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The poem says: "After a long time in the cage, you can return to nature." ”
Looking forward to it, looking forward to it, it will reach the age of retirement, and the road of life in the future will become more and more relaxed, and no one will be in charge of it, and no one will be able to control it.
Perhaps, we often think like this, when we are in office, when we encounter unsatisfactory things, we will not say them, because we are afraid of losing our jobs; when we retire, we must vent our grievances and work troubles, and if we do not spit out unhappiness, we will be "unscrupulous" again.
There is a saying that tigers do not threaten, and others think that they are sick cats.
I have endured for a long time, and when I retire, I still have to endure, and I have really treated myself badly. And reality tells us that only by sparing others and sparing others will we be truly free.
Therefore, when retiring, we must learn to be patient, and it is best not to do the following things to avoid poor character.
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First, to denigrate the original unit is to deny the "way to come" of life.
Wang Anshi, the prime minister of the Song Dynasty, when he was the prime minister, was used several times and was cold several times. Some people also called him "Wang Jinggong", and some people called him "Gong Xianggong", with mixed praise and criticism.
On his way back to his hometown, he told his family not to alarm local officials and not to say his name. He voluntarily gave up using official ships to send them to each other, but rented civilian ships.
He said: "'The prime minister has been able to hold the boat in his belly', and no one has ever said anything enough. Those who speak good are not enough to be happy; those who are evil are not enough to be angry. Just when the wind passes in your ears. ”
It is not a merit, you can not say it, but the comments of posterity. If you complain about your original unit, it means that you don't know how to be grateful at all, and you don't know what you did in the first half of your life.
Understand that you can retire, not because you have particularly outstanding achievements, nor because you have a good life, but because "the original unit paid you a pension and did something ahead of the rain."
There's a saying that goes, "When you leave your position, you're nothing." ”
In any unit, there are cases of ill-consideration, and there are also scandals. If you have an opinion on the unit, bear with it, say less, and when you retire home, the resentment will naturally disappear.
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Second, to find a colleague who has a festival to make a fuss is to "vent private anger" and there is no pattern.
During the Song Dynasty, because of the work of changing the law, Wang Anshi and Su Dongpo, who were officials of the same dynasty, sang the opposite tune, and the two people quarreled for many years.
After Wang Anshi retired, Su Dongpo went to visit him. The two men talked for a long time and toured the scenery of Jiangning together.
Su Dongpo wrote "Journey to Jiang Shan with Wang Sheng", saying: "There are no ten miles in a good mountain, and I hate him for another year." ”
Life is only a few decades, the road to the workplace, it is only a few miles, if you carry hatred, it is a delay in a happy old age.
For colleagues who have had a festival, you must learn to understand. If you meet later, you won't be embarrassed with each other; if you don't meet later, you won't lose either.
No matter how capable you are and how loyal you are to the unit, it is impossible to satisfy everyone. There are also some people who deliberately demean you. At work, it is common for everyone to have conflicts, because of the direction of work, they argue with each other, and it is not strange to see each other.
Amplify your own pattern, look at your colleagues with a fair attitude, and you can get along with anyone happily. Shaking hands and making peace is ten thousand times better than finding an opponent.
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Third, the things that go along with the public are "late festivals are not guaranteed" and lose the image of people in the workplace.
There is a kind of person who is not satisfied with his job, salary, and official position. Those who think that they have worked hard and worked hard, but have not been appreciated, but those who have done nothing have risen all the way.
With a mentality of "public cheapness, not taking advantage of the white", when retiring, go along with the public things. A cup, a few books, a pile of paper, a computer, etc., can be moved at any time.
To be a person, we must distinguish between public and private, and one yard is one yard. We must understand that those who "do not take a needle and a thread from the masses" are people of good character. Your behavior is small, but the impact on life is not small.
If, when you are retiring, you have more money from the public, you should also return it happily, and do not have any complaints.
Once, you survived a lot of hard times and took care of your family. In the future, your burden is smaller, your life is easier, and your expenses are less, so why be greedy? To be a human being, we must end from one.
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Fourth, holding a retirement banquet on a large scale is suspected of taking advantage of the opportunity to amass wealth.
There is a kind of person, when he retires, he vigorously holds a banquet and hopes that all his colleagues will participate. In particular, some people who have been in several units can sit at dozens of tables if they gather their colleagues together.
Do the math carefully, everyone who comes to the banquet gives a gift, that is a big sum of money.
If people who once had status and influence held retirement banquets, there would be more people to give gifts.
Retiring with the idea of "having the right not to use it, expiring and invalidating it" is probably not feasible. Once you want to accumulate wealth, the people around you will hate you. In case you take a back seat before you retire, there will be a situation of "people have not left, tea is cool first", and colleagues will not follow the courtesy.
Man, be self-aware. Don't lose your face because of a few pieces of silver. Give up your desire, resist the idea of doing wine, you can do it, quietly leave the workplace, all kinds of embarrassment and trouble, will not find you.
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During the Warring States period, the founder of the Dharma Family, Wu Shenzi, told such a story: a rabbit ran out of the field, and a hundred people chased after it. Think about it, a rabbit is not enough for a hundred people to divide, but the destination of the rabbit is not determined, so everyone will chase.
Anyone wants to take benefits into themselves, turn the unknown into their own, which is the root cause of "chasing".
In the workplace, people have to adapt to the "law of the jungle" and don't complain. Your discomfort is also the discomfort of others, so why "embarrass each other"?
There is a way that retirement does not fade.
When you are at the threshold of retirement, stand on the last shift, pull a colleague who takes over the job, and leave a good impression.
Establishing a good character is difficult and difficult, destroying the character, and it is a thought.
Man, bear with me, and be quiet and naturally clear.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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