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I am Xiaofang, an ordinary woman who is married to a beloved husband and lives a plain but happy life. My husband's name is Li Jun, and he is a gentle and filial person, and he takes care of me in every way. We have been married for ten years, and although we have not had children of our own, we have an indescribable tacit understanding and mutual understanding.
My family lives in a small city, and I live a comfortable life. My husband and I run a small furniture store together, and although the income is not very high, it is enough for us to live a simple and happy life. However, the peaceful life changed drastically after my mother-in-law and sister-in-law moved in with us.
The mother-in-law, called Granny Wang, is a traditional older generation of women, with a sense of fortitude and authority in her words and deeds. The sister-in-law is a pampered eldest lady who is always habitually looking forward to being taken care of and pampered by others. Ten years ago, Li Jun's parents entrusted us to take care of them due to some family reasons, so they moved to our house.
At first, I wasn't disgusted by this arrangement, on the contrary, I felt that being able to take care of them was a proper thing to do. However, as time went on, I gradually realized that they did not intend to stay with us just temporarily. Granny Wang began to criticize our lives and often made critical remarks, while my sister-in-law always felt that we had not taken enough care of them. They did not give us a penny of the household, but they demanded that we provide for their food and drink, and even asked us to transfer the house to them from time to time.
Our lives are becoming more and more difficult, and the atmosphere at home is becoming more and more tense. I often get into arguments with my husband because he always thinks we should think more about our family, and I feel like I've done enough. Whenever I objected, he always persuaded me that it was the responsibility of the family and that we should be more tolerant.
However, it became more and more difficult for me to endure this life. Every morning, I had to face the criticism and complaints of my mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and when I went home at night, I had to face the reproaches and persuasions of my husband. I began to feel like a bird trapped in a cage, unable to spread its wings and fly freely.
Recently, my conflict with my husband has reached its peak. He offered to transfer the house to them, and I was adamantly against it. I felt that this was unfair to us, and that it was unreasonable that our hard-earned house should be given to them! My quarrel with my husband became more and more intense, and finally we were on the verge of divorce. I didn't know what to do, I felt helpless and hopeless, and I didn't know if I could take it anymore.
The conflict between Li Jun and I intensified, and our relationship reached an unprecedented impasse. I decided to leave this home for a while to give us some time to calm down and think. So, I packed some simple luggage, left the house, and found a hotel to stay in.
In the hotel, I thought about the problems between us. I don't know what I should do to solve this dilemma. I love my husband, but I can't ignore the stress and distress his family is causing us. I thought maybe I should stand more firmly on my own feet and stop being swayed by their demands.
However, even if I made up my mind, I didn't know how to face Li Jun. I know that he is a dutiful man who is always grateful and respectful to his parents. I don't know if he will understand my choice and support me.
Just as I was deep in thought, my phone rang suddenly. It was Li Jun calling. I was a little surprised and didn't know why he called me. I picked up the phone and heard his anxious voice: "Xiaofang, where are you? I have been looking for you for a long time and I can't find you, how can you leave the house like this!"
I was silent for a moment, then said softly, "I just need some time to calm down and think about the issues between us." ”
Li Jun's voice trembled a little: "Xiaofang, I know that there are many conflicts between us, but I believe that we will be able to solve them." You can't just leave, we're going to have a good talk. ”
I pondered for a moment, then said, "Okay, I'll go back, let's talk." ”
I made an appointment with Li Jun and then hung up the phone. I felt a little uneasy in my heart, wondering if this conversation would go any further, but I knew I couldn't run away from it all the time, and I had to face reality.
When I got home, it was late at night. Li Jun was anxiously waiting for me in the living room, and when he saw me return, a smile of relief appeared on his face. I felt a warmth in my heart, knowing that he still cared about me.
We sat in the living room, Li Jun picked up the teacup and said gently: "Xiaofang, I know that there are many conflicts between us, but I believe that as long as we communicate well, we will be able to solve them." ”
I nodded, and said, "I'd like to be able to fix this, but I think we need to make some changes." ”
Li Jun was slightly stunned, and then asked, "What are you talking about?"
I pondered for a while, and then said, "I think we should give Granny Wang and my sister-in-law a clear attitude, tell them our bottom line, and no longer let them interfere in our lives at will." ”
Li Jun frowned, pondered for a while, and then nodded and said, "Maybe you have a point, we can't be led by their noses all the time, but I don't want to hurt them either." ”
I understand Li's concerns, but I feel like we have to make some changes to get out of this situation. So, Li Jun and I discussed some specific measures, and decided to have a good talk with Granny Wang and sister-in-law the next morning to clarify our attitude and bottom line.
