Today, it tells the story of a friend.
There may always be some people around us, and we can't put ourselves in a situation to understand their pain, and sometimes with some worldly eyes.
We rarely realize how much harm we will inflict on them.
They are often praised as "optimistic", but "optimistic" is not a word of praise.
We all rarely think about it.
The following will be narrated from a first-person perspective.
Once, like everyone else.
She likes to play ball and likes to hold her other half with her right hand.
Before the age of twenty-four,
I really don't make any difference between me and everyone.
someday
In the old home, help the neighbor's aunt to take care of the grandson temporarily.
I didn't expect him to pay no attention,
Ran out of the road.
I instinctively rushed out and pushed away,
But as a result, I don't want to say it again.
In a moment,
I knew I couldn't play anymore.
There was no way to hold her with her right hand anymore.
Even, she might think I was terrible,
So leave me.
There are not so many heroic fantasies in TV series,
Ask me if I regret saving people,
I definitely regret it.
After the incident,
The neighbors also quickly moved away,
It's also very ironic to think about.
After discharge,
I locked myself in my room,
Do not eat or drink,
I feel like the rest of my life was ruined.
Just lucky,
She didn't leave me because of that.
Kept comforting me in front of my door.
But so what,
I look like this,
It's likely that there's no way to make good money.
There was no way to give her a good future.
"Break up, I don't want to delay you."
The three words I'm most afraid of,
Actually, I mentioned it.
I heard a loud slamming of the door,
I also thought that was the end of it.
I also want to put myself to the end.
Later, she bought a lot of sweatshirts with pockets.
Came to my house and said, "I have a way!" ”
It's really a way to do it.
Put on a sweatshirt,
Tuck your right sleeve into your pocket,
The average person will not find anything about me if they don't look carefully.
At most, I feel like I'm dragging.
At first, everyone didn't notice,
I'm also getting more and more optimistic.
Until one day when I was in line,
The sleeves fell out,
"Oh, it turned out to be a disabled person."
I heard people in the back talking,
For the first time, I couldn't help but cry out.
"What's the matter with you?"
"I didn't save people because I saved people."
I roared so loudly that I could not help it.
As if trying to prove something,
I didn't apologize in exchange,
Instead, it was exchanged for more strange eyes.
I worked very hard to find a job.
I still want to be an advertiser,
But many people will ask during the interview,
"Will this affect your work?"
"The proposal needs to meet with the client, which may not be good."
"I heard that there is a factory that recruits people with disabilities."
"Some units don't have subsidies for the disabled?"
Whenever my relatives are overzealous in plotting for me,
I just feel lost.
Because I think even without a hand,
I still have the same social values.
Later, fortunately, I met a company,
Willing to give me a chance.
I also proved it to you by strength,
I'm not worse than others.
Friends and colleagues around me will not feel that I am abnormal,
Treat me like an ordinary person,
Very grateful.
But I still have a hurdle in my heart,
She's been by my side all these years.
I would love to give her a safe home.
However, her parents did not know about me.
At the time of the New Year,
Follow her home to see her parents,
Unsurprisingly, her relatives were talking privately,
"How did he keep plugging the bag so rudely.."
"No, you didn't find it empty.."
"Dead cluck: How to find someone who has no hand. ”
I understand
After all, everyone will feel a complete person,
Why bend over and choose a disabled person.
Just thankful,
She kept telling her family at dinner,
How long have we known each other?
How do we usually get along with each other,
How I love her.
I'm scared
After that dinner,
I will be the target of their family.
At that dinner, she added her father's WeChat.
The next day,
I received a message from her father,
I was scared not to open it.
"The next time you have a chance, invite your parents over for a meal."
"It's time to think about the big things in your life and Haiqing's life."
It was my 1072nd day after the accident.
She carried all the pressure of her relatives at home.
Her parents are also convinced that their daughter did not look at the wrong person.
After 2 months,
We got engaged.
"Actually, don't you really mind me like this?"
"No one can guarantee that there will be no accidents in your life, let alone that you are a hero."
"Did your parents really accept me?"
"My dad hesitated, but my mom asked him a question."
"What's the problem?"
"If one day I have an unexpected disability, or dementia, will you still love me?"
"Love, you're my wife."
"That daughter is also loving the person she loves."
Tomorrow and the unexpected,
Sometimes I really don't know which one comes first.
Maybe in the past,
We're really going to be biased.
Even because of this, I despise a person.
They may have objective inconveniences,
But in the back of my mind, it's no different from all of us.
Reflecting on this,
Sometimes we pay too much attention to them,
Or excessive praise,
Instead, it can be an unfair treatment.
What qualifications do we have,
Go high and high with prejudice.
"But it's a different way to embrace the world."
- End -
Once longed to grow up overnight and chase the stars and the moon
Only then did I feel that the gentle world was in the student time
Spend a long time with you in college
@Ghost Talent Junshi Brother