Men and women form a family, and many things tend to merge into one.
Will start living in the same room, will start sharing a closet, will start eating together, etc.
Even if it is money, after that, each other's money will become jointly owned by husband and wife.
In this process, there may be some couples, even if they are married, they are still in charge of their own money, and they will not interfere too much with each other, but there are always times when men will give their salaries to women and let women manage.
Men hand in their salaries, which is a recognition of women, a trust in women, and a way to express love.
Being able to receive a man's salary, many times, women will really be happier.
Two people together, as a man, you are willing to give the salary to the woman, which is a good thing, but while you hand in the salary, there are some things that you must also pay attention to.
Make sure the other person can take good control.
There is always a difference between people and people, and the difference is very big.
Some women, she will be better at managing money, know how to distribute reasonably, appropriate investment, will not come randomly, money in her hands, not only will not disappear for no reason, but also always be able to continue to appreciate.
There are also some women who really have no concept of money, and whenever they have money, they will spend it in a big way, no matter how much money they have, they will always be able to spend the money quickly, and then there is nothing left.
A woman who knows how to run a family and can always control the money well, give the money to her, let her manage your money, of course, it doesn't matter, this is even a very good thing.
You don't have to worry so much, she will control everything, let you save your mind and effort, and she will feel happy because you believe.
And a woman who is obviously a loser and has no concept of money, if you obviously know how to calculate better, then it is really unwise to give the money to her, and your hard work will easily be wasted.
All in all, after handing over the money to the woman, at least for a period of time, you should not be too slack, and take a good look at how she manages the money, and whether she can manage the money all the time.
If she can, you just have to trust her all the time, and if she can't do it, you'd better be involved in it, don't be too reassured about her.
Normal expenses, do not blame.
When a man pays his salary, for some time, the man becomes indifferent to everything in the family, does not know that chai rice oil and salt is actually quite expensive, does not know the expenses of a family, in fact, it is really not small.
Then, women obviously save money, in a good way to save money, even a new dress is reluctant to buy, but men still always feel that women are spending money indiscriminately, money is always a lot less soon, but also all kinds of complaints about women.
Needless to say, this situation, of course, is not good, women work hard, should not be such a result.
Giving money to women, to a certain extent, actually means that women have the right to dominate and can spend.
After handing in your salary, you should indeed be measured in your expenses, but it should definitely not be that the other party is obviously very frugal, you always feel that she is spending randomly, you better understand the price of vegetables on weekdays, monthly expenditures, etc.
Raising a family, even if it is only food, clothing, shelter and transportation, it always needs a lot of money, and if there are children, it will be very much.
So, don't always make groundless accusations, you'd better understand the actual situation and try to make more money.
Within a normal range, you must know how to accept, but also to thank the woman for her efforts, to tell her a hard work, only in this way, the woman will feel that your money really belongs to her, her pay is really worth it, and managing money is not just a form.
Every once in a while, check your balance.
Speaking of which, since you give the money to the other party, you should absolutely trust the other party.
However, even if you are very trusting and hard-earned money, you better pay more attention.
Because there are really some times, unconsciously, the other party may spend money in places you don't know, and if the other party is not careful, a lot of money will become gone.
Trust is trust, even if you trust, it is not easy to make money after all, and life will inevitably have accidents occasionally.
Therefore, every once in a while, you had better review it with each other and seriously understand how much money you have and where it is spent, which is very necessary.
In this way, you will always have an understanding of your money, and if one day the other party changes his mind, tries to misbehave, or accidentally falls into some traps and scams, you will be able to know in time and be able to take measures.
Worldly things, that is too easy to change after all, a person's heart, that is too difficult to speculate after all, in cherishing this relationship, giving the other party a sense of security at the same time, pay more attention, but also protect themselves, it is still very necessary.
This is really not to trust each other, but you have to give each other trust, the other party should also make you feel at ease, can be open, transparent, can be more down-to-earth, which is more conducive to each other's harmony.
In marriage, who manages the money, how to manage the money, whether the man pays the salary, that is not necessarily true.
Either way, as long as they can accept each other and feel good, it is okay.
As for saying that if men are willing to turn in and women want to do so, then women should know how to manage each other's money well, and men should be generous and still have to be a little more defensive.
The money that should be spent should be willing to let women spend, but they must also grasp each other's capital movements.
Men hand in their salaries and let women manage money, which is a kind of performance that does not see the outside, and really lets women be the performance of the hostess.
And giving money to women, willing to let women dominate, that will appear more sincere.
In addition, in addition to sincerity, you can properly know the situation of money, and you can better protect yourself and each other.
Text/Tan Meng
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