Hello everyone, I'm old breeder.
Since Gu Ailing participated in the Winter Olympics, everyone has praised the excellent mother who has raised an excellent daughter.
This is not, "Gu Ailing's mother is the ceiling of accompanying education" some time ago rushed to the hot search.
Gu Ailing ran half a horse on the streets of Beijing, and her mother followed the whole ride.
Hello everyone, I'm old breeder.
Since Gu Ailing participated in the Winter Olympics, everyone has praised the excellent mother who has raised an excellent daughter.
This is not, "Gu Ailing's mother is the ceiling of accompanying education" some time ago rushed to the hot search.
Gu Ailing ran half a horse on the streets of Beijing, and her mother followed the whole ride.
This is just the daily way Gu Ailing's mother and daughter get along, as early as before, Gu Ailing said that her mother drove back and forth for eight hours every weekend to take herself to the ski slopes for training.
Many netizens expressed envy for their way of getting along and shared their unpleasant experiences. Look at someone else's mom...
There are also netizens who are a little resistant and do not understand what is good on the hot search.
This netizen must have a mother who loves him, and he can not envy others.
Some netizens as parents said that they also want to accompany their children but do not have time, "companion education is the exclusive of rich people."
In fact, companion education is not exclusive to rich people, some parents say that they have to work overtime, but after work and weekends can be used to accompany their children.
The most important thing about companionship is quality, not time.
Hello everyone, I'm old breeder.
Since Gu Ailing participated in the Winter Olympics, everyone has praised the excellent mother who has raised an excellent daughter.
This is not, "Gu Ailing's mother is the ceiling of accompanying education" some time ago rushed to the hot search.
Gu Ailing ran half a horse on the streets of Beijing, and her mother followed the whole ride.
This is just the daily way Gu Ailing's mother and daughter get along, as early as before, Gu Ailing said that her mother drove back and forth for eight hours every weekend to take herself to the ski slopes for training.
Many netizens expressed envy for their way of getting along and shared their unpleasant experiences. Look at someone else's mom...
There are also netizens who are a little resistant and do not understand what is good on the hot search.
This netizen must have a mother who loves him, and he can not envy others.
Some netizens as parents said that they also want to accompany their children but do not have time, "companion education is the exclusive of rich people."
In fact, companion education is not exclusive to rich people, some parents say that they have to work overtime, but after work and weekends can be used to accompany their children.
The most important thing about companionship is quality, not time.
#How much influence can parents have on their children#Someone posted a video under this topic.
A mother took her daughter who was in her third year of high school to see a psychiatrist, and when the doctor asked her daughter, the mother kept saying that she kept criticizing her daughter for not being social.
When the doctor wanted to talk to her daughter alone, the mother said to her daughter, "You talk well, I spent money to bring you here."
I realized that the child may be sick before accompanying the child to the hospital, and repeatedly stimulating the child with words in the process, I am the child and I may be more depressed.
There are many parents in life who are low-quality companions for their children, and sometimes companionship is not the same as companionship.
Hello everyone, I'm old breeder.
Since Gu Ailing participated in the Winter Olympics, everyone has praised the excellent mother who has raised an excellent daughter.
This is not, "Gu Ailing's mother is the ceiling of accompanying education" some time ago rushed to the hot search.
Gu Ailing ran half a horse on the streets of Beijing, and her mother followed the whole ride.
This is just the daily way Gu Ailing's mother and daughter get along, as early as before, Gu Ailing said that her mother drove back and forth for eight hours every weekend to take herself to the ski slopes for training.
Many netizens expressed envy for their way of getting along and shared their unpleasant experiences. Look at someone else's mom...
There are also netizens who are a little resistant and do not understand what is good on the hot search.
This netizen must have a mother who loves him, and he can not envy others.
Some netizens as parents said that they also want to accompany their children but do not have time, "companion education is the exclusive of rich people."
In fact, companion education is not exclusive to rich people, some parents say that they have to work overtime, but after work and weekends can be used to accompany their children.
The most important thing about companionship is quality, not time.
#How much influence can parents have on their children#Someone posted a video under this topic.
A mother took her daughter who was in her third year of high school to see a psychiatrist, and when the doctor asked her daughter, the mother kept saying that she kept criticizing her daughter for not being social.
When the doctor wanted to talk to her daughter alone, the mother said to her daughter, "You talk well, I spent money to bring you here."
I realized that the child may be sick before accompanying the child to the hospital, and repeatedly stimulating the child with words in the process, I am the child and I may be more depressed.
There are many parents in life who are low-quality companions for their children, and sometimes companionship is not the same as companionship.
Such low-quality accompaniment to the elderly is also around.
There is a mother around Lao Yu who often complains that she is tired with her children and sacrifices her time.
