The best explanation for love, I think, is probably what Balzac said: "Love is like the sea, the shallow people say that it is monotonous, and the noble people can find rich and colorful interests in life from it." ”
When we meet a person we like, want to maintain this relationship well, and want to have a good ending, we will definitely do our best to love, to protect this love, and let the other party feel their hearts.
If we just hold a playful attitude to treat a relationship, our freshness and enthusiasm will soon disappear, the freshness of love is only a short time, when this time passes, the rest is boring and monotonous, and this love will soon end.
In love, want to know whether a person is sincere to you, or just play, in fact, from his attitude, some daily behaviors can be seen, smart people as long as they know how to observe these, naturally they can better protect themselves and avoid some unnecessary harm.
Especially for women, they will value their emotional world, and they will also hope that they can meet a good man and then start a sincere love. After all, no woman would wish she had met a scumbag, a man who was not worthy of her own love.
That being the case, when the opposite sex gets along, women must learn to observe some of men's behaviors, to feel men's attitudes, so as to clarify men's inner world.
Generally speaking. If a man loves you deeply, there will be these "signs" in his body, which cannot be pretended.
01 Only when he is with you will he have some out-of-control performance, some irrational behavior.
Jo Ford said: "Love is the tyrant of the heart; it makes the intellect unclear and the judgment unclear; it does not heed advice, and runs straight in the direction of madness." ”
When a man is deeply in love with a woman, the most obvious manifestation must be so. When with other people, men will think well, will show their most mature and stable side, and can reasonably analyze and solve things when encountered, just like a mature and stable man.
However, in front of his beloved woman, the man seems to have changed as a person, and seeing many of his behaviors, he is like two people at other times. It is precisely in this way that we can believe that such a man is truly in love with a woman, and will unabashedly show his most childish and irrational him in front of this woman.
Therefore, a woman must understand that if she wants to know whether a man loves you deeply, it depends on whether he will have a moment of losing his mind in front of you, and whether there will be some out-of-control performance. With these signs, the woman's heart also has the answer.
02 In many details, he will care about your feelings and consider your thoughts.
Shiqibachev said: "Love should know how to cherish, and cherish it more with the years." Love is not idle under the bright moon, nor is it sighing on the bench. ”
As long as a man loves a woman deeply, he will definitely take the initiative to manage this relationship, will take the initiative to cherish this relationship, and cherish the people around him. This cherishing will be expressed in every moment of life, and it will also be expressed in many of his detailed behaviors.
Generally speaking, if men are not sincere about feelings, but just have a playful attitude, then when they get along, men's ideas must be selfish, and they must only care about their own feelings, thus often ignoring women's feelings. On the contrary, if a man wants to take good care of a woman, he will definitely take the initiative to care about the woman's feelings and want to bring the greatest happiness to the woman at all times.
Such a man, when he is with women, will definitely develop a lot of good habits, even if it is some very detailed things, he will also notice at the first time, giving women the greatest sense of security and warmth.
03 What has been promised to you, I will try my best to complete it, and I will not disappoint you.
Sukhomlinsky said: "True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world. ”
When getting along with the opposite sex, women must know one thing, that is, the man who does not love you, when he is with you, often thinks about himself, and cares about his own gains and losses. In his heart, you don't have too much of a place, so he won't let himself suffer too much.
A man who loves you deeply, he must think the opposite. When he is with you, often at the first time, he considers your feelings, and often ignores his own feelings.
Just like when he has something delicious, he will let you taste it at the first time; when he encounters something interesting, he will share it with you at the first time, even if it is only a small thing, he will think of you first and hope to share every happy moment with you.
Such a man will naturally take the initiative to understand your mind, know your preferences and ideas. Maybe he won't give you any promises easily, but once he promises you something, he will do his best to complete it, will not disappoint you, and can't bear to see you sad and sad.
In fact, in love, from a man's attitude and some behaviors, you can know whether he really loves a woman in his heart. It's just that many times women only hear what the man says, and thus ignore what the man does and what attitude he has toward her.
When a man is deeply in love with a woman, there must be these signs, which cannot be pretended, and even more cannot be concealed. As long as women learn to observe these signs, they can naturally avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble.