Boys over 2 years old will only be called "mom", language development is delayed, 3 ways to help children speak

Boys in their 2-year-olds only call "Mom", how long have you been cheated on by "boys are talking late"? Talking late affects brain development, and there are 3 ways for babies to speak quickly.

We have the impression that boys speak later than girls, so many parents see a lot of baby girls of the same age twittering and talking a lot, their sons either don't talk, or just jump out of a "dad, mom", but they are not in a hurry, because the old saying "boys are talking late".

The development of infant and young children's language ability is closely related to intellectual development, although there are subtle differences in language between boys and girls, but if boys can only say "daddy, mom" or simple words after the age of 2, parents should pay special attention. It may be caused by the wrong way of language education.

There is a boy Tong Tong in the community 2 years old and 5 months old, the child was brought by the grandmother from childhood, will only be called "mother", other words will not be said, at first the family said that the boy talked late, so did not care at all, until once and Coco played in the community together, saw that the cocoa is only one month older than Tong Tong has been 10 words of the sentence said very fluently, the ancient poem memorized a lot of songs, Tong Tong Grandma said: "The girl is talking early, my family Tong Tong will only call the mother."

I chuckled in my heart, according to the reason, the normal vocabulary of children aged 2 years and 5 months has reached between 100 and 200 words, and it is not a problem to say short sentences of 3-6 words. For example: "I want to eat by myself, I want to play with toys" and so on.

Later, they took the child to the hospital to check and found that the child's language development was delayed, because Grandma Tongtong usually did not talk to the child much, most of the time the child played alone, and the family felt that the boy did not care, and when he was older, he would talk on his own.

Many parents are like Kirito's parents, thinking that it doesn't matter if the boy talks late, it will be better later, but it is this idea that harms the child. Studies have shown that language development delay affects intellectual development, 0-3 years old is the golden outbreak of infant language development, rich vocabulary input and environmental stimulation, can make children speak quickly, so as to exercise the brain response speed.

If the gap between the language ability of boys and girls of the same month is not large, it is no problem, but if the gap is too large and falls out of the average line too much, parents should pay attention to it, and do not let rumors pit their children.

Because Tong Tong often plays with my family Cocoa, and then their parents asked me for advice, I combined their parenting experience, taught 3 methods, they strictly practiced for 3 months, did not expect that when I saw Tong Tong a few days ago, he could already say: "Auntie is good, sister goodbye, I want to eat by myself, I like cars the most" and so on, his mother also specially sent my own specialties to me. These 3 methods are for you who are just as confused.

First, talk more, parents are better to bring more boys

Language input is crucial for the language development of infants and young children, and 0-3 years old babies are in the language imitation period, the language environment created by parents with few words is poor, and the children's brain receives less information, and naturally cannot be imitated.

And many parents throw their children to the elderly to bring, they do not care, especially boys need more parental care, such as taking him to listen to nursery rhymes every day, stimulating hearing, taking him to chat, encouraging expression, taking him to ask me and answer, stimulating the desire to speak. And these are best done by parents themselves, which is not only conducive to the cultivation of parent-child relationships, forming a sense of security for children, but also allowing children's intellectual development to a higher level.

But if the parents are too busy, they should also choose tools that can be assisted, such as letting the elderly take their children out to contact children, chat with children more, listen to nursery rhymes, buy some sound books, and listen with children.

Second, don't be bothered, don't replace

Many children do not speak because there is no opportunity to say, parents always speak for them, such as children just want to express thirst, pointing to the cup, parents quickly said: "Baby, do you want to drink water?" Are you thirsty? "As soon as the child wants to read, the parents say, "Do you want to read the book, I'll give it to you." The blind substitution of parents has made boys have a lot less opportunities to exercise and still cannot exercise their language skills.

Especially for young boys, because of individual differences and different body structures, their language ability is already poor, and their speech is slower than that of girls, which requires patience and teaching from their parents. Many parents have no patience when they see their children learning several times, not knowing that such bad emotions will be passed on to the baby, and what parents have to do is to encourage their children to say, be more patient and listen to him, even if they are not good enough, give them the opportunity to fully express.

Third, read more picture books and enter more fresh words

Another important reason why children do not speak and talk late is that there is too little vocabulary, especially too few fresh words. Children's language nerves and vocabulary reserves are insufficient, and they are naturally unable to express themselves. Especially in families with children for the elderly, there is less exposure to new knowledge, and the vocabulary is relatively single, and it is still impossible to teach children too many fresh words.

Parents can help through audiobooks, such as the books that my children have been using, and the books I recommend to Grandma Tongtong, because with a finger you can say that you can use Mandarin to say elephant words, verbs, nouns, sentences, etc., very convenient, you can listen to children's songs, check the knowledge learned, listen to stories, etc., there are a lot of fresh words close to life, not only easy to understand, but also easy to learn.