"Marrying Mr. Zhang is the most correct choice I have done in my life, and the talent of Mr. Zhang has attracted me, not mr. Zhang's money, and people who do not understand true love, please do not talk nonsense."
"I am not a gold worshipper, and the people who say I am a gold worshipper not only do not understand love, but also have bad intentions!"
In the face of netizens saying that she married Zhang Jizhong for Zhang Jizhong's money, the famous director Zhang Jizhong's wife Du Xinglin did not choose to be patient, but actively responded and said these words.
In her opinion, those who were not accustomed to her marrying Zhang Jizhong were just envying and jealousy of her.
In fact, it is no wonder that netizens will question and criticize her relationship, after all, no matter from all aspects, the contrast and contrast between her and her current husband Zhang Jizhong are too big.
First of all, the age of the two, Zhang Jizhong is 31 years older than her, according to age, enough to be her father.
Secondly, from the perspective of her career, she was originally just an unknown agent, but since marrying Zhang Jizhong, she has instantly "flown up the branches and become a phoenix" and has become a public figure that has attracted much public attention.
Therefore, it is naturally difficult for everyone to understand and accept her choice to marry her husband, who is 30 years older than her.
In fact, many people do not know that Du Xinglin, who has had 2 marriage experiences, in addition to her current husband Zhang Jizhong, who is 31 years older than her, her ex-husband is also 20 years older than her!
Married to a wealthy Taiwanese businessman, although her ex-husband is 20 years older than her, compared to her current husband, who is 31 years older than her, her ex-husband is a handsome and gold-rich man.
No one expected that after leaving her ex-husband, Du Xinglin actually found an older husband and gave birth to 2 children for each other after marriage.
Du Xinglin, who claims that she is not a gold worshipper, is looking for two husbands who are so much older than her, what is she trying to do?
Married to a man 31 years older, is she really happy? Does she regret her choice now?
One
Born in 1982 in Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, Du Xinglin grew up in a family of intellectuals to very cultured parents.
Because his parents are more conservative and his ideological concepts are more traditional, Du Xinglin had to abide by many "family rules" when he was a child, such as not being too greedy, not going home too late at night, and so on.
But Du Xinglin's parents did not expect that this daughter, who was very well-behaved and obedient in front of them when she was a child, later played more freely than anyone else on the emotional road, perhaps this is the so-called contrast.
Because her parents had particularly high requirements for her when she was a child, under the cultivation of her parents, Du Xinglin was a bully in the class from an early age.
In addition, she also developed a small mouth with sharp teeth, and every time she discussed learning problems with her classmates, she could argue with her classmates with reason and evidence.
In addition to her particularly good academic performance, she looked petite and cute when she was a child, and with her age, she also became more and more watery, and when she went to junior high school, she also became the crush of many male classmates in the class.
For the pursuit and overtures of these wild bees and butterflies, Du Xinglin rejected them one by one.
After graduating from high school, Du Xinglin was admitted to the ideal university she liked with excellent grades, and she began to work part-time during college.
Du Xinglin, who worked part-time as an English teacher in an off-campus training institution, taught many high school students at that time, because of her gentle personality, she was also particularly patient in the process of teaching, and many students were particularly willing to take her classes.
With the rich experience accumulated by these part-time jobs, after graduating from college, Du Xinglin, who did not plan his life plan for the time being, did his first job as an English teacher.
However, her job did not last long, and she did not want to live a life of blandness, and after being an English teacher for a period of time, she quit her job and chose to study in France.
It was precisely because of this choice that she met her first husband, Huang Taiyuan.
Two
During her study in France, Du Xinglin gained a lot of insight and exoticism abroad, and she has been constantly learning to make herself more excellent in those years.
In 2009, the 27-year-old Du Xinglin completed the task of studying abroad and returned to China from abroad, but she did not return to the mainland, but taiwan.
She is engaged in a kind of work in Taiwan, because of the content of the work and professional reasons, she is exposed to some successful people who are not rich or expensive, including Huang Taiyuan.
Like Du Xinglin, Huang Taiyuan, who is 20 years older than her, is also engaged in planning work, and he has been in the business world for many years, and he was already a famous planner in Taiwan at that time.
He not only owned the industry under his own name, but also with years of development, he had accumulated a wealth of wealth at that time, and was a veritable rich businessman.
When the two met, Du Xinglin, who was in his 20s, was at a young and beautiful age, and for this capable and attractive girl, Huang Taiyuan was immediately attracted to her.
Du Xinglin is the same, although Huang Taiyuan is a full 20 years older than her, she also admires this handsome and golden man.
They have a lot of common topics in business, from planning to marketing to how to run a company.
In business, they not only became very chatty friends, but they also co-founded a business planning company together, with Huang Taiyuan as the chairman of the company and Du Xinglin as the executive president.
