For women, having children is definitely a very important thing, and then after having children, they need to confinement. Many girls will feel that they can't get along with their mother-in-law, so they go back to their mother's house to sit in confinement. In fact, this kind of approach is not quite right, and it is easy to leave a feud, especially with these three people.
Xiao Wang has been pregnant for more than 9 months, and seeing that the child is about to come to this world, Xiao Wang is very excited, because this is the first time to give birth to a child. Although it was accompanied by some nervousness, there was still a lot of excitement. It didn't take long for Xiao Wang to give birth to the child, because his mother-in-law had a lot of things to be busy, so Xiao Wang thought of returning to his mother's house to sit in confinement. Xiao Wang's husband also feels that this is a better way, because Xiao Wang's mother is usually relatively idle, so she has the energy to take care of Xiao Wang.
I thought that there would be no problems in doing things in this way, but I didn't expect that Xiao Wang would leave a yuezi vendetta after returning home. All this is Xiao Wang's mother, who has never been so careful when taking care of Xiao Wang, and has always complained about Xiao Wang. Once Xiao Wang's mother said directly: "Why do you want to go home and sit in confinement?" It's annoying, I'm still going to serve you, don't you know how tired I am? ”
When Xiao Wang heard these words, he instantly became unhappy, but why would his own mother say such a thing to himself? However, for the sake of his own body, Xiao Wang still put up with all this. It's just that after that, Xiao Wang never wanted to go back to her mother's house again, because she really didn't want to see her mother's face.
In fact, this is a very typical example, there are many women who like to go back to their mother's house to confinement. In fact, this is not necessarily a good thing for women, because it is easy to leave a confinement vendetta, especially with these three people is the easiest to leave a confinement vendetta.
So which three people are the mothers prone to leave a feud with?
If you really talk about this, then you should think of the mother of the mother first. Some people may not understand why the mother of a pregnant woman will leave a grudge on the mother. In fact, all this is because the mother of the mother has such an idea, that is, the daughter who marries out is like water spilled out, and the mother of these mothers does not want to care about the mother at all.
These mothers will feel that the mother should be left to the mother-in-law to take care of, and she has no responsibility to take care of her daughter. Therefore, once you return to your mother's house to confinement, then women's mothers often do not like to pay too much energy, which will make the mother feel that the current environment is relatively strange. And the mother will also feel that her mother is not so good to herself, so it is easy to have hatred at this time, and this hatred is difficult to dissipate.
There is another person who is also easy to make pregnant women hate, and that is their younger siblings. Especially for families with two children, the difference between the mother and her siblings is completely different. Especially when two people are confinement at the same time, then the situation of two people will be very different.
Sometimes the mother will be very jealous of one thing, why does her mother put all her energy into taking care of her younger siblings? Once this jealousy arises, the mother hates her siblings very much. This will make the relationship between two people very bad, and such a relationship is irreversible, and it is not an easy task to repair such a relationship in the future.
In addition, pregnant women will also have hatred for their sister-in-law. Again, as the old saying goes, when pregnant women return to their mother's home for confinement, they also need to open up their bodies and minds, and at the same time, they also hope to be able to sit comfortably and comfortably, because only in this way can they quickly recover their bodies.
At this time, the mother needs to let the mother's family put all her energy into herself, not into others. Sometimes, however, the results are not so good, and if a woman has an older brother, she must have a sister-in-law.
And once the mother returns to her mother's home, she can clearly understand one thing, that is, the status of the sister-in-law in this family is very high, and everyone will surround the sister-in-law and will also put all the ideas of the sister-in-law in mind. At this time, the mother will feel that she has been ignored, so she will remember the hatred.
Therefore, it is not that the mother returns to the mother's home to confinement can be beneficial to her body, and it is also easy to leave a confinement vendetta. This also means that it is best for the mother-in-law to stay in the mother-in-law's home to sit in confinement, so that the mother-in-law can take care of it carefully, so that the distance between her husband and the husband can become closer, and she can also be taken care of by the husband.