"Dear Child" many people have only broadcast six episodes and have been recommended by many people, saying that this show is really good, and many people who have watched it will say that this show is too real. Many people sighed: This is the real life.
"Dear Child" mainly tells the story of a loving little couple who have been married for many years and have a happy son. However, because of the birth of the child, there were inflection points and rifts in the intimate relationship, and finally parted ways. Experiencing the baptism of life, they are moving steadily in their respective life tracks.
The female number one in the play is Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi. She is a Chinese teacher at a middle school, and her husband is Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao. Their parents did not like their union at first, and reluctantly agreed, but did not want their daughter's married life to be so bad. Especially after giving birth to a child, the man was obviously not ready to become a father, and the birth of his daughter Xiao He disrupted everyone's peaceful life.
When you listen to the title of "Dear Child", you will feel that this drama is about a warm family, but this drama is a naked show of family problems. After watching six episodes in a row, I came to the conclusion that the emotions of those who were afraid of marriage and childbearing were once again infinitely magnified.
At the beginning, when the heroine was just pregnant, the whole family was very happy, and with the loss of body shape, swollen feet, stretch marks, etc. Some pressures followed, these problems may be experienced by every expectant mother. It is also some test of the aimed mothers.
Of course, the pain during childbirth is also difficult to endure, and sweat is like rain. Tough production. When he exited the delivery room, the husband actually dropped the chain. In order to take the placenta to the mother, I actually missed the birth of my wife, resulting in a sad scene of my wife being unaccompanied when I pushed out the delivery room, which is really chilling, and may be a true portrayal of many expectant mothers.
Of course, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also upsetting, just after giving birth to the daughter-in-law is in a weak state, the mother-in-law does not know to take care of the daughter-in-law who needs to rest, and what is more infuriating is to take her granddaughter to play mahjong and smoke, staining the granddaughter's body with a smell of smoke, which mother's body will be very angry, and her own small child is in a bad environment.
There are too many contradictions in the family, the husband is not involved, it is indeed a direct maker, but also the bearer of the tragedy, the parting of a marriage, the role of the husband is very important, plays a key role.
Since Xiao He's birth, Xiao Lu has been wandering in the workplace every day, because of the business relationship, he must complete the instructions of his superiors, Xiao Lu holds the determination to win and negotiates with Zhu Zhu. During the communication process, Zhu Zhu not only was easy-going, paying attention to the way he spoke, but also judged Xiao Lu's psychology. She did not expect that the married man in front of her, who had the intention of cooperation and invested in his favor, was actually a disaster in her life.
Zhu Zhu's mixing, Xiao Lu's irresponsibility let the family go to the abyss, but Xiao Lu did not do a good job as a husband, Fang Yinuo wanted to pursue the ultimate too picky and wanted to be a qualified mother, the husband had to escape but drank outside, did not answer the phone, etc., but also entangled with other women, Fang Yinuo's marriage is simply a "miserable" word. Perhaps this is also a true portrayal of many families, the wife takes care of the children at home, but the husband spends a lot of time outside, which is also the reason for the marriage to come to an end.
It seems that there are so many problems, but there is only endless repression, but in fact, the whole drama catches up and makes people feel suffocated. On the contrary, the mother-in-law played by Li Qinqin makes people want to laugh several times. She's not bad by nature and just wants to help, but it's too different from modern parenting concepts. Overall, the whole show looks annoying.
If a family wants to be harmonious and let the children grow up healthy and happy, only unilateral efforts are not enough, and the joint efforts of both husband and wife are required. Xiao Lu's escape and Fang Yinuo's pickiness are all the reasons that led to the end of this marriage, which is also the common reason for many family divorces.
In this drama, many shots are more tricky, with multiple layers of realms, and the overall tone makes many people feel familiar, always feeling that something big will happen later, in order to highlight the anxiety and helplessness of new mothers after giving birth.