When I went to her house once, I found her sitting at her child's desk doing homework with her child, with a mobile phone in her hand and headphones in her ear.
Occasionally when I look up and see that the child is not paying attention, I shout: "What are you rubbing?" Write fast! ”
After saying that, I continued to brush my phone.
A few times a night, the child finished writing his homework, and his mother's mobile phone ran out of battery.
Saying that it is with children is like accompanying mobile phones.
Hello everyone, I'm old breeder.
Since Gu Ailing participated in the Winter Olympics, everyone has praised the excellent mother who has raised an excellent daughter.
This is not, "Gu Ailing's mother is the ceiling of accompanying education" some time ago rushed to the hot search.
Gu Ailing ran half a horse on the streets of Beijing, and her mother followed the whole ride.
This is just the daily way Gu Ailing's mother and daughter get along, as early as before, Gu Ailing said that her mother drove back and forth for eight hours every weekend to take herself to the ski slopes for training.
Many netizens expressed envy for their way of getting along and shared their unpleasant experiences. Look at someone else's mom...
There are also netizens who are a little resistant and do not understand what is good on the hot search.
This netizen must have a mother who loves him, and he can not envy others.
Some netizens as parents said that they also want to accompany their children but do not have time, "companion education is the exclusive of rich people."
In fact, companion education is not exclusive to rich people, some parents say that they have to work overtime, but after work and weekends can be used to accompany their children.
The most important thing about companionship is quality, not time.
#How much influence can parents have on their children#Someone posted a video under this topic.
A mother took her daughter who was in her third year of high school to see a psychiatrist, and when the doctor asked her daughter, the mother kept saying that she kept criticizing her daughter for not being social.
When the doctor wanted to talk to her daughter alone, the mother said to her daughter, "You talk well, I spent money to bring you here."
I realized that the child may be sick before accompanying the child to the hospital, and repeatedly stimulating the child with words in the process, I am the child and I may be more depressed.
There are many parents in life who are low-quality companions for their children, and sometimes companionship is not the same as companionship.
Such low-quality accompaniment to the elderly is also around.
There is a mother around Lao Yu who often complains that she is tired with her children and sacrifices her time.
When I went to her house once, I found her sitting at her child's desk doing homework with her child, with a mobile phone in her hand and headphones in her ear.
Occasionally when I look up and see that the child is not paying attention, I shout: "What are you rubbing?" Write fast! ”
After saying that, I continued to brush my phone.
A few times a night, the child finished writing his homework, and his mother's mobile phone ran out of battery.
Saying that it is with children is like accompanying mobile phones.
Sometimes what you're doing is ineffective companionship, and you don't realize it:
Focus on your own business
Like the mother that Lao Yu knows when she accompanies her child, she is playing with her mobile phone, saying that she is accompanying her child, but in fact, it diverts the child's attention.
Inability to respond to the needs of the child in a timely manner
Children have needs that cannot be responded to in time, and over time, the child's sense of security will become lower.
Can't regulate their own pressure
Not being able to regulate the pressure in your work and life will bring pressure to your children.
Hello everyone, I'm old breeder.
Since Gu Ailing participated in the Winter Olympics, everyone has praised the excellent mother who has raised an excellent daughter.
This is not, "Gu Ailing's mother is the ceiling of accompanying education" some time ago rushed to the hot search.
Gu Ailing ran half a horse on the streets of Beijing, and her mother followed the whole ride.
This is just the daily way Gu Ailing's mother and daughter get along, as early as before, Gu Ailing said that her mother drove back and forth for eight hours every weekend to take herself to the ski slopes for training.
Many netizens expressed envy for their way of getting along and shared their unpleasant experiences. Look at someone else's mom...
There are also netizens who are a little resistant and do not understand what is good on the hot search.
This netizen must have a mother who loves him, and he can not envy others.
Some netizens as parents said that they also want to accompany their children but do not have time, "companion education is the exclusive of rich people."
In fact, companion education is not exclusive to rich people, some parents say that they have to work overtime, but after work and weekends can be used to accompany their children.
The most important thing about companionship is quality, not time.
#How much influence can parents have on their children#Someone posted a video under this topic.
A mother took her daughter who was in her third year of high school to see a psychiatrist, and when the doctor asked her daughter, the mother kept saying that she kept criticizing her daughter for not being social.
When the doctor wanted to talk to her daughter alone, the mother said to her daughter, "You talk well, I spent money to bring you here."
I realized that the child may be sick before accompanying the child to the hospital, and repeatedly stimulating the child with words in the process, I am the child and I may be more depressed.
There are many parents in life who are low-quality companions for their children, and sometimes companionship is not the same as companionship.
Such low-quality accompaniment to the elderly is also around.
