In 1997, Ding Haifeng starred in Wu Song in "Water Margin", but became obsessed with Pan Jinlian's actor Wang Siyi, returned home, and proposed a divorce to his wife Tang Ge: "I like other women, let's get a divorce!" Tang Ge was not noisy or very calm: "Well, give you some time to consider, if you still want to divorce, I promise you!" ”
Ding Haifeng was born in an ordinary family in Jilin Province, he liked literature and art since he was a child, for a while, he fell in love with singing, wanted to be a singer, and then gave up and was admitted to the performance department of Jilin Art College, wanting to become a star through acting.
The entertainment industry is also full of talents, after graduation, there is no relationship, no background, no one asked him to act, can only run the dragon set, earn some small money to maintain life.
Later, Zhang Shaolin filmed "Water Margin", other actors were selected, only Wu Song is not easy to find, he needs a tall, handsome, very upright gentleman.
One day, he saw a picture of Ding Haifeng in a magazine, felt that this person was very much in line with Wu Song's requirements, and sent him an invitation.
At that time, Ding Haifeng had not played the main role, running the dragon set every day, and his wife Tang Ge had just married, and Tang Ge was two years older than him.
I love him very much, not abandon him, but encourage him, believe that he is excellent, and there will always be a day when he will come out.
The opportunity came like this, Ding Haifeng came to the crew, and the director told him: Wu Song's fight against the tiger is not a prop, nor a stand-in, it is a real tiger.
Ding Haifeng was startled, worried about being eaten by the tiger, the director smiled and told him: Rest assured, it is a zoo, very well-behaved, the keeper is watching from the side, for the sake of insurance, or invested 100,000 insurance.
Ding Haifeng could only agree, he needed to show himself too much, although the danger also had to agree.
Wu Song's sister-in-law Pan Jinlian and Ding Haifeng have a lot of rival plays, Pan Jinlian is played by Wang Siyi, a 25-year-old very beautiful young actress, to have a figure, to look like a look, Ding Haifeng's eyes are reluctant to leave.
Because of the needs of the plot, the two often work together to discuss the script and discuss with each other, which is really a long-term love.
After a long time, there is a different feeling, Wang Siyi is a single woman, and Ding Haifeng is a married person.
The relationship between the two of them was particularly good, and even rumors were spread, Tang Ge also heard about it, once called him to ask him what was going on, Ding Haifeng said to go home and talk about it.
After the scene was filmed, wu song, who he played, was a great success, and Ding Haifeng returned home confidently and said to Tang Ge: "I am in love with another woman, let's divorce!" ”
Tang Ge did not expect in his dreams that he was looking forward to her husband coming home, and the last time her husband said that he would go home and say it again, it turned out that he wanted to divorce her.
She was very angry, really wanted to beat him up hard, make a big fuss, cry, make trouble, hang him, make him turn upside down, and then think about it, not only can not save her husband, but make her husband leave her faster, give him a period of time to consider it.
There was no quarrel, no trouble, and no scolding him, but said to Ding Haifeng: "We are not married for a day or two, I give you two or three months to consider, if you think about it, I feel that I still want to divorce, I can promise you." ”
With Tang Ge's words, Ding Haifeng was relieved, and he felt that divorcing his wife was a matter of ten to nine.
That night, the wife moved away, the children were also taken away, Ding Haifeng was at home, looking at the empty house, feeling particularly lonely, the floor was washed clean and tidy, the whole house was neatly packed, there were traces left by the wife everywhere, and their warm little home had now become so cold.
At the table, the half-open drawer caught his attention, and hurriedly took a closer look, and there were many letters in the drawer, and hurriedly pulled out a look, all written to himself.
Out of curiosity, he opened the envelope and saw that each letter contained Tang Ge's thoughts and concerns for him.
This letter is the wife who wrote one letter a day on the day he left home, but did not send it, and saw his wife's care and love for him and her vision of a better life in the future.
Looking at Ding Haifeng's blurred eyes, trembling shoulders, and sour nose, he actually lay on the table and cried loudly, scolding himself while crying: "You are so asshole, you love you so much, you are worried about your wife, and you actually want to divorce her." ”
He couldn't stay any longer, so he rushed to his mother-in-law's house and apologized to Tang Ge: "Wife! I'm sorry, I know it's wrong, you go back with me. ”
The two hugged each other, and the tears also flowed together, which were tears of joy, tears of happiness, and Tang Ge said: "Good! Let's go home and live a good life."
Lin Haifeng almost lost a good wife at the thought of a mistake, and since then he has lived with his wife wholeheartedly, and as long as he has time, he will accompany her at home.
Later, he learned that his wife suffered from a serious thyroid disease, it turned out that that time was the time when he was filming, his thinking changed, his wife had to take care of the elderly at home, and he had to take care of the children, he did not care about his wife, deliberately snubbed his wife, the wife was in a bad mood, suffering from this disease, he felt too sorry for his wife.
It also reduced the frequency of filming, accompanied his wife to see a doctor, accompanied his wife, and did not go out to shoot until his wife's condition improved.
Since then, he feels that he must be worthy of his wife, can no longer do anything sorry for Tang Ge, and concentrate on his acting skills.
In "Wolf Warrior" and "In the Name of the People", Ding Haifeng has excellent performances, and he has also grown from an actor who runs a dragon set to a well-known old drama star, and his love and career have achieved complete success.
Tang Ge is also a wise woman, with her unique way to save her husband, save the marriage, but also harvest happiness, now Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge married for more than 20 years, the marriage is still very happy.
