On Friday afternoon, the child's kindergarten will hold a class meeting, which is supposed to be the child's business, but the 5-year-old daughter told me at noon that the class teacher also invited me to participate, which made me a little confused, is it that the child did something bad at school and was called a parent? When I was a child, I was afraid to call my parents, and now that I have become a parent, I still have to be called, which is really depressed.
However, how I look at the child is not nervous at all, I have to say that the current child, the mentality is really good.
"Aren't you afraid to call parents?" I asked the child.
"The teacher asked you to share the experience, what is the parent?" The child looked at me in surprise, with an angry and funny expression.
Hearing the child say this, I put my mind at ease, it turned out that it was not the child who made trouble at school.
In the afternoon, I arrived at the kindergarten on time, and after the child class teacher saw me coming, he communicated with me before the class meeting: "This time I called you to come, mainly to let you share your parenting experience", hearing the teacher say so, I was a little confused, do I have any different parenting experience? I asked myself if there was none.
"Your child performed very well in the class, not only has a correct learning attitude, listens carefully to the lectures in class, has super concentration, is also very friendly and self-disciplined, and has a very good relationship with other children, this time is to ask you to share how you educate your children and make your children so good." The teacher praised the child fiercely, and I was a little embarrassed to hear it.
At this time, I realized that the child was better than I thought, but what did I do to make the child so good? When I thought about it, I didn't find that I had any "superiority", so I said to the teacher, "I feel that the way I educate my children is very ordinary." ”
Hearing me say this, the teacher was stunned, "Why don't you tell me how you usually educate your children?" I'll help you analyze it so you can share it with others. ”
Since the teacher said so, I told the teacher how I usually raise children and how to educate children, and the teacher's eyes lit up at this time, and asked: "You mean that you will tell stories to your children every day and read books with your children?" ”
"Then what book are you reading to your child?" The reason why the teacher seems to think that the child is excellent is most likely in the cultivation of my child's reading habits and the books I read to the children.
"It's some picture book storybooks, like "Baby Bedtime Enlightenment Stories," I replied, but I don't think there's anything special about this set of books.
"So, what is this set of books about?" The teacher continued to ask.
"There are more books in this set, there are a total of 40 books, and the content of each picture book is different, and the content is all about some of the children's ability enlightenment, personality guidance, emotional control and other aspects."
As I spoke, I found that the books I chose for my children at that time were really good, not only the picture books that children liked, but also rich graphics and text, and the contents were the most lacking educational guidance content in the early days of children, which was of great help to the growth of children and the education of parents to their children.
"Keep reading your child, don't your children get bored?" The teacher continued to ask.
"Children are not bored, but they can't wait to read books every day, let me tell stories, and my enthusiasm is high." Speaking of this, I recall that children's reading habits have indeed improved a lot because of this set of books.
Although I used to like to read books, my interest was not so great, but after contacting this set of books, the children simply wanted to go into it, loved it, and clamored for me to read it every day.
The teacher seemed to have found the root of the child's excellence, so he found the information of this set of books with my help and read it for himself.
"Yo, there are still a lot of forms of expression in this set of books, as well as games, questions and answers, children's songs and so on, no wonder your children like this set of books so much." 」 The teacher said to me while flipping through the information of this set of books on the Internet.
"But no, huh", I'm more introverted, and I don't know what it's better to answer, so I can only laugh twice.
After a while, the teacher saw that the time was almost up, so he guided me to share the experience in the class, and the main content that let me share, in addition to the usual character guidance for children, habit cultivation, etc., also specially let me recommend this set of books to others.
At that time, there was not much time, so I didn't ask much, and after the class meeting, the teacher said to me: "This set of books is really good, I let you recommend it to others, that is, I hope that other parents can also prepare such a good enlightenment book for their children like you." ”
After that, the teacher said to me in a serious tone: "Now many parents do not understand, or do not pay attention to their children's enlightenment education, thinking that this kind of education can be completed in kindergartens or schools, but this is not the case." ”
"Although enlightenment education can complete part of the kindergarten, most of the real enlightenment is completed in family education, and parents need to pay special attention to this."
After saying that, the teacher looked at me, "Whether there is a good enlightenment education for children, it has a great impact on the growth of children, just like you, you bought this set of books for your children, and read them to your children every day, let your children read them every day, so you have given your children a good enlightenment education, so your children's performance in kindergarten will be very good, far more than other children." ”
After saying that, the teacher sighed, "You look at other children, far less excellent than your children, I really hope that parents can attach importance to enlightenment education, so that children can be as good as your children, become the flowers of the motherland, and be able to build the motherland when they grow up." ”
Hearing the teacher's serious words, I felt that this was really a good teacher.
After returning home in the evening, I read this set of storybooks with my children as always, at this time, I was silently happy in my heart, it turned out that what I did every day, seemingly idle, but had such a great help to the child, presumably this is a fool who has a stupid fortune, and the "stupid way" that others look down on has become a way to benefit the child for life.
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