There is a mother around Lao Yu who often complains that she is tired with her children and sacrifices her time.
When I went to her house once, I found her sitting at her child's desk doing homework with her child, with a mobile phone in her hand and headphones in her ear.
Occasionally when I look up and see that the child is not paying attention, I shout: "What are you rubbing?" Write fast! ”
After saying that, I continued to brush my phone.
A few times a night, the child finished writing his homework, and his mother's mobile phone ran out of battery.
Saying that it is with children is like accompanying mobile phones.
Sometimes what you're doing is ineffective companionship, and you don't realize it:
Focus on your own business
Like the mother that Lao Yu knows when she accompanies her child, she is playing with her mobile phone, saying that she is accompanying her child, but in fact, it diverts the child's attention.
Inability to respond to the needs of the child in a timely manner
Children have needs that cannot be responded to in time, and over time, the child's sense of security will become lower.
Can't regulate their own pressure
Not being able to regulate the pressure in your work and life will bring pressure to your children.
Does high-quality companionship really take a lot of time?
These little things can improve the quality of companionship:
Create parent-child reading time
Cut the bookstore with your child to pick a book you like, and set up a time and space dedicated to reading.
Play with kids
Play his favorite games with your child, or draw together, do crafts, etc.
Have your child help with housework
Let the child do the housework within his ability to improve the child's self-management ability.
Give your child independent space
Leave children with independent space and give them the opportunity to explore the world.
Hello everyone, I'm old breeder.
Since Gu Ailing participated in the Winter Olympics, everyone has praised the excellent mother who has raised an excellent daughter.
This is not, "Gu Ailing's mother is the ceiling of accompanying education" some time ago rushed to the hot search.
Gu Ailing ran half a horse on the streets of Beijing, and her mother followed the whole ride.
This is just the daily way Gu Ailing's mother and daughter get along, as early as before, Gu Ailing said that her mother drove back and forth for eight hours every weekend to take herself to the ski slopes for training.
Many netizens expressed envy for their way of getting along and shared their unpleasant experiences. Look at someone else's mom...
There are also netizens who are a little resistant and do not understand what is good on the hot search.
This netizen must have a mother who loves him, and he can not envy others.
Some netizens as parents said that they also want to accompany their children but do not have time, "companion education is the exclusive of rich people."
In fact, companion education is not exclusive to rich people, some parents say that they have to work overtime, but after work and weekends can be used to accompany their children.
The most important thing about companionship is quality, not time.
#How much influence can parents have on their children#Someone posted a video under this topic.
A mother took her daughter who was in her third year of high school to see a psychiatrist, and when the doctor asked her daughter, the mother kept saying that she kept criticizing her daughter for not being social.
When the doctor wanted to talk to her daughter alone, the mother said to her daughter, "You talk well, I spent money to bring you here."
I realized that the child may be sick before accompanying the child to the hospital, and repeatedly stimulating the child with words in the process, I am the child and I may be more depressed.
There are many parents in life who are low-quality companions for their children, and sometimes companionship is not the same as companionship.
Such low-quality accompaniment to the elderly is also around.
There is a mother around Lao Yu who often complains that she is tired with her children and sacrifices her time.
When I went to her house once, I found her sitting at her child's desk doing homework with her child, with a mobile phone in her hand and headphones in her ear.
Occasionally when I look up and see that the child is not paying attention, I shout: "What are you rubbing?" Write fast! ”
After saying that, I continued to brush my phone.
A few times a night, the child finished writing his homework, and his mother's mobile phone ran out of battery.
Saying that it is with children is like accompanying mobile phones.
Sometimes what you're doing is ineffective companionship, and you don't realize it:
Focus on your own business
Like the mother that Lao Yu knows when she accompanies her child, she is playing with her mobile phone, saying that she is accompanying her child, but in fact, it diverts the child's attention.
Inability to respond to the needs of the child in a timely manner
Children have needs that cannot be responded to in time, and over time, the child's sense of security will become lower.
Can't regulate their own pressure
Not being able to regulate the pressure in your work and life will bring pressure to your children.
Does high-quality companionship really take a lot of time?
These little things can improve the quality of companionship:
Create parent-child reading time
Cut the bookstore with your child to pick a book you like, and set up a time and space dedicated to reading.
Play with kids
Play his favorite games with your child, or draw together, do crafts, etc.
Have your child help with housework
Let the child do the housework within his ability to improve the child's self-management ability.
Give your child independent space
Leave children with independent space and give them the opportunity to explore the world.
Even if the child cannot become "Gu Ailing", but we use the least amount of time to give the child the highest quality of companionship, I believe this is also very helpful for the child's future growth!
How do you usually accompany your children?
Let's talk about it in the comments section