The real protection of children is to teach children to protect themselves!

Children are angels sent by Heaven, and when these little angels are harmed, they are the last thing any parent wants to face. Recently, the continuous exposure of children being bullied has constantly reminded parents that bad people really exist and the way to deal with them cannot be delayed.

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If kindness endangers your life,

I'd rather you're not kind

There is such a true case adaptation of the Korean movie "Suyuan"

On a rainy morning, 8-year-old lively and lovely Suyuan met a drunken uncle. The uncle asked Suyuan: Can you take your uncle to play umbrellas together?

The kind Suyuan couldn't bear the rain of this strange uncle, and without thinking about it, she agreed.

However, because of her easy belief, she brought herself a lifelong injury that she could not get rid of - Suyuan was dragged to an abandoned factory by a drunk man and brutally sexually assaulted.

The result of the matter is even more poignant, and people say that it is Su yuan's fault.

Media reports and outside finger-pointing made this naïve child feel that something unseemly had happened to him.

Lying on the hospital bed, Suyuan asked her father, "Did I do something wrong?" ”

What did 8-year-old Suyuan do wrong? The fault is being too kind.

It is said that kindness is very expensive, but the occurrence of this incident makes people understand a truth more clearly: teaching children to be kind needs the bottom line, if kindness will endanger your life, I would rather you be unkind.

The little angel, who was only 8 years old, was treated inhumanly at what should have been a carefree age. When tragedy becomes reality, in addition to cruelty, it is even more creepy.

Many parents say that after having a daughter, there is a weakness. Girls, unlike boys, are especially inherently physically inferior and have to plan ahead.

Children need to be properly sexually educated from an early age.

When the child is in kindergarten, it is necessary to tell the child what is the private part, someone touched the private part, must go home and tell the parents; when reading the primary school stage, to inform the child of the exact academic name of the private part, and emphasize that no one is allowed to see and touch. If someone behaves in this way, be brave enough to say no and refuse such a request.

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Please don't take the words of strangers casually,

And don't go with strangers

According to incomplete statistics on the number of missing children in China every year, about 31 provinces are involved in the national geographical scope, and 59% of the abducted and missing children have not left their provinces.

How old are children most vulnerable to being killed?

The answer is 2-4 years old, 13-14 years old

In an "anti-abduction" experiment in Jiangsu, 50 children were tested and 42 children were successfully abducted. Among the places where children are lost, 6 locations are high-incidence places, shopping malls, parks or squares, stations, supermarkets, playgrounds, and large-scale party scenes.

Every statistic is heart-wrenching.

Netizen Xuanxuan's mother has had such a thrilling personal experience:

Netizen Yangyang's mother also recounted an experience of her own:

These cases all tell us that children will always be the most vulnerable group in this society.

For parents, the safety of our children is all we have. And we really want there to be less evil in this world and let go of these good-hearted people.

We want our child to have peace in life, and we want our child to love the world, so we must teach him to distinguish between light and darkness as soon as possible. Xiaonuo believes that every parent should firmly tell their children a few points:

1. You can't go alone with anyone, you must first ask your family or teacher.

2. If someone wants to forcibly take you away, immediately shout for help to the other adults nearest.

3. Teach children to memorize home addresses, relatives' phone numbers and emergency numbers.

4. Teach children how to seek help correctly, one is the group wearing military and police uniforms, and the other is the staff in uniform at the supermarket mall.

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Parents should be vigilant in this way to protect their children

Parents as guardians, in the face of children's safety, should be more vigilant, plus now many families of children are carried by the older generation, their sense of safety is not so strong.

Then, when taking your children out to play, you need to pay attention to the following problems.

Take children in public places such as communities and parks, in case there is a temporary incident, neighbors, friends and other acquaintances enthusiastically help, and do not leave the child to the care of the other party.

When taking children to supermarkets, vegetable markets and other places to shop, hold the child's hand, do not let the child leave his sight, and if necessary, he can use the ribbon to connect the child with himself.

Try to talk to people who are not very familiar with each other, some "scammers" in line with the principle of one life and two acquaintances, talk to you twice, you may use this as a basis to carry out deception, and even abduct children.

