We often say that love must go in both directions, must be sincere with each other, and know how to cherish. Only such love can go smoothly and meet a happy ending.
As Isakovsky said, "Love, it's not one heart beating another, it's the spark of two hearts colliding together." ”
Two people together, only by doing this, can we get along more harmoniously, make the atmosphere of this love more happy, more unforgettable. On the contrary, if we love someone deeply, but the other party loves us and ignores us, in this case, no matter how hard we try, or no matter how much we give, we will not be able to get each other's heart.
Although women are very concerned about their love, it is easy to lose themselves in love, but in such a situation, they still have to maintain their sanity, maintain their posture, do not have to cater to others, and do not have to do some unnecessary efforts. It's just that in life, some women are not willing to admit such a fact at all, or are not willing to observe men's attitudes towards themselves, thinking only that as long as they do well enough, men will be able to move their hearts.
Therefore, when getting along with the opposite sex, women must not only maintain their sanity, but also learn to observe the man's attitude and thus know what he really thinks. The easiest way to do this is to see how a man is when he talks to you.
Generally speaking, when a man is reluctant to talk to you about these topics, it means that he does not actually love you, and women should not waste their minds.
01 Talk about topics that interest you.
Shakespeare said: "Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a honey word in the peach blossom source, not a light tear, nor a hard compulsion, love is based on a common language." ”
Two people who truly love each other will definitely want to manage their love well. With such an idea, it is natural to take the initiative to work hard to protect their love.
When getting along, we will also try to consider each other, to understand each other's ideas, to understand each other's interests and hobbies, and when chatting, we will also try to chat about some topics that the other party is more interested in. Only in this way can a love better continue.
A man, as long as he truly loves a woman, without being reminded by others, he can take the initiative to do this. Considering women's feelings, catering to women's interests and hobbies, and thinking about women should be compulsory courses for men in love.
If a man can't do even these basic things when he is with you, what is the point of proving that he loves you? A man doesn't even understand the things you're interested in, and he's not willing to talk about some of the topics you like better, which means that he doesn't actually love you.
02 Talk a little bit about your future plans.
Balzac said: "In fact, pretend love is more perfect than real love, which is why many women are deceived." ”
In the face of love, what a woman is most afraid of is that when she pays her true heart, she finds that men are simply hypocritical, and those love words in the past are just cheating women.
Women are afraid of encountering such things, and when they get along, they will naturally observe some of men's behaviors, so as to see men's true hearts. It's just that many times, men's performance is already obvious, it's just that women are not willing to face it, they are not willing to believe it.
When a woman meets a man she loves very much, she often fantasizes about the future of the two of them, and she will have some plans and plans in her heart. Women have expectations in their hearts, and naturally they also want to know how to plan for the future in men's hearts.
Generally speaking, as long as a man truly loves a woman, no matter what happens in the future, as long as the two people are well together, they will definitely talk about some future things. If men don't even dare to face this topic, or don't want to talk about it at all, it means that in men's hearts, they actually don't think about whether to go down with this woman. To put it bluntly, it is because men do not love enough in their hearts, but for some reason they are not willing to confess.
03 Talk to you about your heart.
Byron said, "Love is hard, and you can't expect it to come out like a dream." ”
Whether it is at work, in life, or in relationships, we often encounter some unsatisfactory things. If these things are always hidden in our hearts, they will also have a great impact on our lives. When we encounter such things, we will also want to vent and want to talk.
Of course, everyone's inner thoughts are generally told to their dearest and most trustworthy people. In love, if a man loves a woman deeply, he will naturally regard this woman as his dearest and most trusted person, and if he has something in his heart, he will also talk to the woman.
Women should understand that if a man is with you but is never willing to reveal any thoughts to you, it means that he is wary of you. In his heart, he didn't see you as the closest person at all. The occurrence of such a situation also shows that he does not love you so much.
Love requires two people to fully pay their own sincerity, regard each other as their only one, and as their closest people. If you can't do this, even if you are together, you will be separated sooner or later.
If a man does not love a woman, he will generally calculate the woman's mind or avoid some topics.
Shakespeare said, "If love is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with itself, it is not true love." ”
Understand this truth, women should know that if a man never talks to you about these topics, don't be stupid, he doesn't love you at all.