Hello everyone, I am your Wu Yang ah ~ ~ ~ ~
Haiqing and Tong Yao's new drama "Heart Residence" have all watched it.
For the acting skills of the actors, I have no level of judgment, and can only analyze and reflect from the lives of the characters, pushing themselves and others.
Today I want to talk to you about the role of Feng Xiaoqin.
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In the first half of Feng Xiaoqin's life, there was a mission carved into her bones, that is, to become a Shanghainese, to take root in Shanghai, to bring her parents and brother (said to be her son), and to live in peace and stability.
Young and beautiful, she has a shrewd mind, and she chases gu Lei, who is procrastinating in appearance, does not turn her head, and her legs are still a little lame.
What's in the figure?
It is certainly not that he brushes his teeth while pulling, but his Shanghainese identity, Shanghai has a home, and people are honest and easy to grasp.
At this point, Feng Xiaoqin did a very successful job.
She is like a mother to her son, nanny to the master, Gu Lei's diet and living, take good care of meticulously, and even his work and growth, have planned and supervised for him.
Feng Xiaoqin is shrewd, but he forgot a little, the more honest and easy to grasp the man, the easier it is to think for himself, the more he can't support the scene, the more he likes to instinctively throw the pot, the less firm will and opinion, the more difficult it is to realize some lofty dreams.
For example, when her sister said something like "Can Feng Xiaoqin live with you for a lifetime?", Gu Lei was distraught and restless.
For example, buying a house in Shanghai, even a 60-square-meter old and broken, the down payment is millions, and the monthly mortgage is less than tens of thousands.
Objectively speaking, Feng Xiaoqin is a good woman.
Even if she marries Gu Lei with a certain purpose, this is understandable, no matter who marries, she will have a certain purpose, some are coveting beauty, some are interested in character and so on;
Nor does she deny that she does have some dislike for Gu Lei, which is also the current situation of many old husbands and wives, husband and wife for many years, all kinds of unbearable and shortcomings are displayed one by one, and it is impossible not to abandon.
However, she can't erase her love for Gu Lei, otherwise, it is impossible to take care of Gu Lei and his family like a nanny, with her cleverness, in the relationship with Gu Lei, she can completely take another path, not to sacrifice herself like this.
After Gu Lei's unexpected death, she also insisted on taking good care of Gu Lei's father and grandmother.
However, she was clever and was mistaken for being clever.
Smart and flexible, she chose a seemingly easy path, but it was the most wrong investment in her life.
She is wrong, using her body to attract men, and tying her life to men;
She is wrong, attracting men with the appearance that men like, but getting along with men with the appearance of men's disgust and fear.
To sum up, she is more than strong and less intelligent.
She thought that if she tied up Gu Lei, she could have a stable second half of her life, but she didn't know that Gu Lei was even difficult to control her own life;
She thought that by taking care of the Gu family, she could get the corresponding respect, but she did not know that in this world, economic strength is the core value.
She thinks that "hard work" can be turned into "merit", but as everyone knows, it is just an equivalent exchange, people have money, you can only contribute.
2
Every time I see Feng Xiaoqin busy in and out of the Gu family, I think of Zheng Juan in "The World of Man".
In addition to the different ages and different actors, the starting point of the two of them is really very similar.
Zheng Juan was raped and pregnant by Luo Shibin;
Feng Xiaoqin gave birth to a child before marriage and was raised by her parents as a younger brother.
Zheng Juan was born at the bottom and lived a poor life;
Feng Xiaoqin was born in a foreign country and had difficulties in his family.
Zheng Juan is industrious and simple, and Feng Xiaoqin is hard-working and hard-working.
Zheng Juan took a fancy to the honest Zhou Bingkun; Feng Xiaoqin aimed at Gu Lei, who was easy to grasp.
Even the process of getting along with their husbands is somewhat similar, belonging to the woman's initiative and the man's passivity.
More coincidentally, even the personality of the eldest sister is somewhat similar.
Zhou Rong is selfish and only recognizes the reason of death; Gu Qingyu is rational and shrewd and calculating.
Why is Zheng Juan respected by everyone in the Zhou family, but Feng Xiaoqin has always been regarded as an outsider in the Gu family?
In addition to the background of the times and social factors, there is a fundamental difference in the way they deal with contradictions.
Zheng Juan belongs to the defensive type, her goal is very clear, as long as Zhou Bingkun does not like it, she definitely does not like it, as long as Zhou Bingkun is unwilling, she is not willing.
Her trick seems to have no self, but in fact, she is retreating into progress.
No matter how honest a man is, he also has his personality, and he also hopes that someone will worship him, and the more Zheng Juan takes Zhou Bingkun as the first, the more Zhou Bingkun feels sorry for Zheng Juan and wants Zheng Juan to live a good life.
On the contrary, Feng Xiaoqin is offensive.
She was shrewd and calculating, as if she were hiding, but anyone who thought a little bit could guess her intentions, and everything was too deliberate and too skillful.
Such an approach, on the contrary, makes people dare not easily believe her.
A man like Gu Lei who is honest and so dependent on her can't give her trust, let alone know her bottom line (before she and Gu Lei married, Gu Qingyue knew that Feng Xiaoqin had a son before marriage), and Gu Qingyu, who was good at calculation, how could he trust her.
Gentleness is a woman's fiercest weapon.
3
Women, this life, in the end, is not easy.
Everyone wanted Zhou Bingkun, but they became Feng Xiaoqin.
Therefore, if a woman wants to live well, she must have a clear goal, not be too greedy, and cannot think of one and think of two.
Which kind of life to choose, you can not only see the enjoyment of what kind of life, and ignore the suffering of what kind of life.
Like Zheng Juan, her goal is to be with Zhou Bingkun, have a place to live, and raise her children.
Feng Xiaoqin wanted to stay in Shanghai, marry Gu Lei, and take good care of the old man of the Gu family, in fact, she has basically achieved her original goal.
However, the "nanny life" of 24 days a year, 365 days a year, the comfort of people around her with a house and a car, makes her want to have a real piece of land that really belongs to herself, and wants a guarantee that really belongs to herself, so that she has the heart to buy a house.
Her thoughts were not wrong, just
Her strength could not support her desires
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You know, on her and Gu Lei's terms, borrowing 1 million yuan, it is impossible to get it.
In the end, it is the money of the white prostitute's sister.
Of course, she will not be willing to pay back, but it is also a fact that she will not pay back.
Therefore, borrowing money to buy a house, for her, is completely to add to her own blockage, and it deepens the suspicion of others about her.
Feng Xiaoqin's mistake is still to pin his life on men.
You know, for Gu Qingyu and Gu Lei, her existence in the Gu family is to serve as a nanny.
Otherwise, Gu Lei would not have resigned to take care of the elderly at home as soon as she got married.
With Gu Lei's work level, it is not enough to support a family, but he knows that his father has a house and his sister has money, as long as his wife helps him take care of the family, money is not a problem.
If Feng Xiaoqin is not at home full-time, but uses the relationship between the people around her and insists on working, she may live more confidently.
Fortunately, after Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin gradually recognized and accepted the reality of life.
She went out to work, and even wanted to start a business, and slowly found a sense of being demanded by the city and society, and found her sense of value again.
This is a job that can get a salary, bringing strength and confidence to women.
About the author: Wu Yang. Multi-platform contracted author, female inspirational writer. Appreciate the emotions of the world and interpret the changes in the world.