Just a week after entering kindergarten, she was appointed as the head of the small class by the teacher, and when her mother came to pick her up, the teacher often praised the performance of the girl.
When other children go to kindergarten, they cry and don't want to be separated from their mothers. The girl was different, smiling and saying goodbye to her mother.
Crying in the classroom, she looked at the other children very curiously and comforted them, saying, "Don't cry, when school is over, your mother will come to pick us up." ”
When eating, many children need to be fed by the teacher, and the girls sit quietly on a small stool and eat lunch by themselves.
When it was time for the lunch break, the teacher coaxed this and then coaxed that. And the girl was already lying asleep in the bed.
The teachers in the class were very happy: This child is amazing! In addition to performing well in terms of personal self-care ability, he often takes the initiative to help teachers.
Less than a week after entering the kindergarten, he was appointed by the teacher as the head of the small class and became the teacher's assistant.
The same three-year-old child, why is there such a big difference between children? The class teacher chatted with the mother of the girl to find out why
It turned out that her mother was an early teacher, and she paid great attention to the cultivation of her children.
One year after taking the child into kindergarten early, the mother of the girl prepared the child in advance.
1. Go to bed early and get up early
When the child is growing up, he can sleep enough for 9 hours a day, which is the most basic guarantee. And many children in the 2 to 3 years old, developed the habit of sleeping late, by eleven or twelve o'clock have not slept, in the morning can not get up.
When the child goes to kindergarten, if he is pulled up by his parents to go to school in the morning, the child is naturally unhappy. There are even many children who are not sent by their parents until noon.
This habit is very bad, which is not conducive to children adapting to kindergarten life in time.
2. Let children learn to take care of themselves
For children who are about to enter kindergarten, there are some things that need to be learned by themselves, because after kindergarten, it is impossible to be like the situation at home.
So parents have 2 things to do:
Do not feed your child
Exercise in advance, let the child learn to eat on his own, give the child a small spoon, even if it is everywhere at the beginning, slowly the child will learn to grasp, and eat a lot of worry.
Do not walk with children in your arms
When a child can't walk, he wants to walk on his own, but once he learns to walk, he is too lazy to go. Often just a few steps, I reached out for my parents to hold.
There are even many children who go to kindergarten, and they are also carried to school by their parents and picked up.
3. Insist on reading picture books to your children before going to bed every day
Reading picture books to children can not only stimulate children's language expression, but also read with fingers, but also exercise children's visual tracking ability, and after children go to primary school, there will be no problem of not being able to keep up with the rhythm of the teacher's board book.
4. Make a plan with your child
For example, what time to go to bed, what time to get up, when can I play with toys, and how long is it to watch TV at a time? Allowing children to participate can also make children realize the length of time, and slowly children will have more concepts of time.
5. Teach children to learn to tidy up
You can start from the simplest, such as sorting out the toys you play with, putting the toys you have played in place, and slowly teaching your children to sort out their clothes and shoes.
6. Insist on listening to ancient poems to children
Children in early childhood, although the comprehension will be a little poor, but his memory will be super good, will be more interested in rhythmic words, insist on 10 minutes a day, let the child listen to more ancient poems, or three words of the thousand-word text.
The child remembers it as he listens. Slowly children are also able to accumulate a lot of ancient poems.
7. Cultivate children's habit of concentration
3 to 6 years old is the golden age for cultivating children's concentration, so parents should not disturb their children unless invited by their children when they play with toys.
As long as the child is focused on something, don't disturb the child.
And if some children can't focus on one thing, parents can also find some small games to cultivate their children's concentration to accompany their children. Help your child exercise his concentration.
When a child goes to kindergarten, it is the process of integrating from a family life to a group life. Some children will have some crying and even uneasy emotions when they suddenly enter the collective life.
If you can't adapt well to kindergarten life, that is to say, children will leave a certain shadow in group life. So it's important to be prepared in advance so that your child can quickly integrate into kindergarten.