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"Girl, I ran out of skin care products, you can help me buy a set and send it over."
When Junjun received a call from his mother, his heart tightened. Since she became pregnant, she has not been at work because of physical reasons, and now the child is less than two months old, and her husband is alone to earn money to support the family, and the monthly mortgage, rent, living expenses, and all the expenses of the child make the life of the two people tight.
When he received a call from his mother, Junjun was planning to choose a diaper for the baby. After hesitating, he lied to his mother and said, "Now the courier can't be sent, you go to the store to buy it." After hanging up the phone, Jun Jun's heart was not very good, and he also felt indebted to his parents. Before getting married and having a baby, I didn't blink an eye for my parents, usually gave my mother jewelry skin care products, bought clothes for my father to buy good cigarettes and good wine, and there were various big red envelopes for feudal festivals.
But with their own family, after their own children, they are more and more stingy with their parents, some money wants to spend on children, a set of skin care products about a hundred yuan or so are not willing to buy for their mothers. "After having a baby, I became more and more stingy with my parents, and I didn't even want to spend a hundred yuan," the reality is cruel.
Love continues downwards
In the theory of human evolution, love is continued downwards. People always give much more to their children than they do to their parents. From the large point of view, the child is sick and hospitalized, the clothes are not untied, day and night in front of the bed to take care of, smashing pots and selling iron is also at all costs, and even for the sake of the child can give up their own lives. At this time, work, distance, money and nothing are as important as the health of the child.
But if the parents are sick and hospitalized, people will have all kinds of excuses, such as work is too busy to open their bodies, the distance is too far, it is inconvenient to come back, etc., and the children who can stay by their parents' side all day are one of the best. If the money for treatment affects the quality of life, many people may hesitate.
From a young age, if the child needs a hundred dollars to buy something, he will never hesitate, and even worry about buying cheap, the quality is not good, and want to spend more on the child. But if you buy a hundred or so things for your parents, you will most likely hesitate in your heart, thinking about how much this hundred yuan can buy for your children. Spend thousands of dollars on children, and do not blink at the interest class, but if you spend thousands of dollars to improve the living conditions of your parents, many people are unwilling.
It's all human nature and it's reality. Many people can recognize this reality, but there is nothing they can do.
Loving the younger generation is equally important as respecting the elderly, and we must not lose sight of one or the other
Everyone is a child of a parent, and we are all parents of our own children, and we have been children and we will become parents. As children, we enjoy the selfless efforts of our parents. As parents, we pour out our hearts and lungs for our children.
When we are both children and parents, it means that we are walking in the middle of life, there are old people who can be honored, and there are children who need to be raised, which is the happiest stage of life and the most stressful stage. Loving the younger generation is equally important as respecting the elderly, and we must not lose sight of one or the other.
When middle-aged people take care of their bodies, they can only work hard to make money. When you have economic strength, you can not only give your children good care, but also give your parents a good filial piety.
[Topic Discussion: Will you treat your parents badly because of your children? 】
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