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Although the state has long liberalized the three-child policy, few young people are willing to have more children. Many young people do not even have a second child, let alone a third child. This is especially evident in large cities. However, this is still better in the countryside, where the idea of son preference still exists, and most people want a son.
It was under the influence of his parents' patriarchal mentality that the nephew was forced to have a third child. The nephew is a chef, since the end of 2019, due to the impact of the epidemic, the nephew's income has not been ideal, the niece is a full-time mother, her main job is to take care of her two daughters, the family barely relies on the nephew's meager income and the family's acres of land to survive. Since her niece-in-law became pregnant with her third child, she has repeatedly wanted to abandon her plan to have three children, and for this reason, her grandmother and neighbors have not hesitated to persuade her. In April last year, the niece and daughter-in-law finally gave birth to her third child, and the whole family was very happy to see that it was a son. However, the nephew and the two were not happy.
After having three children, the nephew decided to go to Anhui with his friends to open a hotel. Since last year, his business has been very smooth and his income has increased a lot. Although the epidemic is still serious in many places, the nephew's business is all right, and because the local government is better controlled, the epidemic has not affected their business.
A few days ago, I saw a sentence from Mr. Zeng Shiqiang again: There is no invincible road in heaven, and heaven has the virtue of good life, since he gave birth to a person, he will give you a way to live, and god will give him money when he gives birth to a person.
Recently, during a visit to the village, I met a family of four children whose living conditions were not very good. After understanding, I learned that they were to give birth to a second child, did not expect to give birth to triplets, and suddenly gave birth to two sons and a daughter. I congratulate the hostess and congratulate her family on her thriving family. Before leaving, I asked him what difficulties he had, and she said that she had more children, and hoped that her husband would have more income. I said that children are the hope of the future, with talent there will be everything, after having children, parents' income will often increase a lot. "You don't have to say, since having the three of them, my husband went to Shanghai to work, and the income did provide a lot!" The hostess replied in surprise.
The wife's cousin works in Nanjing, and the couple usually has to take care of four elderly people and their sons, and life is very stressful. Perhaps they fully realized the difficulty of having an only child, and they decided to have another child. Everything went well, my cousin gave birth to a son in March, and I left him a message of congratulations on WeChat. When everyone was happy that she had a second child, another good news also came, and her cousin's lover was about to be promoted to a middle-level cadre of the Nangang Group, with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands.
Whether there is a certain connection between the birth of the child and the transfer of parents, when we read what Mr. Zeng said before his death, we seem to be suddenly enlightened.
Life cannot be repeated, and fertility cannot be repeated, and when we are hovering in financial constraints and choosing to have children again, how many people can recognize the change in happiness after childbirth.