"Women who love to dress up are not serious", most of the older generation will have such a wrong perception, and it is obviously a prejudice to put a person without makeup and rise to her character.
The 68-year-old uncle is not simple, although he does not read much, he is very economically minded, and he has done a lot of small businesses to see which line makes money. He has dumped cattle and sheep, sold sugar gourds and rapeseed oil, and opened a small shop in the village for four or five years...
Relying on flexible brain melon seeds and hard work, Uncle Gao has saved a lot of money, and it is not a problem for pension companions and full payment of 200,000 or 300,000 to buy suites. Although today's tall uncle is nearly seventy years old, he still plants a few acres of land when he is idle, and when he is idle, he also goes to the city to work, and the social security he pays can receive 1200 yuan per month, and his life is comfortable and rich.
Uncle Gao has not been looking for many years of divorce, when he was young, he spent most of his energy on earning money, and now that he is older, he wants to find a confidant who can nag together, and there is a companion around him who is not alone.
Uncle Gao is not short of money, and he can find a young companion with his strength. But Uncle Gao said, we are traditional people, can not eat old cattle to eat tender grass, just want to find a 60 years old, really live a life, material conditions almost do not matter.
According to the requirements of Uncle Gao, the Red Lady helped match the 60-year-old Aunt Dou, who earned 60,000 yuan a year and had a house divorced. Aunt Dou is not simple, the business mind and Uncle Gao have a fight, in the words of Aunt Dou, her only hobby is to make money.
Aunt Dou opened a store to do business, and once it opened, it was 13 years, and in 2000, she earned 30,000 or 40,000 a year. Behind the scenery in front of people, the big mother said that she was busy all year round, Chinese New Year's Eve did not rest, and also talked about a deal before coming to the blind date, the big mother said proudly, it is not comfortable to make money for a day.
Although the aunt can earn money but is very stingy in terms of eating, in order to save money, oil, water is not willing to buy, but the aunt has a hobby, that is, love to dress up, when you encounter beautiful clothes, the eyes do not blink, do not look at the price, like to buy. The clothes in the wardrobe are very high-grade, and the price is also very beautiful, cheap four or five hundred, expensive three or four thousand.
Aunt Dou said that when she was a child, her family was too poor to open the pot, five brothers and sisters, ate the last meal without eating, and it rained heavily outside in the house. Aunt Dou, who was in the middle of Fang's age, found her uncle and begged her uncle to help her in-laws get some money to buy bud rice for her brother.
Speaking of this hard time, Aunt Dou's eyes were moist, she was really poor at that time, and she secretly made up her mind that she must work hard to make money to let her family live a good life and let her face have light.
After getting married, aunt Dou in addition to running the house, but also started a small business, quite business-minded she made a lot of money, at that time just selling popsicles a day can earn more than a hundred. Relying on talent and hard work, Aunt Dou built a large tile house for the family, bought various electrical appliances, and life became better and better, and the family who had been poor all their lives finally raised their eyebrows.
Career success family but not happy, Dou Aunt and ex-husband have no feelings, ex-husband never called her daughter-in-law or name, are used to call her "hey", in addition to disrespect, ex-husband also drunk and domestic violence, beating her as fun, Dou Aunt has been hidden until the child grows up to divorce.
Aunt Dou, like Uncle Gao, lacks nothing, and lacks a wife who hurts herself.
Red Niang brought Uncle Gao to Aunt Dou's house, and Aunt Dou was carefully dressed, dressed in a pink dress, with a ponytail, Qi bangs, exquisite makeup, like a young and beautiful girl, which made people shine.
After the two met, Aunt Dou had a good impression of Uncle Gao, and she had an eye rim, but Uncle Dou had a bad impression of the well-dressed Aunt Dou, and she couldn't stand the makeup of Aunt Dou, and the reason given made the Red Lady cry and laugh.
Uncle Gao felt that Aunt Dou was too fashionable, and looked at her with makeup, lipstick and eyeliner, "She is too fashionable, staring at people who are not going through the day, generally people who are going through the day are not too fashionable."
What age is this, the uncle is still old-fashioned concept, think that women's makeup is not serious, the makeup rises to character, obviously with personal prejudice.
Red Lady helped explain that it is a woman's nature to love beauty, and besides, the big mother's makeup is also to pay attention to this blind date.
Under the persuasion of the red lady, Uncle Gao reluctantly sat down and chatted with his mother. When Aunt Dou heard that Uncle Dou was divorced, she seemed to have some concerns, she was worried that under the mediation of her children, Uncle would have contact with his ex-wife again, and Uncle Dou said a harsh word, and his ex-wife died without contact, and Aunt Dou dispelled her worries and put her mind at ease.
Then, Uncle Gao said the idea of choosing a mate, wanted to find a wife to live in the world of two people, and from time to time to take a trip that said he would go, and took advantage of the movement to hurry up. In this regard, the aunt did not agree, bluntly said that there is no spare time to travel, there is time to earn money, half a second can not be wasted, only to make money is the most fulfilling.
When it comes to future life plans, the two also have differences. The eldest mother has a little granddaughter to take care of, and hopes that the man will come to her home to live, while the uncle bluntly says that she wants to live in a two-person world and does not want to have a burden on the children.
The two are not people on the same road, they can't talk together, and the blind date ends in failure.
epilogue:
Uncle Gao is obviously wearing colored glasses to see Aunt Dou, thinking that a woman with fashionable makeup is not a person who is going through the day, which is obviously a wrong old feudal cognition.
Love beauty is the nature of women, regardless of age, makeup and dressing, is a person's attitude towards themselves and life, makeup and dressing up women, happy themselves, but also respect others, they are not only for beauty, or to maintain a positive attitude towards life.
There is always a prejudice that once a woman is married and becomes a mother, she should be devoted to the family and cannot dress up brightly, otherwise she will be labeled as "not passing the day". Now what age, if you still use the old prejudice of the past to look at women, it is obviously a kind of discrimination, women love beauty and live a good life does not conflict at all.
Makeup and personality have nothing to do with each other, and people can't just look at the appearance, but also look at the inside. Uncle Gao's prejudice against women's makeup made him mistakenly conclude and lose interest in chatting with his aunt again, but even if the two looked at each other, there were huge differences in the way of life in their later years, uncle wanted to enjoy life, and aunt had to earn money every second.
Everyone has their own way of life, there is no right or wrong, only hope that every single elderly person can find the other half of their choice and spend the rest of their lives together.