The formation of personal qualities such as a person's personality, personality, value system, and habitual behavior patterns begins in childhood. Parents should not be limited to the growth of their children at the level of long body and long knowledge, and paying attention to mental health is also a key part of ensuring the healthy and happy growth of children. Psychologists have believed that a good psychological state in childhood can lay the foundation for the future development of children's moral and intellectual development. If you neglect to pay attention to mental health growth at this time, then parents' expectations that their children will have a sound personality and a healthy psychology after adulthood may be disappointed
Paying attention to mental health requires parents to achieve six aspects of "reverse thinking" when educating their children in normal times.
1. Don't care too much about your child. Doing so tends to make the child overly self-centered, believing that everyone should respect him, and as a result becoming an arrogant person.
2. Not too close to the child. Children should be encouraged to live, learn, and play with people of the same age so that they can learn how to get along with others.
3. Don't praise your child too much. Children have achieved results in doing things, a little praise can be, excessive praise will make the child contaminated with the bad psychology of selling fame and reputation.
4. Not being moody with children. Parents should maintain emotional restraint when getting along with their children. Do not be happy when the child wants the stars and the moon to agree, but when you are angry, you will immediately shout at the child, which will make the child sensitive and suspicious, emotionally unstable, timid and cowering.
5. Don't cheat and intimidate your child senselessly. Scaring the child will lose the authority of the parents in the child's mind, and all the warnings in the future will not be obeyed by the child.
6. Don't criticize or ridicule your child in public in front of your child's peers. This will cause the child to be resentful and shy, greatly damage the child's self-esteem, resulting in the child's development of inferiority, timidity, avoidance and other unhealthy psychology.
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