The TV series "The World of Man" has a line: "The train of years does not stop for anyone, the platform of fate, joy and sorrow are only moments." ”
The train of years, the joys and sorrows of life are moments, whether it is sadness or happiness, boiling up, is a moment.
But the beautiful moments of love, marriage, and childbirth in the recently broadcast "Dear Child" are all moments, but the sadness is infinitely magnified, just like the words fang Yinuo said: after the storm, it is still wind and rain.
A sad plot is infinitely magnified, as if the real hammer is really selling anxiety, I thought that if I found a donor, the ending would be different, but after seeing the end, the audience said bluntly: the ending cannot be chased.
01. After the wind and rain is still wind and rain
"Dear Child" is a family life drama starring Qin Hao, Ren Suxi, Nie Yuan and Xie Keyin. The drama is based on the movie "Left and Right", which tells the story of a divorced parent who is advised by a doctor to have another child when they are advised to have another child in order to save their daughter with leukemia.
Many viewers chased the TV series at the same time, in order to know the ending as soon as possible, they went to see the ending of the movie "Left and Right". All the movies are called left and right, really left and right, one is a mother in order to save the child, in the case of both sides are reorganizing the family, left and right; the other half of the two families can not accept the fact of having another child, but also pity this sick child, left and right; the third is the whole plot, seemingly showing the greatness of maternal love, but in fact it is the selfishness of maternal love, selfishly want to save the child, but she did not think about whether this child who was not born is fair, and whether it is fair to this rescued child. It can be seen that both saving and not saving are selfish.
The movie "Left and Right", whether it is the plot or the ending, makes people feel very heart-wrenching, and after watching it, they feel very depressed, only "left and right", there is no two completes.
The TV series is based on the "Left and Right", the storyline of the TV series is similar to the movie "Left and Right", but in the latest updates, when the doctor told Fang Yinuo to find a suitable donor, everyone was happy for Fang Yinuo and Hehe, thinking that the ending would be different. Because their lives are already bitter and need to add some sugar.
But to explain all this in two words, that is the word bubble. When everyone is immersed in the joy of "the child is saved", the donor suddenly stops donating, and the hope is like a bubble in an instant. Fang Yinuo cried, she said: After the wind and rain, it is still wind and rain.
The ending that the audience is looking forward to, Hehe is saved, Fang Yinuo and Lao Xie have their own children, Xiao and Dong Fan also have their own children, new life, new hope. But the ending is counterproductive, and the ending of the movie "Left and Right", which makes people depressed and anxiety is infinitely magnified, is this not selling anxiety?
We may be like a character in the TV series, life is already very bitter, we need to add some sugar, but after the storm or the wind and rain, the ending is already doomed, so is it necessary to chase down?
2. Anxiety is infinitely magnified
The RATINGS of the TV series "Dear Child" just aired broke 1 3 times on the second day, followed by the people's network comments: "Selling anxiety" is appropriate. The reason is that "Dear Child" superimposes various extreme life problems, causing people to feel social anxiety, so that even the People's Network has criticized the drama by name: "Selling anxiety should be stopped in moderation."
The first anxiety: the bitterness of a woman giving birth
At the beginning of the TV series, the audience saw the melasma on the woman's face in order to give birth, the body was transformed, the stretch marks like a watermelon, and the joy of the family's arrival of a small life after giving birth, but no one paid attention to the mother who needed quiet and care the most.
These all reflect the bitterness of women giving birth to children, the need to bear the pain that ordinary people can not bear, these are precisely the reasons why contemporary women are reluctant to have children, which is the first anxiety, which is magnified by too extreme.
The second anxiety: unreliable husbands and mothers-in-law
Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child, the husband was not around, after giving birth, the husband was busy sending placenta, this unreliable husband, so that this woman was physically and mentally exhausted. In addition, there is an unreliable mother-in-law, who compares the daughter-in-law to a sow giving birth, taking care of the child while smoking, the son uses a diaper for the granddaughter, etc., and all the jaw-dropping plot is shown on this mother, which is the second place of anxiety.
The third anxiety: after the storm is still the wind and rain
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced, it was difficult for both sides to find the right person to remarry, but Hehe was sick, it could be seen that happiness was like a bubble, sadness became the protagonist, after the wind and rain or wind and rain, and the end of the story was already doomed. This infinitely magnified sadness, in addition to bringing anxiety to people, is anxiety, when anxiety is infinitely magnified, just like Xianglin sister-in-law, no one will sympathize, it will only make the audience feel that selling anxiety and giving up chasing dramas.
Life is already very bitter, don't provoke anxious emotions anymore, stay away from the people and things that make you anxious, life needs to add some sugar.
03. Life is very hard and needs a happy "magnifying glass"
Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, to love life after seeing the truth of life."
Just like the lines of "The World of Man", the train of the years does not stop for anyone, the platform of fate, the joys and sorrows are only moments, we have experienced the joys and sorrows of the world, see the true heart of the world, still love life, this is the posture we should have, life is very bitter, it needs a happy "magnifying glass".
01. Having a child is very painful, but a "mother" is a "magnifying glass"
The pain of having a child is only known to you after you have actually experienced it, but why are so many people willing to have children? Is it to find guilt? Of course not. Whether it is to have a child, or to raise a child is very painful, but there is this moment, that is, the first time the child opens his mouth to call you "mom or dad", you will feel that all the efforts are worth it, this is the happy "magnifying glass", this moment is worth being magnified, many years later, you think about the scene that was once there, the corners of the mouth will still rise.
It can be seen that life is very bitter, it is the lack of eyes to find happiness, to see more beautiful things, the mood is suddenly cheerful, life is still worthy of our love.
02. Pain will pass, remember that happiness is enough
An exam was broken, a love was lost, a business failed, every time was unforgettable, every time was remembered, and every time I thought about it was painful. But so what, the pain will pass, and it is enough to remember that happiness is enough.
Exams failed, love is lost, entrepreneurship fails, on the train of years, these are just life experiences, remember the scenery and happiness along the way is enough, everything will pass.
03. Calm and calm
In the old days, everyone would have an aura of different sizes, but this aura is "past tense". The aura fades while taking away a lot of happiness, only the calm and calm in the heart, happiness belongs to themselves.
Just as Mr. Yang Dai said: We once longed for the waves of fate so much, and in the end we found that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calm and calm in the heart; we were so looking forward to the recognition of the outside world, and in the end we knew that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.
The world is its own, happiness is also its own, find a happy "magnifying glass", be a calm and calm person.
End of this article, thank you for reading.
Topic: Do you think "Dear Kids" is selling anxiety? Do you still have a point in chasing dramas?
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