whether it is in interpersonal relationships, academics, careers, no politeness will become a stumbling block for children.

change:

Examine your own words and deeds, and be a civilized and polite person. Words and deeds are inseparable parts.

3

Take the kids to play on the computer and watch adult shows

Harm:

Many adult programs are not suitable for children, it is easy for children to have misconceptions, and long-term tv watching is not conducive to children's development.

Similar to watching TV, computer radiation and strong visual and auditory stimulation can also harm the baby, and it is also easy to cause bone development problems such as cervical spine.

change:

To show children or play computers must be suitable for the child's development stage, the content is healthy, and the time for children to watch TV and play computers should also be strictly regulated. It is best to use parent-child games instead.

4

I like to compare my own children with others

Harm:

First of all, it will make yourself have a psychological gap, be too strict with your children in education, and secondly, make your children vulnerable to external influences, have no confidence, and have low self-esteem.

change:

Don't measure your own children by the standards of other people's children, let the children develop naturally, as long as there is no lag or delay, don't worry too much.

5

Take too much care of your children

Harm:

Hurt the child, do not let him do anything, but this is actually depriving the child of the hands-on ability, so that he has no learning opportunities, can not get exercise, the child will be difficult to learn to take care of their own skills.

At the same time, dependent thoughts appear, becoming a "lazy" child, and it will be difficult to adapt to collective life in the future.

change:

Give the child some opportunities for autonomy, within his ability, assign him some things, so that the child understands the truth that paying can only be rewarded.

6

Vent your grievances in front of your child

Harm:

This will cause the child's negative emotions, but also let him slowly learn to pick other people's faults, rather than examine their own mistakes, learn to deal with things correctly.

change:

Tell your child in a fair manner, tell him that there are bad things in your life, and try to give your child a more positive impression.

7

lie

Harm:

The child will feel that lying is not wrong, and he will probably learn to lie. At the same time, he may also feel strange and confused about the adult's approach, and have a cognitive bias.

change:

Cherish the trust of the child, do not perfunctory the child, and promise that the child's things must be done. Whether the child is present or not, strive to be a person with integrity.

8

Procrastination, no view of time

Harm:

It is easy for children to have no concept of time, and they do not have a correct understanding of adverse events such as punctuality and tardiness, and it is easy to have similar problems in the future.

change:

Instill a view of time in children from an early age and let them understand the importance of time. Usually do things must be carried out according to plan, strictly according to the prescribed time to complete, do not always come to Japan for a long time.

9

Do not follow traffic rules

Harm:

Children who do not have a sense of safety and self-protection are vulnerable to danger, whether they are away from home or at home.

change:

Whether you go out with your child or not, you must follow the traffic rules. Usually, I also try to tell my child the importance of obeying traffic rules, and tell him that by doing so, you are actually protecting yourself.

10

Criticize children in public

Harm:

This will hurt the child's self-esteem and make the child feel inferior. It will also affect the emotions between parents and children, and it will not allow children to recognize their mistakes.

change:

When a child makes a mistake, he should point it out in time, but the attitude must be gentle, tell the child why he is wrong, and your purpose is to let the child correct it, not to hit him.

11

Not athletic

Harm:

This is a common problem for most parents, ignoring the importance of exercise for children's development, so that children lag behind in the development of certain skills due to lack of exercise.

change:

More exercise is beneficial to themselves and children, usually try to take time to take children to do some sports and games, both exercise and cultivate parent-child feelings.

12

Tempered, anytime

Harm:

First of all, it will cause a great psychological burden to the child, increase the child's fear, and is not conducive to the child's psychological construction.

At the same time, it will make the child a grumpy person, unable to control and manage his emotions well. Parental arguments can provide a bad example for the child to learn aggressive behaviors such as swearing and foul language.

change:

Learn to manage your emotions, when you really can't control it, don't erupt in front of the child and give the child a good family atmosphere.

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