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Before falling in love, it is important to understand that a good relationship is effortless.
If you want to talk about healthy love, two people get along comfortably and sincerely with each other, there is no so-called trade-off between the pros and cons, but from the heart of the like, want to be together.
If a person is with you, you need to work hard to please, to please, to cater to, in fact, there is no point.
After all, long-term love should be against each other, each other does not need too much effort, two people together know how to cherish each other.
In this world, real long-lasting relationships are maintained on the same level.
Each other can be their true selves, in front of each other do not need to be strong, do not need to show effort, he will understand your good, will be more sincere to you.
You see, those good feelings can let go of the world for each other.
There is no need to repeatedly tempt, a person who loves you will let you feel his sincerity, will understand you with his heart, and stand firmly with you.
If a person always seems to be more deliberate in front of you and does not treat you with heart, there is no need to force together.
Falling in love is like a balance, and only by maintaining balance can we get along better.
Feelings of this thing, too hard is not necessarily a good thing, the real feelings that can go to the end, in fact, are to be true to themselves, do not need to deliberately cater to.
A man who loves you, no matter what you look like, he will come to love you.
In real life, we may care too much about each other because we love someone, and sometimes we will try to maintain it because we are afraid of losing.
However, obedient, the person who needs you to work hard to please, he does not love you so much at all, the more you give, the more you endure, and in the end there may not be a good result.
Good love is your most authentic self, no need to please, others will also see your good, will treat you with heart.
In fact, true love, where you need to do so much, you just need to take a step towards him, the remaining ninety-nine steps he will come to you.
Believe that there will always be someone who appreciates you and doesn't need your effort. Love is not complicated, and falling in love is also a beautiful thing.
As long as you meet the right person, then for you, love or marriage is just one of the longest, most interesting and most memorable journeys of life that you and the like-minded person have experienced together.
Su Cen said: "Really good love is "effortless", there is no need to deliberately please and work hard to manage, and the two people are already comfortable with nature.
If a love affair and a person have to expend a huge amount of energy to please you, this is doomed to not be able to accompany you to the end. The person who loves you the most will not be willing to let you work so hard."
"Effortless" love can go on better. You know each other, trust each other, don't need too many words, one look at each other will understand your mind.
You will simply appreciate, you will want to laugh when you see each other, you will not be able to help but approach, you will want to hug, you see these things happen naturally.
Good love may not be so vigorous, but a long stream, with each other will feel at ease, maybe he is not perfect, but in your heart is the best.
Even if the passion for each other fades, they will want to hug each other. Therefore, no matter when, we must learn to recognize ourselves, and good love is effortless.