The next morning, Li Jun and I went to Granny Wang and my sister-in-law's room. They looked a little surprised when they saw us coming in, and they didn't know what we were looking for them. I smiled slightly, and then said, "Mother-in-law, sister-in-law, we have something to say to you. ”
Granny Wang frowned and asked, "What's wrong?"
I took a deep breath and said, "We felt that there were a lot of conflicts between us, mainly because of poor communication between us, so we decided to talk to you guys and hopefully resolve the issue." ”
When the sister-in-law heard this, she said impatiently: "What do you have to talk about? We just want to be comfortable here, and you can tell us directly if you have any problems." ”
I sighed to myself, but I knew I couldn't be influenced by her attitude. So, I continued: "We want you to understand where we stand, and we also need some personal space that we can't interfere with and control all the time. ”
Hearing this, Granny Wang frowned, muttered for a while, and then said, "You are saying that we interfered with you
We just want to be comfortable here, what's wrong?"
I looked at Granny Wang and tried to make her understand our position: "Mother-in-law, it's not that we don't want to take care of you, but we also need some personal space and freedom, and we can't be tied to your home all the time. ”
Li Jun interjected: "Yes, we hope that you can respect our lifestyle and choices, and don't always point fingers and make us feel stressed and troubled. ”
When the sister-in-law heard this, she said with some dissatisfaction, "What do you mean by this?
I held back the anger in my heart and said gently: "Sister-in-law, it's not that we don't want to communicate with you, but please respect our way of life and choices, and don't always interfere in our lives. ”
Granny Wang was silent for a while, and then said, "Okay, since you say so, then we will pay attention to it in the future and will not interfere in your life anymore." ”
I breathed a sigh of relief knowing that this conversation might make a difference. Li Jun and I looked at each other and smiled, feeling a sense of relief and relief.
However, things didn't go as smoothly as we thought. In the following days, Granny Wang and sister-in-law did not change their behavior, and continued to interfere and point fingers at our lives. Li Jun and I were very disappointed and frustrated, and we didn't know what to do.
One night, Li Jun and I sat in the living room and were silent for a long time. Suddenly, Li Jun said: "Xiaofang, I don't think we can go on like this anymore, we have to take some action." ”
I nodded, agreeing with him: "Yes, I also feel that we can no longer be led by the nose by them, and we must do something to protect our lives." ”
Li Jun thought for a while, and then said: "I think we can have a good talk with them first, clarify our bottom line and attitude, if they still don't listen to the advice, then we can only take some tough measures." ”
I nodded, agreeing with him: "Yes, I feel that we can't be soft-hearted anymore and must do something to protect our interests." ”
The next morning, Li Jun and I decided to have a good talk with Granny Wang and my sister-in-law to clarify our bottom line and attitude. We found them, sat in the living room, and said seriously, "Mother-in-law, sister-in-law, we have to talk to you well." ”
When Granny Wang heard this, she frowned and said impatiently, "What do you have to tell us?"
I calmed down and said, "We feel that there are a lot of conflicts between us, mainly because of poor communication between us, so we decided to talk to you and hope to solve this problem." ”
When the sister-in-law heard this, she said impatiently, "What are you going to say? We just want to live comfortably here, is there anything wrong?"
I took a deep breath and tried to stay calm: "We understand what you think, but we also need some personal space and freedom that we can't be interfered with and controlled by you all the time. ”
Li Jun interjected: "Yes, we hope that you can respect our lifestyle and choices, and don't always point fingers and make us feel stressed and troubled. ”
Hearing this, Granny Wang was silent for a while, and then said, "I understand, we will pay attention to it in the future, and we will not interfere in your life anymore." ”
Li Jun and I looked at each other and smiled, thinking that this conversation might play a role. We are secretly glad that we can finally get out of the predicament and start a happy life again.
However, our happiness did not last long, because Granny Wang and sister-in-law did not keep their promises and continued to interfere and dictate our lives. Li Jun and I were very disappointed and frustrated, and we didn't know what to do.
Li Jun and I decided to take some tough measures to protect our lives. We found a lawyer who was going to sue Granny Wang and my sister-in-law to ask them to move out of our home. We knew that doing so could cause a storm in the family, but we couldn't stand their interference and control anymore.
Li Jun and I stood in the lawyer's office, nervously awaiting his reply. law
The teacher listened attentively to our narration, and then pondered for a while. Eventually, he nodded to us and offered to help us with the case.
"Mr. Li, Miss, I understand your situation and your demands. But family disputes need to be handled carefully, and I suggest that you give them another chance and try to resolve them through reconciliation. ”
Hearing the lawyer's advice, Li Jun and I were a little hesitant. After all, we have tried many times before to resolve the issue through reconciliation, but it has not worked out well. However, for the sake of family harmony and long-term interests, we decided to give them another chance.
