How does a woman become a saint?

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How does a woman become a saint?

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If an average man and a Prince Charming let you choose, who would you marry?

No matter how the times change, the girls who choose Prince Charming still account for the vast majority, right?

Of course, in today's increasing social status of women, many women disdain to answer such questions.

It reminds me of an acquaintance of mine, Ah Juan, whom we have known for many years.

Ah Juan is from a rural background, her husband is a street man, and they are introduced to marry. Maybe such a marriage was not equal at the beginning, but Ah Juan felt very satisfied, she loved her husband very much, and she was also very dedicated to her in-laws. Ah Juan's husband is an ordinary person who can't be found in the pile of people, there is no sweet talk, there is no love or no love, but it is not bad for her.

The problem is after the birth of the child.

When Ah Juan gave birth to a daughter for the first time, her husband's attitude changed. Ah Juan realized that she was a rural hukou and could give birth to a second child, so she soon became pregnant again. But God did not go along with it, and the second child was a daughter. At this time, not only the husband, but also the mother-in-law's attitude became cold.

At that time, it was the era of family planning, and Ah Juan wanted to have a third child, but she grasped the family planning tightly and did not dare to move.

When the eldest daughter was three years old, her husband cheated. She went to the door and blocked the woman in the house and got into a fight.

I thought that the family was going to break up, but I didn't expect ah juan to firmly disagree with the divorce, and then it was gone. But since then, Ah Juan has been better to her husband and has served him like an emperor. At the same time, she was determined to have a son.

She looked everywhere for remedies for giving birth to a son, tried and failed, and when she was nearly forty years old, her fertility began to decline, and on two occasions she was so hard to conceive that the embryo stopped in less than two months. The incessant pregnancy miscarriages tortured her to the point of utter emaciation.

I advised her not to do it, but she said one thing: I must have a son!

Don't think that Ah Juan is a person who will only have babies, all these years, she has been working, and her performance in the company is still good, once to the position of supervisor. She made a lot of money and bought a new house.

This is where I don't understand, a woman, IQ EQ online, financial independence, has her own circle of friends, why in the question of having a son has never been able to get around?

Thanks to the IVF technology, with unremitting efforts, Ah Juan finally gave birth to a white and fat son as she wished. Witnessing her years of bumpy road to the child, I personally took the child out and sincerely wished her what she wanted, and the end of the story must be a happy ending.

Later, Ah Juan began to be busy with the baby again, and did not contact me for a long time.

Three years have passed.

One day, in the hospital, I met Ah Juan, who was taking her child to the doctor, and her face was tired and her eyes were blank.

I asked with concern about her recent situation.

Ah Juan shook her head: "Don't mention it, now I live in the new house with my son, and my husband and daughter live in the old house." They came over every night for dinner and the meals were still made by me. I went home after eating, and I had to clean up. ”

It seems that all the sufferings in life arise from obsession. Ah Juan's persistence for so many years does not seem to have received the return she expected, and the future road seems to need to grit her teeth to go on.

"You're such a saint." This sentence blurted out, and I found that it did not have a brain.

Ah Juan didn't care, just shook her head and smiled bitterly.

I looked at her and remembered a passage written by the writer Zhang Xiaofeng:

A 16-year-old girl asked a nun, "If I were a nun, wouldN't I be canonized as a saint?" Is it true that only male priests can be canonized as saints? ”

The nun said, "Of course a woman can be canonized as a saint, but that does not matter, all women, if they are married and have children, she is equivalent to a saint." ”

"As long as you get married and have children, can you be a saint?" Then I'm going to get a Prince Charming to marry. ”

"The girl who married Prince Charming can't become a saint."

"So, what kind of man will become a saint if you marry?"

"Marry an ordinary man."

"What kind of man is an ordinary man?"

"For example, the man is lazy, you have to be diligent, and when you are diligent, you are very much like a saint."

"For example, if the man is irritable, you have to be gentle, and when you are gentle, you are very much like a saint."

"Sometimes, the man is unfaithful, what can you do?" You have to forgive, and when you forgive, you are very much like a saint. ”

"If the man's money has not been repaid, you have paid it back for him; you have visited for him if the illness of a relative or friend who should have gone has not gone, but you have visited him." He doesn't know how to give thanks, you don't expect anything in return, and then you're a lot like a saint. When the saints are alive, they are often forgotten. ”

I know why I blurted out a sentence like that. When I read this passage, I was young and thought it was funny. Looking at Ah Juan now, she suddenly seemed to understand that God had made her a saint.

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