When men and women get along, when these three kinds of "red lights" appear in their feelings, no matter how much love they have to learn to refuse
There are many kinds of relationships between men and women, but once you become a couple, you have to pay attention to a lot of problems. Everyone wants their love to last. But long-term love requires the efforts and efforts of both parties, and unilateral payment cannot afford your love. It requires the efforts of both parties, and unilateral efforts will not bear fruit. It will only make you humble to the soil, as the lyrics say, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are fearless. Because if the payment in love is not equal, you are trying to make the other party feel that it is deserved, it is your own choice, she will not be moved by your dedication to her. So if these three situations occur in your feelings, you must pay attention.
The other person always dislikes you
As two people slowly contact each other, there may be many shortcomings that will be exposed to the partner, but in fact, this is a normal phenomenon. Everyone hopes to be a child in front of the object, two people to get along with each other hope to be comfortable and natural, this time will not be like just met like some things will feel embarrassed, together for a long time slowly the true self will be revealed. There will inevitably be friction and quarrels in life, but if you often quarrel over some unnecessary small things and express your annoyance, you need to pay attention. He has begun to tire of you, he does not approve of many things you do, at this time you need to sit down and communicate well, what is wrong. If you can't communicate completely, there is no need to torture yourself, just make a decision.
2. Don't pay, keep squeezing you
In fact, the efforts of the two sides should not be compared, but if sometimes your other half is really doing something very wrong, he keeps absorbing your efforts and does nothing himself, which will make you more and more tired. Long-term love needs the payment of both parties, if a person can not afford this love, a single payment will only cause the deformity of this love. If the other party only knows how to absorb your efforts and not give, then your relationship will definitely end up breaking down.
There is such an example around me, one of my college classmates loves her boyfriend very much, but in fact, in our eyes to outsiders they are not a good match, boys don't care about girls at all, every time they go out on a date, girls spend money, girls ask him out, he rarely does anything for girls, but this girl feels that her boyfriend is just ashamed to say that he loves her very much. Maybe this is the authorities obsessed with bystander Qingba, and then the two of them broke up because the boy had a new object.
3. Inconsiderate of you
Every love is worth cherishing, and since it has been decided to be together, it is necessary to protect and manage this relationship, to really see the other party as their lifelong partner, and to truly incorporate it into the same treatment as life.
If the other person has difficulties, try to help him, and the two people work together for the future life. But if the other party always does not understand you, does not understand your efforts for the family, and even can be said to be very low emotional intelligence, you need to communicate, but in general, such people can not communicate, they are very self-sufficient, completely will not understand the feelings of others. They are selfish and always think only for themselves. So if you really can't communicate, give up early. The person who doesn't understand you, why bother to be entangled with him.
The power of two people can make love last, and a single payment cannot give love. When deciding to be together, you should be cautious, once you choose to think about each other, relative efforts can make love better. Understanding is even more needed in love, and he gives the other party a sense of security and trust. You can tell him the things of the day, and he will tolerate you and spoil you, and you will give him your love. Such love will last, and I hope that everyone can have sweet love.