The most complete social education is the school - family education. The family and the interrelationship between children and parents that exist in the family are the first schools of intellectual, moral, aesthetic and physical education. (Sukhomlinsky, Pavresh Middle School, p. 6)
Parents are a mirror of children, but also the child's first teacher, every word and deed in life are subtly influencing children. A good family education method can bring lifelong benefits to the child, and the wrong family education method will destroy a child's life.
A previous incident occurred, a mother told us with actions what the right family education should be.
On February 26, 2017, when a bookstore in Quzhou City opened its doors, it was found that a note and 40 yuan were stuffed in the crack of the door, which read: "I have no way to teach my son, and my son stole four picture books in your shop." I was supposed to bring my son to apologize, but I didn't open the door, sorry. "The mother paid for the book stolen by the child, put it in the store, and brought the child over early in the morning to apologize, which shows the importance of this matter."
Teaching by example is more important than words. When the child makes mistakes, this mother leads the child to the right path in time and sets the right example for the child. When the child thinks back on this matter later, he will only be grateful to the mother. I am grateful to my mother for guiding and educating him correctly when he did something wrong, so as not to let him go to the road of no return in the future.
If her mother had only prevaricated at that time on the grounds that "the child was still young and did not understand things", the child would become more and more unscrupulous in the future, and eventually would go to a road of no return, and it would be too late. The child will also be full of hatred for his mother, scolding why she did not educate him and stop him at that time, and lived in pain and regret for the rest of her life.
In fact, in life, children will inevitably make mistakes. What is important is how parents guide and educate their children correctly, rather than saying that they will help their children escape for various reasons, so that children will not be held responsible, and regret will not be useful when problems occur.
The same child, different ways of family education, will bring this child a different life. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to family education in life, understand the impact of their own behavior on their children, and guide their children to become an excellent person.
Well, that's what I'm sharing with you today. If parents and friends feel that it is helpful for you in educating your children, please share the article with friends who are also troubled by this, so that we can escort the growth of children together.
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