So, we found Granny Wang and sister-in-law again, hoping to have a good talk with them and solve the family conflict. This time, we chose a more modest approach to try to resolve our differences.
"Mother-in-law, sister-in-law, we know that there are many conflicts between us, but we hope to be able to solve the problem through reconciliation and start a happy life again. I said mildly.
Granny Wang and sister-in-law looked at us with a hesitant expression. In the end, Granny Wang said, "Since you say so, then we are willing to give it a try, hoping to get along with you." ”
When Li Jun and I heard this, we secretly breathed a sigh of relief in our hearts, knowing that this conversation might play a certain role. We decided to let go of the past contradictions and start a new life.
However, our happiness did not last long, because Granny Wang and sister-in-law did not keep their promises and continued to interfere and dictate our lives. Li Jun and I were very disappointed and frustrated, and we didn't know what to do.
Li Jun and I decided to take some tough measures to protect our lives. We found a lawyer who was going to sue Granny Wang and my sister-in-law to ask them to move out of our home. We knew that doing so could cause a storm in the family, but we couldn't stand their interference and control anymore.
Li Jun and I stood in the lawyer's office, nervously awaiting his reply. The lawyer listened attentively to our narration, and then pondered for a moment. Eventually, he nodded to us and offered to help us with the case.
"Mr. Li, Miss, I understand your situation and your demands. But family disputes need to be handled carefully, and I suggest that you give them another chance and try to resolve them through reconciliation. ”
Hearing the lawyer's advice, Li Jun and I were a little hesitant. After all, we have tried many times before to resolve the issue through reconciliation, but it has not worked out well. However, for the sake of family harmony and long-term interests, we decided to give them another chance.
So, we found Granny Wang and sister-in-law again, hoping to have a good talk with them and solve the family conflict. This time, we chose a more modest approach to try to resolve our differences.
"Mother-in-law, sister-in-law, we know that there are many conflicts between us, but we hope to be able to solve the problem through reconciliation and start a happy life again. I said mildly.
Granny Wang and sister-in-law looked at us with a hesitant expression. In the end, Granny Wang said, "Since you say so, then we are willing to give it a try, hoping to get along with you." ”
When Li Jun and I heard this, we secretly breathed a sigh of relief in our hearts, knowing that this conversation might play a certain role. We decided to let go of the past contradictions and start a new life.
(To be continued)
However, even though we tried to reconcile, things still didn't go our way. Granny Wang and sister-in-law seem to have no intention of changing their behavior at all, and are still interfering and controlling our lives. Li Jun and I felt very disappointed and hopeless, and we didn't know what to do.
Li Jun and I decided to talk to a lawyer again about what to do. At the suggestion of our lawyer, we decided to file a formal complaint asking Granny Wang and her sister-in-law to move out of our home. We have endured it for too long and can no longer tolerate their interference and control.
Once the indictment was filed, the whole family was thrown into an atmosphere of tension. Granny Wang and sister-in-law began to become more tricky, they stopped communicating with us and even refused to enter our room. Li Jun and I were in an unspeakable state of pain, and we didn't know how to deal with the family's crisis.
The court hearing finally arrived, and Li Jun and I appeared in court to deal with it. Granny Wang and sister-in-law also appeared in court, their faces disdainful and arrogant, as if they did not take our claims seriously at all.
The trial was extremely difficult, and Granny Wang and her sister-in-law kept putting forward various defenses and rebuttals. Li Jun and I tried to defend ourselves, trying to prove that their interference and control over us had reached an intolerable level.
The entire trial process lasted a long time, and the judge finally announced that it would take some time to deliberate. Li Jun and I left the courtroom with a heavy heart, we didn't know what the outcome would be, but we did our best.
While waiting for the court's final decision, the atmosphere at home became extremely tense. Granny Wang and sister-in-law seem to have realized the seriousness of the situation and began to take the initiative to communicate with us and try to reconcile.
Li Jun and I were wary, but we chose to listen to their opinions. We hope that reconciliation will resolve the issue and avoid further breakdown of the family.
After some difficult negotiations, we finally reached an agreement. Granny Wang and sister-in-law agreed to move out of our home, and we were willing to provide some financial compensation as compensation.
Li Jun and I were relieved that we could finally say goodbye to our family strife and start our lives again. Although this experience caused us a lot of pain and distress, it also made us stronger and more mature.
Eventually, the court announced the final verdict, and Granny Wang and sister-in-law agreed to move out of our home and accepted the financial compensation we offered. Li Jun and I were grateful and started our lives again.
Although this experience has brought us a lot of pain and distress, it has also made us cherish each other's happiness and peace even more. We decided never to let family conflicts affect our lives again and strive to live a simple and happy life.
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