Recently, I saw a report that a 42-year-old pregnant woman was depressed and left the hospital alone after giving birth. Paramedics turned to the police for help to find the woman.
Finally, the police found the pregnant woman in the rental room, found that her mood was almost broken, crying and complaining, it is really difficult, on the first day of giving birth to the child, still at work, which woman is willing to go out so open-minded.
Ms. Shen ate two slices of bread before giving birth, or the nurse gave it, and eating became a problem. She said that she came to Hangzhou to work 10 years ago, and her sick husband raised a pair of children in his hometown, and life was very difficult.
The mother of 3 children, the sick husband, the burden of the family on her alone, how can she not collapse?
I was still at work the day before giving birth, and I guess I was also trying to earn more money to support my family.
Knowing ms. Shen's actual situation, the local departments have extended a helping hand to her. The ending was heartwarming.
Ms. Shen just finished giving birth, on the one hand to maintain the body, on the other hand to take care of the children, it is not easy to work in a short period of time, and the next life will be very difficult.
Seeing ms. Shen's situation, some people said that 42 years old, there are 2 children, the husband is still sick, why do you have three children?
The State advocates marriage and childbearing of appropriate age and eugenics, and a couple can have three children. Age-appropriate + eugenics + three children, such a feeling is very good, but there are few such three children in life.
Look around us, since the opening of the three children, it seems that there are two extremes for those who have three children, either the economic conditions are good, they do not worry about eating and wearing, and they do not worry about hiring nannies to raise children; or the economic conditions are not good, but there is no plan, the children will be born when they come, take one step at a time.
Although childbearing is the right of the individual, others have no right to interfere and blame, but when people reach middle age, there are old people and small people, and life is indeed not easy, so when people reach middle age, if the economic conditions are not good, it is still necessary to carefully consider having children.
This reminds me of my parents' generation, generally 3 or 4 children, farming + part-time work to support several children, life can solve the problem of food and clothing, going to college is dispensable.
When the economic conditions are not abundant, there are really few parents who consider letting their children study more and go to college. On the contrary, with good living conditions, parents have more energy to pay attention to their children's education.
Education promotes development, highly educated people have the possibility of creating more wealth, in the era of increasing competition, everyone attaches great importance to the education of children, so there are many people in order not to reduce the child's education investment, do not reduce the quality of life, choose not to have a second child.
The state encourages the birth of a second or third child, and if possible, it should also actively respond to the national policy, but if the conditions are not good and life is difficult, it is necessary to do what it takes to have children. What do you think?
Every life deserves respect, and I wish Ms. Shen's mother and son all the best!
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