First, fathers like to play games, which will make children lack self-control.
Parents are your child's first teacher, and your words and demeanor deeply affect your child. When children often see their parents holding mobile phones, they will definitely think that mobile phones must be particularly fun toys, so they will also have a strong curiosity about mobile phones. When the child gets the mobile phone, it is found that as long as the finger is lightly touched, the mobile phone can change the content, pattern, sound, which are all very deep temptations for the child, and the child will feel that playing games must be a good thing, because the father will hold the mobile phone to play when he returns home from work, and over time the child will also be addicted to the game or addicted to brushing the mobile phone, lacking self-control.
Children who lack self-control can concentrate in addition to playing games, and other times it is difficult for children to do the same thing for a long time, and attention is easily diverted, emotional fluctuations are relatively large, memory loss and even language organization ability will be affected. Children who lack self-control do not know that they should learn, but they cannot control themselves to take the initiative to learn, sometimes they think of learning it after reading this vibrato first, but they can't stop unconsciously, and an hour or two is wasted in the blink of an eye, although they regret it afterwards, but the next time it is still the same.
Some parents like to brush their phones while holding their children, but they don't know that your child is also looking at the phone in your arms. This has a particularly great impact on children whose bodies are not yet mature, especially on vision, which is irreversible once the vision is damaged.
Second, the father likes to play games, which will affect the family parent-child relationship and cannot feel the warmth of the family
and happiness, which leads to a lack of security in the child.
When parents are addicted to playing games, they must not be in the mood to accompany their children, and they do not have the energy to care about what the child thinks, and there is no energy to care about the child's psychological needs and material desires at this moment. Children spend most of the day at school, at night to see their parents they also want to talk to their parents more, play for a while, but what they get is the parents' cold and impatient words: "You go to play by yourself", the child watched his parents holding the mobile phone but ignored themselves, how helpless, aggrieved, helpless. Children will think that in the eyes of their parents, they are not as important as a mobile phone.
If children do not get such care and attention from their parents for a long time, they will psychologically alienate their parents, slowly begin not to talk to their parents, do not tell their parents about anything, and as they grow older, they begin to need their parents, and they do not want to go home again.
If parents are in their spare time, they can put down their mobile phones to accompany their children more, and on the weekends, the family will go out on a happy outing together, even if they accompany their children for a walk and talk about their hearts, in fact, for children, this short time is also happy and happy.
Third, fathers like to play games, which will affect the father's prestige and image in the child's heart.
As the saying goes, "a tiger father has no dog", and the influence of fathers on children is undoubtedly extremely huge. Many good people are fortunate to have a good father who can teach them carefully, and will make them good at all stages of their lives and not deviate from the normal track. And there are unfortunate people, because of the bad influence of their fathers, their lives have become a mess.
Once chatting with children at a class meeting, most of the children mentioned their fathers and said with disgust: "Oh, my dad can't do anything, he just lay on the couch and played with his mobile phone after work!" ”
Can you imagine that such a father can have a good impression in the child's mind? In the future, if you let your child write homework quickly, stop looking at the mobile phone, when the game is played, the child will really say: "You still play every day, why don't you let me play?" "How do you answer?"
And a father addicted to mobile games is neither a good father nor a good husband! The discord between husband and wife and the continuous family conflicts are also very harmful to children.
Some people will say that many jobs now need mobile phones to complete ah, it is impossible not to touch the mobile phone!
For example, since the beginning of the epidemic, I often collect various information sent by parents through my mobile phone when I am at home, and during that time my children will also ask me, why do you often hold your mobile phone!
I told her this: "Child, now this society is a digital, modern and intelligent era, mom and dad need computers and mobile phones to complete a lot of work, just like your online courses, this time you need mobile phones and computers to help themselves and improve themselves." You see, Mom and Dad are not playing with their phones now, but working with their phones, and when Mom and Dad don't work, they will immediately put down their phones. And we adults in all aspects of the body function has matured, and you are still small, all aspects of the body is in growth and development, especially vision is not fully developed, if you stare at electronic products for a long time will cause damage to vision, once the vision is damaged, it is irreversible. "Children will naturally understand.
Everything has a good side and a bad side, and when you use it correctly, it can help you and even make you more effective. However, once you are addicted to it, you will be dominated by mobile phones or computers, making your playthings lose your mind and cannot extricate yourself.
So put down the phone, spend more time with your family, you will find that life is so beautiful!