Marriage between a man and a woman is not considered "family". It is not until the birth of a small life that a small family is established. But soon you will find that during this time, the small family that you just established is actually quite fragile. After giving birth to a child, women's spirit is sharply reduced, their faces are haggard, their bodies are out of shape, and they no longer look like the goddess of the past; babies need to be taken care of day and night by both husband and wife, consuming physical strength and consuming more energy, and under irritable emotions, the feelings of husband and wife will be tested; they are all parents for the first time, and both husband and wife have to force themselves to touch the true appearance of home in the busy chaos - the sense of responsibility of bearing weights.
But it is clear that the test faced by Gu Xin's family in "Heart Residence" is more severe. For Gu Xin, his wife Ge Yue was just pregnant, his father-in-law was investigated for dereliction of duty, his colleagues made faces in the unit, he was the only one in the family who could carry things, and the responsibility that fell on his shoulders was three mountains in an instant. Coincidentally, Gu Xin was not a master who could carry things. This "disaster" made him eager to replace his entire life.
When encountering such an obscure husband, Ge Yue was obviously the most suffering. During pregnancy, Gu Xin avoided the upper body of the personality, several times and three times with his ex-girlfriend to break the connection, Ge Yue asked and also denied; after giving birth to a child, Gu Xin hooked up with his cousin, Ge Yue sensed that her husband was wrong, but she could only secretly observe. Please, have a snack, your husband has a previous crime!
Ge Yue's biggest problem was that she had always been too smooth. Her father was a high-ranking official and came from a wealthy family, and she grew up immersed in the pampering and superior life of "being held in the palm of her hand". She naturally felt that feelings were the same as those substances, natural and righteous, as promised, and did not need to be managed. The two things that Ge Yue did the most in the play were to complain about emotions with Gu Xin, and the other was to send Gu Xin WeChat to say some trivial words that did not matter, or it was a serial call to death.
When she found that her love life was not as smooth as she wished, she began to pray with a humble gesture to Gu Xin to love herself. You and I have had real emotional experiences, and I understand that love is not begging, it is attracted.
In contrast, the other two women who can sway Gu Xin's attention, Wang Qi and Feng Xixi, have their own unique charms and are very good at associating them with Gu Xin's urgent needs, which naturally brings attraction. Men must have problems cheating, but the original match is not good at grasping their feelings, and they also need to take some responsibility. Perhaps through Ge Yue's experience, everyone can have a more rational understanding of feelings.