Love when you are young can be vigorous and desperate, but after middle age, love is only solid and stable.
Love in youth is the result of impulse and heartbeat, while love in middle age is decided after countless times of thinking.
Middle-aged men and women, when they choose feelings, will have a mature and rational mind, and will not easily take that step.
They will seriously consider feelings and carefully weigh the pros and cons in the middle.
They don't choose love because of impulse, and they don't choose love because of loneliness. Especially middle-aged women, they see feelings more flat.
If you are not the one who accompanies her to the second half of her life, she will not waste time on you, nor will she gamble everything for you.
Her relationship with you may be as simple as a normal friend. Therefore, she will not make concessions for you, nor will she change her mind.
In her mind, once it is determined that you are just friends, how much you pay is superfluous.
Whether a woman can go to the next step with you depends on whether she is willing to open these forbidden areas.
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A woman who has experienced emotional failure, she has a past that she does not want to mention, if she really wants to have a future with you, she will open her heart for you and tell you her heart.
Two people in love, for their own experience, they will choose to avoid talking, after all, people will mind.
Of course, if a woman feels that you can't accept her past, then there is no need for you to be together.
If she really wants to be with you, she will definitely ask you if she minds her past, and what are your criteria for choosing a mate.
Her circle
Whether a woman can go to the next step with you depends on whether she is willing to open her circle for you, after all, this is her own privacy.
Her circle, including her family, friends, work, etc., once she is willing to let you know about her life, it means that there is still a possibility between you.
She wants you to have an intersection, she wants you to fit into her circle, and she wants you to take her into your circle, and the two of you get to know each other.
She confessed everything to you, which means that she has let down her guard against you and hopes to have a future with you and go on with you.
Her bottom line and principles
When a woman is truly in love with a man, she opens her own principles and bottom lines for that man.
For this forbidden area of their own, women are quite resistant. She can open it for you, which means that you have a high status in her mind.
Especially in middle age, she will not easily compromise for a person, unless you are someone who is particularly important to her.
In front of you, she is willing to be a little woman and willing to give up something for you. In front of you, she lets down her guard and lets you see her most vulnerable side.