Don't easily entrust your child to friends who have known each other for a long time, especially "so-and-so mother", "so-and-so grandmother", "uncle and aunt" who have only talked once or twice.

The safest home, because of the lowest vigilance, is often the most dangerous place, if the family has a nanny, but also always pay attention to the behavior of the nanny, as well as the people who often interact with the nanny.

Don't easily bring home some friends or relatives with bad character, don't feel that "all are relatives, what is the relationship", let them take the children away.

Pay attention to the privacy and safety of the child, and do not provide the child's living habits and action routes to acquaintances at will.

The child is the hope of a family, and if the child has an accident, the home will be destroyed.

As parents and educators, we would like to paint a peaceful world for our children and make his world beautiful and colorful forever, but before that, what we have to do is to tighten the string of safety, prevent problems before they happen, and protect children well under their wings.

Children's safety education is a class that children, parents, and grandparents must learn hard.

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Teach children how to protect themselves

In fact, many children's safety awareness is not enough, the anti-abduction drills carried out in kindergartens, parents were originally very confident in their children, but did not expect that in the end the children will still be lured by various means, obediently follow the "bad people" to leave.

The indoctrination and cultivation of safety awareness must be a long-term persistence process, because you don't know when the crisis will come, nor do you know when the child will take it lightly, and the temporary ease may be exchanged for permanent regret.

Therefore, in addition to the kindergarten teachers tell the children safety knowledge, parents must always improve the children's safety awareness, the British Children's Ten Declarations is the world's first government issued by the most detailed child safety guide, parents can teach their children to be familiar with the following children's ten declarations:

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"Safe growth is more important than success"

Children are taught that everyone has a number of rights, such as the right to breathe. This power cannot be taken away by anyone. Tell children that no one has the right to deprive children of their right to safety. Safety is more important than anything else.

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"The area covered by the vest pants is not allowed to be touched"

Children should know that the body belongs to themselves, that some parts of the body should be covered by clothes, and that no one else should be allowed to see or touch them. The child also refused the right to kiss and touch.

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"Life first, property second"

For example, some children think: If my bike is robbed by a bad person, my parents will kill me. Parents should tell their children that their physical safety is much more important than cycling.

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"Little secret to tell Mom"

Reassure your child that no matter what happens, as long as the child tells the truth to the parents, the parents will not blame and will try their best to help the child. When children tell the truth to adults, they should be fully trusted. Adults should trust their children right away and help them in a timely manner.

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"Don't drink strangers' drinks, don't eat strangers' candy"

There are thousands of ways for bad people, giving candy to eat, mother's relatives, and courier brother delivery are only a dime, and your refusal must end from one end, and a specific opening signal will block those ugly bad people out of the door.

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"Don't talk to strangers"

The heart of defense is indispensable. Be wary of strangers

When a stranger talks to a child, the child can pretend not to hear and run away immediately. A living person knocking on the door can not answer, do not open the door. Tell the child that it is right to ignore strangers, that children are incapable of helping strangers, and that adults will never think it is rude.

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"In case of danger you can break glass and break furniture"

In the face of danger, Sima Guang will also smash the cylinder, and the rules are formulated to protect rather than bind. In the face of sudden situations, seek the most suitable way to protect themselves, in order to protect themselves, children have the right to break all the rules and prohibitions.

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"When you are in danger, you can run first"

In the face of bad people, earthquakes, and fires, children should resolutely escape, pull out their legs and run.

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"Don't keep the bad guys secret"

Tell your child that even if he has sworn not to tell others, he must tell his parents when he encounters bad people bullying. For example, if someone bullies you, he often says: "Little friend, it is not right to tell your parents about this matter, let's pull a hook, this is our own little secret." "Don't bury these secrets in your heart.

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"Bad guys can cheat"

The right not to tell the truth about the bad guys. When you meet bad people, you can not tell the truth. Witty coping is a good child.

One last word

The most responsible education is to tell children that the world is not always good, there is good and cruel, there is justice there is evil, bad people do not necessarily look ugly, and good people are not necessarily gentle and kind.

Parents must tell their children that they must not forget to protect themselves at any time; tell their children that when they encounter any problems, they must talk and ask for help in time, and their parents will always be their umbrella.