What is the key to a child's enlightenment education

Interest is a mental activity that refers to the emotion of liking or caring for things. When it develops into a hobby, it becomes a long-term and relatively stable behavioral tendency of a person, and it is an important motivation to promote people to understand things and seek truth. When raising young children, if you can find the interests of infants and young children as soon as possible, you can stimulate the internal driving force and develop the potential of individual creative activities, so that their perception is sharp and their creative thinking is active, so as to promote infant and young children's knowledge-seeking activities more actively and happily.

The mother's long-term companionship can give the child a strong sense of security and promote his growth. Witness the growth of the child in the process of companionship, discover the child's interests and parenting styles. Very fortunately, I discovered Paul's interest (talent) after one of his six-month illness. At that time, he had bronchiolitis and needed to be hospitalized, not only for drip but also for nebulization. For a child in his six months of age, it was simply too difficult to get him to atomize smoothly. The parents who had atomized their children had had this experience, the children's cries and the parents' soft and hard noises were long-lasting, paul's first atomization was a waste of nearly half of the medicine in his constant struggle, and I was exhausted by his torture. The second time I wanted to take some psychological approach, first singing him a nursery rhyme to make him feel happy, and then telling him that it would be more comfortable to inhale this white gas, Paul was not as resistant as before, and I told him that there were still 10 seconds to finish "10, 9, 8..." Paul obediently sucked the medicine, and suddenly my eyes lit up, and I counted 20 more, and the child miraculously received the whole treatment process. In the next few days of fogging, I have been using this method, tried and tested, I think this child really has a natural love for numbers, I am very excited to get a treasure.

In fact, there are individual differences in each child, some children are sensitive to numbers, some children are sensitive to music, some children like small animals, some children are keen on physical exercise ~ ~ ~ ~ a thousand children have a thousand Hamlets, the sooner parents find the child's interest point, they can carry out targeted enlightenment education and broaden the child's thinking.

In my family Paul's enlightenment education, I use the way of mind mapping, which diverges from point to surface, and drives the child's thinking to develop comprehensively with interest as the point.

For example, the earliest to know that his point of interest is counting, slowly I taught him to count two-digit numbers and then three digits, in life, take him up and down the stairs when counting the stair progression, let him set the dishes when eating, go to the zoo to count the animal species, for example, the earliest know that his point of interest is counting, slowly I taught him to count the number of double digits and then to the three digits, in life, take him up and down the stairs to count the stair progressions, let him set the bowls when eating, go to the zoo to count the animal species, the number is no longer a cold and cold existence, It has always been integrated into our lives, to help life; just 2 years old Paul's interest is highlighted, can calculate double-digit addition, when riding the subway he will tell me several different ways to reach the destination of the transfer, when going to the theater to see a movie can find the corresponding position according to the seat number, when eating cake let him experience the cake perception score, these have exercised the child's logical thinking ability; when I was 3 years old, I bought a large block, a tangram, a puzzle, Number games and other toys exercise his hands-on thinking ability, The German logic dog is also the best choice for mathematical enlightenment; at the age of 4, he learned to build Lego, and can perceive circles, squares, rectangles, and diamonds, which not only allows his interest in numbers to expand from simple interest in numbers to logical thinking and spatial thinking.

During the holidays, Paul lost some of his kindergarten lessons, learned to play the cards "two to one" and "run fast", and when he mastered the rules of the game, he quickly applied it freely. In parenting, I think that play is the main element of life, not only because children "like to play" games, but also because even the most ordinary games have layers of meaning. After contacting poker, Paul quickly recognized the meaning and size of each suit and number, we told him what pairs, straights, bombs, big and small kings were, taught him the rules of the game, who is big and who is small, but did not tell him how to play, he combined himself, tried to fight. Play can establish the connection between parents and children, reshape the relationship between children and parents, cultivate children's self-confidence, and integrate children's interests into the game to help parents solve many difficult problems. There are many parents who do not recommend that children contact poker, mahjong and other games, because of the fear of addiction or playthings, in fact, as long as the guidance is correct, moderate brain game competition will exercise the child's brain and mentality, become a good tool for edutainment.

As Paul grew up and his interests expanded, I chose excellent math picture books for him. Because in the process of learning mathematics, only paying attention to the calculus steps of the number formula and ignoring the understanding of mathematical language is equivalent to abandoning the establishment of mathematical thinking ability. Many young children due to their age characteristics and cognitive structure problems, their mathematical reading ability is very low, there will be "not clear", "understanding is not thorough" and other situations, or because of poor mathematical reading ability. Some research institutions have shown that mathematical reading is positively correlated with mathematical academic performance, that is, people who can read have better grades.

Japan's Mitsuya Anno's "Into the Wonderful Digital World", "Beautiful Mathematics Series", and the United States' "Chinese Sound Mathematics" are very good reading materials, 3-6 years old to read in person, 6-12 can read independently. I read these as small stories to children, when listening to stories, when encountering hands-on small experiments, we will understand while doing experiments, when encountering stories that need to measure weight, length, volume, I will encourage Paul to try to find the corresponding measurement tools, in the process of cultivating interest skills, let the children build self-confidence and develop good habit qualities. In addition, the "Mobi Mathematics" launched by the most popular mathematical thinking institution in Beijing is also widely acclaimed. These have further stimulated the child's interest in mathematics, driven his enthusiasm and autonomy in learning, and now I have let him join the study of The Go course, and his problem-solving and innovation skills have been further improved.

This kind of enlightenment education guidance method with interest as the line is very popular, and it can achieve the effect of doing more with less. Children experience the pleasure of "playing in middle school, playing in learning", and at the same time develop good habits and thinking patterns, and interest has achieved children ~~ This kind of enlightenment education guidance method with interest as the line is very popular, and can achieve the effect of doubling the results with half the effort. Children experience the pleasure of "playing in middle school, playing in learning", and at the same time develop good habits and thinking patterns, and their interests have made children ~~

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