Love Reading: Preschool enlightenment education, what is the most important?
A hit drama "Little Shed" directly presented a lot of "human anxiety" about family education in front of the audience, and many real-life mothers shouted that this is not me!!!
The topic of education has indeed made many parents worry about it, and when it comes to preschool enlightenment education, it is even bigger in the head, and our generation of parents actually value it, and we all know that this is closely related to the formation of "good habits". From eating and brushing teeth, bathing and dressing, to learning habits, collective consciousness, etc., developing good habits and establishing a "positive" concept is very important for children.
Confucius said, "Less is like nature, and habit is like nature." This means that the good habits formed as children are as strong as they are innate. We all know that children are very malleable, and they are not only easy to accept new things, but also easy to develop a habit. Some child psychologists have found that learning habits will be fixed in the lower grades of primary school, and if you do not develop good learning habits at this stage, it is very difficult to make improvements in the upper grades. In the face of the market's dazzling array of early education enlightenment institutions, how does the early education enlightenment of love readers break through in the big environment? We solve the puzzle for moms with the same anxiety in 3 ways.
The soul torture comes: what is the most important thing in preschool enlightenment education?
Although I have the title of a 6-year-old mother and a children's book editor with more than 10 years of work experience, I also feel that I want to explain "the important things in preschool education" and am a little self-sufficient, but I will try to explain what I want to say.
Step 1: Accumulate more concrete life experience
Our generation of parents, if it comes to preschool enlightenment for their children, I believe most people know that "enlightenment" is actually a very comprehensive concept, which involves all aspects of children's life and growth, not only counting, learning to add and subtract, but probably the vast majority of parents have not thought about what is the essence of enlightenment?
Let me give you a reflection of my own – in essence, the various "enlightenments" we help children do are a process of accumulating life experience, from concrete to abstract. Two typical examples:
At the cognitive level, the child has accumulated a lot of experience by recognizing various circular objects in life, and summarized (given by the parents or found by the child himself) the characteristics of the "circle", with such a foundation, when we let the child find out where the circle in the picture is, the child can be successfully completed.
Preschoolers need to master the corresponding problems of "physical objects - numbers" in mathematical enlightenment. We all know that "5" is an abstract symbol that has no meaning in itself, and it is only after we have accumulated a lot of concrete life experience such as "5 apples" and "5 cookies" that we have given it meaning. The same is true for children, the process. Through a large number of specific appearances, the child can understand the meaning of the symbol "5". Going from 5 apples to understanding the meaning of the symbol 5 is a process from accumulating experience to understanding abstract concepts.
The first box of the first stage of the love math series of products, "Number Treasure Box", takes the animals familiar to children as the starting point to help children learn the number shape, and understand the corresponding quantitative meaning of this symbol, helping the child accumulate life experience and learn the number symbol.
Do not feel that the child's play and play is meaningless, each child's game is in contact with these specific appearances, the process of familiarizing with them is itself a lot of practice day after day, the more these symbolized specific appearances, the richer, the better the effect of enlightenment.
Therefore, the most important thing about preschool enlightenment, the first important principle is to help children observe more "rich appearances" in life, take a look, count, say, in the long run, accumulate over time, one day children can give us unexpected surprises.
Step 2: Healthy and regular lifestyle habits
For a child growing up, a regular routine is crucial. Because this is directly related to his growth and development, effective learning and play time. Although as old mothers, we all have a kind of "the moon does not sleep and I do not sleep" determination, in the pursuit of free time after the baby sleeps. But I believe that everyone understands the state of "soullessness" the next day after sleeping too late. Therefore, for children, a reasonable routine is very important.
In kindergarten, the child's routine is more regular. Outdoor sports, group games, lunch and naps are organized and arranged. In contrast, if it is a small baby who has not yet entered the kindergarten, parents can also try to arrange the child's day's activities, such as getting up early in the morning, when the weather is better, you can take the child to outdoor activities, run and jump, go to the community to find those plants seen in the picture book, on the one hand, you can give the child a full "discharge", make the nap more smooth, on the other hand, it is also an opportunity to help the child "practice", help the child accumulate appearances, accumulate life experience.
In addition, two small things like eating and brushing your teeth may be the top priority for children and their parents at this age. Children's sense of self-service has begun to sprout, and with the development of muscle groups large and small in the body, it can already be initially competent for the development and cultivation of some basic behavior habits.
The sixth issue of the first phase of the love play book, "My Health Interactive Book", through rich and interesting operation forms and cute and vivid pictures and cartoon funny dubbing, let children feel that eating and brushing their teeth is not difficult, nor is it a burden. The two main books integrate the simplicity of brushing teeth and the happy feeling of eating into it, subtly allowing children to have positive emotions about eating and brushing their teeth, and cultivating lifelong good habits from the most daily behaviors.
In "Eating is a Happy Thing", all kinds of foods are all kinds of cute cartoon images, and the vegetables that children usually don't like to eat have also turned into cute vegetable villains.
In "Brushing Teeth is a Simple Thing", in order to let children understand caries bacteria more intuitively, caries bacteria cartoon anthropomorphize, they take the big bus, come to the mouth of children, and then will make trouble. But in the end, under the joint work of toothpaste and toothbrush, he lost the battle and let the child understand the importance of brushing his teeth.
Step 3: Understand the rules and understand the etiquette
Admittedly, it's important to give your child "love and freedom," but that doesn't mean the child doesn't need to follow the rules. The premise of freedom is "rules", and we want the child's freedom to be within a moderate range, the freedom to have boundaries, not the freedom to let go.
Every place has rules, there are also rules at home, such as eating, that is, you need to sit at the table and eat by yourself, rather than adults chasing after you to feed, such as playing with toys, playing well needs to be stored well, then the next time you can play again.
Then when the child goes out of the house and goes to a public place, it is more important to have a sense of rules. Because rules are the basis of our conventions and peaceful coexistence. Borrowing books in the library, the rule here is "quiet borrowing, no loud noise", waiting in line for the play facilities in the playground, the rule at this time is not to cut in line. At home, we can use some interactive games to help children establish a sense of "rules", understand when to follow the rules, and what kind of "benefits" can be brought to us by following the rules.
Falling in love with the seventh phase of the first stage of mathematics, "addition, subtraction and subtraction to make a game", requires children to play on the basis of understanding the rules of the game, and only by understanding the rules and abiding by the rules can the game be carried out smoothly. It can be said that it not only practices addition and subtraction within 6, but also helps children establish a sense of abiding by the rules and understand what is a "rule".
On the other hand, we must also let children know etiquette and understand etiquette. For example, when children really want to enter the "small society" of kindergarten, we should let children learn to say "hello", "thank you", "sorry" and "goodbye" these basic polite words. Growing up, we need to let children know how to better communicate with their classmates and teachers, such as when asking for help, they can say, "Can you help me?" For example, when you see a classmate encountering difficulties, you can say "do you need my help", if the child can say these words naturally on the right occasion, then in the class, he will also become a very popular child.
Children's early education enlightenment is very important, but often care about the chaos, in the face of a variety of choices, once the wrong way to choose, time-consuming, expensive and energy-intensive, the child is not appreciative, the mother's head is really big big big Every child is different, a unique flower in the world. And the person who knows the child best is not this expert, nor the parenting big V, but the child's parent. Love to read the family early education enlightenment, do not waste a little energy, money, time of the mothers, in a situational way to cut in, directly hit the mother in the child's enlightenment education encountered in the various problems, think of the mother's thoughts, think of the mother's thoughts, to the mothers to convey the love of the reader's intentions, love the reader will also work with every mother to put this key first step in the first place, do not miss every step of the child's growth.