Often there are people who can't distinguish between like and love, in fact, like is overnight, love is from the heart to the ancient rarity.
Just as we may like small dumplings, we will also like bread burgers, but what we really love is soy milk fritters, which accompany us every morning and welcome the new day.
So when you can't tell your emotions, ask yourself how you feel and how far you're with that.
However, the love thing, at the beginning, must be two feelings, even if you are sure of your feelings, you have to ask the other party to nod, if the other party has no intention, and you are too reckless, in the end it will definitely be a failure.
And a woman who is willing to be handled by you will most likely give you three signals, don't be aware of it.
1, willing to chat with you
Chatting is the most common thing in life, even if we meet a salesman with similar interests when we are shopping, we may chat for a while.
And if it is really embedded in life of colleagues, friends, classmates, etc., people who have a clear connection will chat from time to time to relieve boredom.
But if you pay close attention to this matter, you will find that although we talk every day, we are basically with different people, and the time of conversation is limited.
Perhaps only friends who have a good relationship will have frequent chats, but most of them are based on the same sex, whether it is a man or a woman, in the absence of special circumstances, rarely chat with the opposite sex for a long time.
So if a woman is willing to chat with you, or even if you chat for more time and frequency than your old friends for many years, you have to seriously consider the emotional problems between you.
In the eyes of most women, at least half of the ten men are straight men, so there is no interest in chatting at all, but they are willing to chat with you, no matter what they talk about, they are very interested, in fact, they are not interested in the topic, just interested in you.
2. Willing to accept your invitation
Dating girls is really a technical job, although it seems that in this matter, it is the man who suffers a loss and needs to bear all the costs of dating, and the girl can only bring someone over, but it is still easy to be rejected.
First of all, between the opposite sex, which is not familiar with the opposite sex, the invitation issued by the man is easily rejected, because in the woman's view, there is no topic between the two, and it will be awkward to go out alone.
Secondly, even if they are still familiar friends, for such a thing as a solo date, if there is no special circumstance, women will most likely refuse, because they know that accepting a man's invitation without authorization is easy to cause misunderstanding to the other party, especially if the other party has other meanings.
So when a woman is willing to accept your offer, and not just once or twice, whether it's a party of friends together, a solo date, or even coming out at night, they readily accept it.
In fact, this is sending a signal to you, telling you that they trust you very much in their hearts, and do not reject the qualitative change in each other's relationship.
3. Willing to accept gossip
Even in the 21st century, women are still very concerned about gossip, they will care more about their reputation than everyone thinks, and they are not willing to leave a bad impression on others, especially if they are unmarried and have no object, there will be emotional rumors.
For women who are single and have not yet had a favorite object, they are not willing to be arranged feelings, because this will affect the arrival of their new feelings.
And if women already have people they like, they are even more reluctant to be randomly choreographed, because they will be afraid of causing misunderstandings to the people they like, and then miss the good marriage.
So when a woman, knowing that she is spreading gossip about you, but does not show an attitude of disgust and rejection, she will even gladly accept it, which actually means that they like you.
They will hope that this gossip can come true, and even want to let you know their intentions and further accelerate the speed of their emotional changes between each other.
If you like a person, you will do everything you can to pay attention to him, even if you just look at him, you are happy and satisfied, and it seems that you are also involved in his life.
This kind of mood, as if being fried on a fire, hates that people who can't love can immediately save themselves from the fire and water, but worry that they are too anxious, but they ruin the progress of this relationship.
Everyone in the emotional situation has had such a stage, I believe that everyone will want to fall off as soon as possible, so if you find that the other party has the corresponding "symptoms" in these three aspects, you must be sure that you are really in love.
Maybe the moment is just a lack of an opportunity to let each other know each other's intentions, and you have to learn to create this opportunity, can not blindly stand in the same place and wait.
Not all things can wait for it to come, the flowers can be folded straight and folded, do not wait for no flowers to fold the branches, there are many regrets in life, but if it is such a regret, it will really make you regret it for a lifetime.