It is said that "looking forward to the son into a dragon, hoping for a girl to become a phoenix", this is the wish of every parent, so the child's achievements will become a line that affects the parents' hearts, the child's grades are good, the parents are naturally happy, and when the child's grades are poor, the parents will become anxious and uneasy, not only bringing negative emotions to themselves, but also bringing psychological burdens to the children.
Recently, a video about a young boy slapping himself because he did not understand the extracurricular reading topic set off a lot of netizens on the Internet, the little boy in the picture continuously slapped himself, without the slightest mercy to his subordinates, making people feel pain across the screen.
His parents quickly found something wrong on his face when tutoring his son to study, looking at several red blood marks, parents asked the reason why the child was silent, so the more they thought about it, the stranger the parents tuned the home surveillance video, the video showed that the original quiet children, suddenly slapped themselves 2 times, and knocked out their eyes.
After seeing this scene, the parents deeply blamed themselves, and the initial speculation was that the child did not understand extracurricular reading comprehension, and his mother let him read it several times in a slightly heavier tone, which may have psychological pressure in his heart, so he angrily beat himself to vent. Afterwards, parents did not dare to ask the specific reason for the child, for fear of misunderstanding him again.
In this regard, some netizens have expressed their views in the comment area after seeing this:
A netizen said: I feel that he is a very strict person to himself, he will definitely be able to become a talent [like] [like] [like]
B netizen said: too extreme, too strict with themselves, can not stand failure, there are any setbacks in the future, there may be extremes [crying can not be sounded] pay attention to the child's mental health [tears]
Xiaobian feels that in China, parents attach the most importance to their children is learning, although today's rapid social development, employment competition pressure, strict requirements for children to study hard is not wrong, but we must pay attention to the way of education, blind scolding or preaching behavior will sometimes be counterproductive, pay more attention to communication with children.