Have you ever been truly loved and hurt by a member of the opposite sex, he treats you wholeheartedly, tries his best to give you, is willing to give you the best things in the world, always accompanies you, guards you, not only adds icing on the cake to you, but also gives you charcoal, as long as you have a word, he will come to your side and willingly put down the things in your hands for you.
You know deeply that the other party loves you, but because it is too easy to get it, you do not take the other party to heart, often say some unpleasant words, and do something that makes the other party feel infinitely disappointed.
In the end, he is difficult to accept and chooses to retreat from the difficulties; or, you are pursued by the other party, repeatedly entangled, feeling bored in your heart, and finally you do not come together.
By the time you realize that the other person is the best person for you, and you have lost him, you have long since lost him, and by the time you look back to find him, you have long since lost sight of him. When you inquire about his affairs, take the initiative to find him, and try to save him, but you know that the old love between you has long been overwhelmed. At this time, the heart that hits you is endless sorrow, and at this time, you suddenly realize that what was once unwatchable in your bones has long been unable to climb high: eternal regret.
once:
Once he fell in love with you at first sight, gave you gifts, said some words of affirmation, praised you, and found various reasons to meet you, you felt that his external conditions were not good, or his appearance was not as good as you liked.
Or, although you know that he loves you, you feel that he is honest and more wooden, and inappropriate.
He pursues you bitterly, and you feel that he has repeatedly dropped the price and is difficult to rely on. In the end, you rejected the other party, the other party is not willing to let go, pursues you bitterly, changes the way to please you, and you are not moved, repeatedly avoid the other party, or do something that hurts the other party, says some ugly words, and finally the other party is completely dead to you.
The other party has saved enough "disappointment" and will let go, unwilling to have any more contact with you.
The love affair between the two people came to an end for the time being.
now:
Time flies, the sun and the moon flies, a period of time has passed, you will experience some things and some changes, some ideas and concepts will be different from before, for the matter of choosing a mate, your ideas may be very different from before, the type you liked in your heart before may become the type you hate, and the type you didn't look at before may make you like it.
At this time, you may be nostalgic for a certain opposite sex that you have rejected, only to truly understand his deep affection for your money, you want to save, take the initiative to understand each other, and take the initiative to pay attention to each other's living conditions.
You find that he has become more mature than before, better than before, his living conditions have become better, you feel that he has grown, improved, is the ideal partner, but he has another half, the past love between you has long been overwhelmed, you want to get close to him, but you find that he is already unattainable.
At this time, you will feel embarrassed in your heart, appear a little embarrassed, and you may feel remorse for your past choices, which is a regret that you cannot make up for, and it is also a lasting pain in your heart.