Father-in-law to help with the child, how does the daughter-in-law feel?
If you let the daughter-in-law choose to let the father-in-law help with the child, or let the mother-in-law take the child, I believe that many daughters-in-law will choose the mother-in-law, the reason is very simple, the mother-in-law can take better care of the child.
But if you marry a family with two sons, the daughter-in-law always has to face such a problem, and the cousin is like this.
The cousin's husband has an older brother, the brother's family has a second child and needs to be taken care of by the mother-in-law, and the cousin and husband are busy at work, so they can only let the retired father-in-law help take care of the daughter.
Although the cousin was reluctant at first, because her mother had to take care of her grandson, she could not help, so the cousin reluctantly agreed to let the father-in-law take care of her daughter.
My cousin's father-in-law was a primary school principal before he retired, engaged in education for many years, and when he first retired, he was too idle to adapt, and when he arrived at his cousin's house, he put all his energy into his little granddaughter.
Soon after the father-in-law came, he bought a lot of picture books for his little granddaughter, and then let the little granddaughter play there by herself, and he sat leisurely on the sofa next to him and read a book.
Seeing that every day was like this, the cousin began to be dissatisfied, she felt that the father-in-law was lazy and convenient, not at all like the old principal who had been engaged in the education industry for many years, in order to make the child quiet and not delay him reading, he used stickers to attract the child.
Although the cousin also reminded the father-in-law euphemistically because of this matter, she also told her husband that she let her husband talk about her father-in-law, but the father-in-law said that children over 2 years old playing stickers can cultivate children's concentration, exercise thinking ability, and help future learning.
In desperation, the cousin can only give up, who let her work busy, no time to take the child? She thought that it was better for children to play with stickers than to watch TV, so she just casually went to work.
However, after her daughter went to kindergarten, her cousin often heard the kindergarten teacher praise her daughter for her very concentrated attention, very strong concentration, and strong comprehension ability, the teacher always said things that can always be repeated, and the fingers are very flexible, the thinking ability is strong, and the hand-brain coordination ability is also very strong.
So at a parent-teacher meeting, the teacher asked her cousin to share her parenting experience and asked her to talk about how she cultivated her child's super concentration before she entered the kindergarten.
The cousin thought left and right, she herself was busy with work and did not invest much energy in her daughter to accompany and educate, which reminded her father-in-law of always buying various sticker books for her daughter, and then letting her daughter play with stickers there, and her father-in-law said that pasting was very helpful for the cultivation of children's concentration.
Therefore, the cousin was impressed by this special education method of the father-in-law, and then, in order to explain the education method of her daughter in detail at the parent-teacher meeting, she humbly consulted the father-in-law, and the retired old principal talked about the many benefits brought by the children's play stickers.
The old principal said that letting children play with stickers from an early age can not only cultivate children's super concentration, lay a foundation for future learning, but also realize the development of the child's left and right brains.
The first benefit: Stickers can exercise the child's classification ability and exercise the child's logical thinking ability.
For this, the old principal said that in the process of playing stickers, children will unconsciously classify according to different scenes and find stickers corresponding to the scenes, so that children can invisibly exercise the ability to classify and summarize. At the same time, the child will make a coordinated distribution of different stickers, which just exercises the child's logical thinking ability.
When it comes to this, the old principal said that in many sticker books, he thinks that "Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book" is the best, and it is also his little granddaughter's favorite set of stickers, which is very suitable for children aged 2-6.
The old principal also made an analogy, for example, there is an animal food sticker, which has a variety of animals, and will ask the child to paste different foods according to the preferences of different animals under the corresponding animals, in this process, the child not only knows different animals, but also understands the preferences of animals.
We all know that these two abilities will be more obvious after children enter primary school, because what mathematics needs most is logical thinking ability, and children with poor mathematical scores in general have weak logical thinking ability.
The second advantage: in the process of pasting, children not only revel in the process of having fun, but also exercise the child's concentration, but also can develop the child's left and right brains, and develop the child's good habit of doing things seriously and carefully.
Under the recommendation of the old principal, I also bought a set for the child, after getting this set of sticker picture books, I found that this set of stickers is colorful, rich in content, interesting, it is easy to attract the attention of children, children play no longer sticky, not to mention watching TV and mobile phones.
It turns out that the active children, after playing this set of stickers, are very determined, can concentrate on playing for a longer and longer time, sometimes can play for half an hour, I found that children in the process of playing, "tearing the sticker" small hand more and more flexible, "sticker" accuracy is also getting higher and higher.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!