I found that many friends are still interested in my postpartum life! It has been more than 2 months since I was a little lime, and apart from the 42 days I have lived in the confinement center, I have officially returned home for a while. I won't talk about the confinement center, so today I will talk to you about my life and feelings every day after I return home.
First of all, the personnel, like a child, are still the main force of me and my mother-in-law, but the difference is that I and my mother-in-law have become more calm and calm. When a fetus first began to hold the round circle, trembling, changing the and diapers had to ask for help from the next mother-in-law, and now because of the improvement of the practical ability of the training when the first child was born and read a lot of books in the process of one-child parenting, it is now handled a lot of numbness. In this regard, the mother-in-law is properly assured and exaggerated to me, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is naturally harmonious a lot, hahaha.
Talk about the daily routine, in the morning, the mother-in-law sends Yuanyuan to the kindergarten to go to the market to buy vegetables, so this time in the morning is the time when I and Lemon Lemon are alone. Because in the morning Dabao woke up in a hurry to go to kindergarten, the bowls and bottles at home were not washed, and the quilt was not folded, I would be very anxious to do housework, I didn't want to mess up at home, but the baby was always awake and couldn't get out of it, she still wanted someone to hug ah; when the first day was faced, it was so annoying, anxious, and even did not have a good mood to face the baby. But when the baby goes to sleep at noon, she will reflect after eating, the baby will wake up without anyone to accompany, the housework cannot be done wholeheartedly, and her mood is not good, but it is better to concentrate on doing a good job of accompanying the baby. So the next day after the little lemon woke up, I arranged a variety of parent-child activities, put on children's songs, do touch, practice turning over and looking up, taking pictures, I enjoyed myself, and I didn't have to hold the baby tired in a posture, let her fall asleep and interact with her. Lime lime is also very happy, and the smile is a cure for me.
My mother-in-law came back to cook lunch, and after lunch I started to clean up everywhere, avoiding the small belly of the after-dinner seat and being able to complete the housework efficiently. The next afternoon was my own. In addition to breastfeeding, I will rest for half an hour, and then start my own blogger work, at this stage is actually sharing my life while outputting dry goods, thinking about some common problems of newborns to organize into script shooting, look at the fans' message replies, read books when the computer is tired, and slowly find their previous work status to achieve self-worth.
When the family picks up dabao Yuanyuan home in the evening, I will start to take Yuanyuan to my own daily parent-child punch card. Every day I will probably set 5 small goals for the circle, build blocks, coloring, reading picture books, doing handicrafts, etc., there is no absolute evaluation system for these goals, mainly to let children develop a habit of self-discipline and love of learning, and they can't ignore the time to accompany dabao because of small.
I am very satisfied with the status quo, both to accompany my children and to achieve self-growth.
Many mothers may be far away from books, away from learning, and away from self-growth after they finish their school life. Work, family, and children take up all of moms' time, leaving them overwhelmed and unable to take care of their own growth. In fact, after the second child will be busier than before, but I found that instead of watching some serials, I read more books, involved in a wider range of levels, for the small is to read parenting books warm and new, may be a child to ignore some of the problems at this time to make up, but also more able to grasp a law of the child's growth, do not hide from everyone, the little lemon can be said to be an angel baby, really bring up a lot easier, the mother always said "as long as we have the right way, the child will not cry all day long." "This is a positive feedback that I bring out, acting on the child after I have grown up;
For the big look is more is the education of the book, look at everyone's praise for the circle to know, this is also from the book to harvest a full of experience, before the birth of the second child I will also be anxious about the two children of the second child family to get along, the big treasure will reject the second treasure, bought a picture book about the second child, how the baby came to this world in pregnancy made a preparation, now it seems that the circle is more than any of us love the little lemon, sing and dance for her, but also learned a lot of ways to take care of the sister in us adults. This makes my second child life more warm and pleasant, less chicken flying dog jump.
In a sense, the child is the teacher of the parents, who comes into this world and urges the parents to make up for the lessons they have neglected before and constantly improve their life map. A mother once sighed to me: I only understand the phrase "the child is an angel", if it were not for the difficulties encountered in raising him, I would not explore, and I would not deeply reflect on my own growth process and thinking mode. Now, my life is moving towards the open, which is the change brought about by children.
So, when we feel sleepy and overwhelmed, we may as well stop and see what is holding us back. When we no longer run away and face problems bravely, it also means leaving our psychological comfort zone and entering a state of uncertainty. In this process, there will be suffering, confusion and anxiety, but as long as we insist on thinking, we will eventually find a way to solve it.
Every living individual has the need for self-growth, and also has the law of self-growth. If you miss today's growth, you need to double your repayment tomorrow. And the self-growth of mothers is not only related to the perfection of their own lives, but also to the growth of children who are most closely related to them. A growing mother can more easily help her child through every obstacle in their growth.
Today's sharing here is the end of the first, I hope that my feelings can give you some thinking and positive energy, but also welcome everyone to leave a message to share your parenting story with me!