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After the breakup, should I delete the contact information of my ex?
There are many such questions online, and on one social platform, the question has reached nearly a million views. It can be seen that many people have had similar confusion.
This National Day small long holiday, friend Xiaolu did not go anywhere, but chose to heal at home.
Half a year ago, Fawn broke up with her boyfriend who had been together for two years, and it was her boyfriend who proposed it.
Li Zongsheng sang in "Song for Myself": Love is just a high fever, and thoughts are followed by a cough that can't get better!
"Breaking up" is just a matter of words, but the pain after the breakup is difficult to heal.
Xiaolu said that after half a year of self-healing, she finally felt that she was about to get out of this relationship, using this small long holiday, she planned to clean up her mood, and immediately after the holiday, she would immediately devote herself to life with a new self.
However, what she did not expect was that her ex-boyfriend actually sent "miss you" in the early morning of the day before yesterday. At that moment, the fawn froze, and instantly felt that the wound that had been painstakingly repaired had been torn off by a layer of skin.
The strength of the previous cultivation collapsed in an instant, everything was abandoned, and what she regretted most was that she did not delete her ex's contact information at the beginning, if it was deleted at that time, the second injury would not occur now.
But why wasn't it deleted at the time?
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In fact, after the breakup, people who do not delete the contact information of the ex and still keep in touch have only one internal motivation, that is, the aftermath.
Cut off a relationship, few people can do the same crisp as a quick knife, most people will fall into a state of "cutting continuously, rationalizing and messing" after the breakup.
Especially for many women, it is often easier than men to get into a relationship and can't extricate themselves.
Although he said that he broke up, although you also nodded, but after the breakup, you were reluctant to delete his contact information. Because, in your subconscious, you will not really break up at all, you think that maybe it is just his angry words, maybe before long, he will come back!
Keeping his contact information is equivalent to leaving a small window and a fantasy for himself and his former feelings.
He's far away, but you still want to stay where you are and wait.
But in the end, you may only touch yourself, but you can't exchange it for a little benefit and positive energy, and even affect the life you already have.
Qiu Yingying in "Ode to Joy" met true love YingQin after experiencing a lost love, but later Ying Qin proposed to break up because she minded her past.