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In feelings, true love needs to go in both directions.
Before meeting someone she likes, she has always protected herself well, even if someone takes the initiative to pursue, if there is no good feeling, she will show indifference; but once she meets the person she likes, she will become enthusiastic and brave.
As Hugo wrote in Les Misérables:
"The first sign of true love is timidity in boys and boldness in girls."
Perhaps, she was a shy and introverted person before, but as long as she met someone she liked, she would become brave.
Although she will not be as direct as a man when expressing love, she will also show her liking through some behaviors.
As a man, if you can understand the signals given by women at this time, then the relationship between two people is a matter of course.
But if you don't understand, you can only secretly lament that a woman's mind is difficult to guess, and finally rub shoulders with happiness.
In fact, getting along with the opposite sex, women's performance, is a signal that you are intentionally taken down.
01 Reply to your messages in a timely manner and cater to you
To know if a woman is interested in you, just look at your chat status.
If she has no interest in you, then the chat between you is bound to be cold and very perfunctory.
She rarely replies to your messages, and occasionally replies are also superficially polite, and there is no following.
Because I am not interested in you, I will naturally not be willing to talk to you more, and when I face your news, I will directly choose to ignore you.
On the contrary, if people are interested in being taken down by you, they will reply to you as soon as they see your message, take the initiative to cater to your topic, and be enthusiastic and positive for you.
She will take the initiative to reveal her heart to you, create some new topics to chat with you, from work to life, and then to emotions, always unwilling to end.
She always responds to your messages in a timely manner, often chats with you until late at night, and caters to your topic, which is actually a signal that you are intentionally taking down.
02 Agree to your offer and respond to you
To find out if a woman is interested in you, ask her to give it a try.
If she's completely uninterested in you, she's bound to turn down your offer, using the excuse of being busy or having something to do.
In the relationship, everyone's time and energy are limited, everyone will only spend time and energy on the people and things they really care about, and they will choose to ignore people they don't like.
On the contrary, if people are willing to be taken down by you, they will decisively agree to your invitation and show a very happy appearance every time they meet you.
She's happy to meet you, and will even suggest that you go to her, deliberately ask you questions, borrow something, or tell you that a recent new movie is good.
Getting along with the opposite sex and meeting frequently is an extremely ambiguous thing, and once you come and go, you have feelings.
She always meets with you frequently, is happy to accept your invitations, and responds to your requests, which is actually a signal that she intends to be taken down by you.
03 Be gentle and considerate to you and care about you
If you love someone, you want to show a good side in front of the other person.
Perhaps, when she is with others, she is grinning, heartless and lungless; but as long as she is with you, she will become shy, gentle and considerate.
She is meticulous and gentle with you, always whispering softly when talking to you, and cares about your life.
She will be very concerned about your emotions, give you comfort and encouragement in time when you need it, and take care of your feelings.
A woman's love is gentle as water, and only when facing someone she likes will she show a shy side.
She is always gentle and considerate to you, cares and cares about you, which is actually a signal that she is intentionally taken down by you.
Loving someone cannot be hidden under any circumstances.
Maybe the way they express love is not so direct, but they will also become braver in order to win love.
Unfortunately, many men cannot understand the careful thinking of women, and they are still struggling and hesitating, and finally miss a sincere heart.
Therefore, as a man, you must understand that women always reply to your messages in time, agree to your invitations, and be gentle and considerate to you, which is a signal that you intend to be taken down, don't understand.
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