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Only by understanding each other and fulfilling each other is the most important thing that love should look like.

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"The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice" starring Yang Zi and Xiao Zhan is being broadcast, and the family, love and friendship in the play are all moving. And the high-sweet love between Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei is even more called to the head.

Lin Zhixue's optimism and cheerfulness, lively and generous, and Gu Wei's cold and calm, deep and introverted complement each other, sweet and moving.

The reason why the love between Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei is addictive is because it is a feeling of mutual achievement and two-way running.

The tenacity and optimism of Lin Zhi school encouraged Gu Wei, who suffered from a career trough; Gu Wei's steady and great temperament also warmed Lin Zhi School, who suffered family changes.

In this relationship, no one is blindly demanding, and no one is trying alone. The feelings of both sides running to this are particularly beautiful.

In real life, how many regretful ending feelings are precisely because of one-way running.

There is a saying on the Internet that says it well: "Good feelings must be a two-way rush, not a unilateral consumption." ”

Too many realities tell us that it is difficult to have results in feelings that work hard alone.

In a relationship, a woman with such a performance does not have to stay in love, and the sooner she lets go, the better.

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The girl who spends money as a test, she doesn't have you in her plans for the future

Previously, I saw a news item on the Internet. The woman is close to the person, and the man eats thousands of yuan in one meal.

Afterwards, the man felt that the cost was too much, and proposed that the cost of the meal should be shared by both of them.

The woman said that she could not accept this, and verbally mocked the man as an "iron rooster", indicating that she had never seen such a stingy man.

I don't know when it started, willing to spend money for themselves, it seems to have become the standard for many girls to test their boyfriends.

Colleague Xiaowen also encountered similar things.

Xiao Wen recently met his high school female classmates, all of whom are older single young people and old acquaintances, and the relationship between the two people soon developed from old classmates to lovers.

Xiaowen is very sincere in running this relationship, Valentine's Day gifts, Goddess Day gifts, daily please eat, watch movies, shopping, Xiaowen are rushing to pay, girls are also at ease to accept, but never returned.

After that, the two people made an appointment to see their parents, and Xiaowen visited the door and carried a gift of several thousand yuan.

The girl went to Xiaowen's house, and Xiaowen's mother prepared a red envelope of 10,001 yuan. But the girl came to the door empty-handed, and the fruit did not bring one.

In the face of XiaoWen's questioning, the girl said it with a straight face: "You have to worry about spending some money, what else can I expect you to give me?" ”

Girls like Xiaowen's girlfriend are not in the minority in reality. It seems that only the momentum of bankrupting the man can prove the boy's sincerity.

Whenever the boy showed a hint of hesitation, she just said "You don't love me" and smashed it.

In fact, boys can use the same logic to block them into silence: "You are not even willing to save money for me, what else can I expect you to help me?" ”

Such a girl, in her vision of the future, must not have a boyfriend position. But anyone who thinks about the future of two people will not treat boys like "wronged heads".

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Treat Diao Man as a cute girl, and there is no you in the people she loves

There's a question online: "What kind of girls don't you want to fall in love with?" ”

One of the high praises replied: "A cruel and wayward girl." ”

The answerer's exposition has resonated with many people:

Standing tall, not considering the feelings of the other party, treating the boy as a servant.

I feel that the boyfriend is good to himself, he takes it for granted, he is only willing to enjoy the love of the boy, but he does not know how to understand the hard work of the boy.

I once knew a girl who was bent on finding a boyfriend who could earn money and spoil her.

She did find it, the girl did not want to work, but spent money and spend a lot of money, the boy will work two jobs at the same time, earn money for the girl to spend.

Girls groom, shop, walk the dog, work out every day, and the house is messed up into a kennel. The boy has a hard day and has to do housework when he comes home.

Once, the boy worked overtime continuously, excessive fatigue, and accidentally injured his hand at work.

The girl did not have a word of concern, but was very angry, blaming the boy for not knowing how to be careful, and now that he was injured, who did the housework.

This sentence completely became the last straw that crushed the camel, and the boy broke up disappointedly.

At this time, the girl still did not realize her own problem, but accused the boy of being a "scum" boy who was chaotic and abandoned.

Girls who will be spoiled are indeed more cute and more likely to arouse the protection of boys.

However, the occasional petulance and petty willfulness are the mood. Taking willfulness as a girl's privilege becomes selfishness.

No one's life is easy, boys will also encounter trouble, there will be depressed mood, there are times when they need care and comfort.

If girls will only be willful, they will only unreasonably ask for the accommodation and care of boys. Then, in her heart, she did not put boys on an equal footing with herself.

Such girls, their logic is: love me, you must be unconditionally good to me.

However, using this logic to measure, you will get a conclusion that makes the boy feel cold: she is not willing to be nice to you because she does not love you at all.

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A girl who treats casually as a charm, there is no love in her heart

The boy xiaoci and the girl fell in love at first sight, and the two lived together in a short period of time.

After the initial sweetness, Xiao Ci found that mi was still in touch with several ex-boyfriends.

Even if Xiao Ci made it clear that he was very concerned about it, he was still stubborn.

Not only that, but xiao ci also found. When I chatted with my ex-boyfriend, my words were vague and explicit, and I couldn't get to the point of being overwhelmed.

Xiao Ci really liked Mi Mi, and he talked to her seriously once, hoping that the two of them could be together well.

However, mi mi does not think so, thinking that ex-boyfriends are obsessed with themselves, which just shows that they are very attractive.

Xiao Ci was very concerned about this and eventually proposed to break up. However, after the breakup, mimi came to contact him again, just like her other ex-boyfriends.

They are all adults, and girls have had several emotional experiences, which is very normal.

However, girls who take feelings seriously, when they start a new relationship, will definitely be clear with their previous feelings.

Because love is selfish, the world of two people cannot tolerate many lines.

Regardless of men and women, if they care about their partners, they will not be ambiguous with people other than their partners, and they will not be embarrassed by words, and they will think that they are attractive.

In order to prove her charm, the girl is ambiguous with different boys, which can only show that she does not understand what love is. The boys around her are just tools to prove her charm.

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There is a beautiful saying: "May there be one heart, and the white head will not be separated." ”

It is not easy in the world, if you can find a person who truly loves each other, and work together for a lifetime, it is a very beautiful thing.

However, love is never an easy task, let alone wishful thinking.

Good love must have a certain economic foundation, but money cannot be used as a test.

High-quality boys must know how to tolerate, but it is not a reason for girls to be excessively brutal.

Attractive girls, naturally many people like, but not an excuse to indulge themselves casually.

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