I have to say that although Du Xinglin did not have a lot of social experience at that time, she knew very well how to grasp the psychology of a consumer, and through her unique business acumen and planning talent, she quickly put the company on the right track.
At the same time as there is improvement in her career, due to the reasons of cooperation, she and her partner Huang Taiyuan also slowly rubbed out the spark of love, and the relationship became ambiguous.
One has the ability to have beauty, the other is handsome and golden, and the two are simply a match made in heaven.
However, they entered the palace of marriage from having a good feeling for each other, but they experienced all kinds of dangers and difficulties, only because Huang Taiyuan already owned a family at that time.
However, in the face of Du Xinglin, who has a family on one side and a thousand styles on the other, Huang Taiyuan did not get too entangled, and he decisively chose the latter.
Three
In order to be with Du Xinglin, Huang Taiyuan decisively chose to divorce his wife who had been married for many years, and after 4 days of successful divorce, he could not wait to post on the social platform: "On April 18, 2013, I finally successfully divorced. Greeting the happy spring of me and the princess!!! ”
The princess he was talking about was Du Xinglin, who was in a state of hot love with him at that time.
The two of them who came together happily finally moved from sneaking in love to a bright and just love relationship.
At the end of the year, Du Xinglin, who had been in love with Huang Taiyuan for a long time, agreed to his marriage proposal.
Not long after that, she happily married the man who was 20 years older than her.
In order to commemorate this relationship, Du Xinglin also happily posted the wedding photos of the two on the social platform at that time, which attracted the attention of many netizens.
After marrying Huang Taiyuan, Du Xinglin did not feel at ease to be her magnate, but used the other party's resources and connections to vigorously develop her own career.
She claimed to be a doctor of study abroad, set up an aesthetic education and training institution called "Gardenia Women's Society", and used her own good means to help women in need to enhance their charm and make these women become confident.
Deeply rooted in the women's industry, she also incarnated as a body, mind and soul aesthetics coach, hypnosis mentor, etc., and even served as the vice president of the "Sino-French Women's Life Aesthetic Education Alliance".
At that time, she had always flaunted herself as a "leader on the road to female growth", and her career development was flourishing, and she had made many better men than her husband Huang Taiyuan.
Four
In 2015, she developed her career in full swing, and in an event, she met a man who made her heart move, but the person who made her heart move was a bit special, the other party was 31 years older than her, and this man was the famous director Zhang Jizhong.
Zhang Jizhong should be familiar to everyone, he was born in 1951, is a native of Heze, Shandong, and has been developing in the show business circle since graduating from Chinese opera.
Not only has it brought us classic works such as "Legend of the Archery Hero", "Tianlong Babu", "Divine Eagle Hero", "Journey to the West" and so on, but also won major awards such as the Five One Project Award, the Feitian Award, and the Golden Eagle Award.
When he met Du Xinglin, Zhang Jizhong was already a well-known and famous director, although Zhang Jizhong, who was 64 years old at the time, was already white-haired, but Du Xinglin still did not give up the opportunity to make friends with him.
Under the matchmaking of the person in charge of the activity, she and Zhang Jizhong chatted very closely, and Zhang Jizhong also liked this beautiful and capable girl.
Under Du Xinglin's constant overtures and various words that amused him, Zhang Jizhong simply had a feeling of seeing each other and hating her, and the two have maintained close contact in private since then.
Zhang Jizhong, who favored Du Xinglin, later directly let Du Xinglin be his agent, and the relationship between the two immediately became extraordinary.
At the same time, since meeting Zhang Jizhong, Du Xinglin seems to have suddenly changed as a person, and his relationship with her husband Huang Taiyuan has become weaker and weaker.
In order to meet a better new life, not long after meeting Zhang Jizhong, at the end of 2015, Du Xinglin decisively ended his marriage relationship with Huang Taiyuan and left the man who had made her heart move.
After that, Du Xinglin gave up the labels of the doctor of study abroad and the leader on the road to women's growth that he had previously shaped, and stayed by Zhang Jizhong's side as his little assistant.
As for why she was willing to give up her previous years of efforts and stay by Zhang Jizhong's side as an assistant, everyone should be able to understand the reasons for this.
Five
In September 2016, Du Xinglin, who had been Zhang Jizhong's assistant for a long time, instantly became the focus of public opinion because of the words of Fan Xinman, Zhang Jizhong's wife, who was not divorced at the time.
Fan Xinman posted on the social platform, which said: "Du Xinglin, you saved me! You are also my careful liver! ”
"You don't even know that Zhang Jizhong has passed our marital property to your name, you are innocent, you are lovely!"
"Now you know, right? It's my stuff, don't tear your face and grab it! ”
She accused Du Xinglin of transferring her and Zhang Jizhong's marital property to her own name, but still pretended to be innocent, and this remark instantly pushed Du Xinglin and Zhang Jizhong to the cusp of the storm.
According to Fan Xinman, Du Xinglin not only interfered in her marriage to Zhang Jizhong, but also tried to transfer her property.
But before netizens felt pity for her, Zhang Jizhong's backhand exposed the news that she had cheated on the two sons and famous director Xiao Qi.
Fan Xinman, who did not accept defeat, not only denied the news that he cheated on Xiao Qi, but also broke the news that her husband Zhang Jizhong's private life was very chaotic, bluntly saying: "He is raising a little third who is 31 years younger than himself, and his illegitimate son is almost three years old." ”
The little three she is talking about here is Du Xinglin, who is 31 years younger than Zhang Ji.
She also taunted Zhang Jizhong: "For 20 years, it has been like this, doing nothing, but selling fame and reputation." ”
In the face of the couple's mutual accusations and shirking responsibility, Du Xinglin, who caused the two to tear the fuse, watched the fire from the other side.
For the media to ask: "Are you really a junior?" ”
Du Xinglin said: "No, there are any things that transfer property, they are all the things of the two of them, and they have nothing to do with me, I don't know at all!" ”
She threw the pot very clean, because she said it very sincerely, many people believed her words at that time, and felt that Zhang Jizhong's divorce from his wife Fan Xinman had nothing to do with her.
However, what happened later told us that this matter was not as simple as Du Xinglin said.
Six
From the beginning of the tear in September 2016 to the end of 2016, the noisy Zhang Jizhong and Fan Xinman finally ended their marriage relationship.
Du Xinglin, who had previously said in front of the media that Zhang Jizhong's divorce had nothing to do with her, did not long after Zhang Jizhong divorced his ex-wife Fan Xinman, and turned around and married Zhang Jizhong in March 2017.
At this time, she was only 35 years old, while her second husband, Zhang Jizhong, was already 66 years old.
Because the second husband Zhang Jizhong and his ex-wife divorced the boiling noise, and even involved her body, so when he married Zhang Jizhong, Du Xinglin did not say anything.
It was not until September 13, 2020, the third day after she gave birth to her daughter, that Zhang Jizhong officially acknowledged their husband and wife relationship in front of the media.
He said: "Du Xinglin and I are a legal couple, Du Xinglin is a doctoral student studying in France, she is taking care of our family and career wholeheartedly, and she is not an assistant. ”
"My current family was also legally re-established after the failure of the previous marriage, and my children were born legally."
At the same time, their wedding photos were also exposed.
Du Xinglin, who has been married to Zhang Jizhong for three years, finally waited for the fame she wanted through three years of hidden forbearance, plus the help she gave birth to 2 children for Zhang Jizhong in succession.
At this point, she changed from a small assistant by Zhang Jizhong's side to "Mrs. Zhang".
Seven
Although many people have complained about their feelings and marriages when they know this news, and even many people have bluntly criticized Du Xinglin as a "gold worshipper" and "relying on Zhang Jizhong to ascend to the throne", these gossip did not affect the feelings of the two of them.
And for these sarcastic and questioning words, compared to Du Xinglin's indifference, Zhang Jizhong will domineeringly defend his wife every time, and from this point of view, he really loves this wife.
I have to say that from the perspective of the current emotional situation of the two of them, although the two are not particularly compatible in age, they can love each other, and there is really no need to say about their feelings.
They accompany each other and support each other, face the gossip of the outside world, and always work together to advance and retreat together, which is much better than many star couples in the circle who "fly away from each other in the face of great difficulties".
As a child born in an ordinary family, although Du Xinglin has encountered emotional setbacks, she finally relied on her own efforts to bravely pursue today's happiness.
Although this relationship has always been controversial, she is now loved by her husband as a princess, but she will not regret her original choice.
As she said, the two of them are truly in love, and as for the outside world's opinion, it is not so important.
Du Xinglin, now 40 years old, and her 71-year-old current husband Zhang Jizhong have a stable relationship, and the couple lives a particularly warm life for their young two.
And the two of their young children are also growing up healthy and happy under their care.
Relieved to become "Mrs. Zhang", she has basically given up her previous career.
I don't know if I saw the reason for the rise of the live streaming industry in recent years, she also entered the development of this industry, and her husband Zhang Jizhong will come to her live broadcast room from time to time to increase her popularity.
Relying on the fame and popularity of her husband Zhang Jizhong, she is now developing very well in the industry of live streaming and goods.
Now that Du Xinglin is spoiled by her husband in her emotional life, the family is warm and happy, and the two children are slowly growing up, she has finally lived the life she wants.
As for what Du Xinglin chose to marry Zhang Jizhong, who is 31 years older, perhaps she is planning a stable life now.
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