Experts put forward: "the old things are used by the old two, and the cost of raising a baby is not high", do you agree?

With the liberalization of the two-child policy, more and more families have begun to have a second child, adding new members to the family, at this time they are facing the problem of how to raise "two babies in the family", is it difficult to really raise as the rumor says, "the boss is raised according to the book, and the second is raised as a pig"?

The old things of the boss are used by the two, and the cost of raising children is not high?

Early in the morning, the baoma group argued endlessly over the issue of "raising a baby". The reason is that a mother shared a link in the group about an education expert encouraging everyone to have more children.

The expert said: "Domestic raising children is actually not so much pressure, drink ordinary milk powder, use ordinary diapers to not wet, do not pursue famous universities, the natural cost of raising is not so high."

In addition, experts have also proposed methods: it is recommended that the first child can use what the second child has used, so that it is easy to bring up two children.

Such remarks have aroused the discussion of bao mothers in the group, and some people think that this method is very useful, which greatly alleviates the anxiety of contemporary parents who have a baby; but some mothers think that such an idea is unrealistic, because not all the things of the big treasure can be used for the second treasure.

"The boss uses old things for the second old", the ideal is very full, and the reality is very bone

The cost of raising a child must be obvious to all, from the birth of the child, although it is not necessary to use fine clothes and food, but life needs to be spent everywhere. From the milk powder eaten, to the pulled diapers, to the older early education, it can be said that children have to spend money every day as long as they open their eyes.

In the process of raising a baby, eating and drinking Lasa is a big expense. Those who say that the boss uses the old things, and the second can continue to use them, the idea is good, but in real life, raising a second child is not as simple as "picking up the leftovers".

The things left over from the boss are nothing more than some clothes, toys, and books, and these things are not the entire cost of raising the second child, of course, the boss uses the remaining items, and it is not completely suitable for the second treasure.

Like clothes, if the two children in the family are of the same sex, the eldest can still wear the remaining clothes; if the two children are of the opposite sex, then the two children of different genders are difficult to integrate together in wearing clothes.

There are also toys and picture books, different children have different regional preferences for toys and picture books, and the boss's remaining toys and picture books, presumably most of them are also "unrecognizable", and it is really difficult for the second treasure to have a sense of experience.

In addition, the complementary foods, milk powder, and diapers in the process of raising the second treasure need to be re-purchased, and the future education costs cannot be saved, and the big treasure will not be allowed to tutor the second treasure. Therefore, raising one more child will never save money, but more is the increase in parenting costs.

There are two children, in the end whether it can use the things born of Dabao to analyze in detail

For Dabao

The boss is definitely aware of his own things, when the parents give their own things to the second treasure, they also need to consider the feelings of the big treasure, if the big treasure is given away in the face of their own things, it is full of reluctance and crying, then the parents are cautious.

After having a second child, parents must first consider the feelings of the eldest at home, so that the boss feels that his parents still love him, and will not because he has a baby at home, and his parents' energy and time are on the second treasure.

Look at the attribution of the item

At the same time, on the question of whether the things of the big treasure should be used for the second treasure, it also depends on how the parents define these things.

If these things are defined as a child, like clothes, shoes, etc., of course, finally buy a copy for another child, if these things are defined as home, like the family computer, bicycle, etc., of course, the eldest can continue to use after the eldest uses up.

More than money, raising children still requires enough energy

In today's society, the problems that can be solved with money are not a problem, but sometimes, there are wishes that even money cannot achieve, including the energy spent raising children.

The companionship of children when they are sick, the guidance of children when they develop, etc., these need the companionship of parents, especially parents with multiple children at home, and they need to pay double the energy to educate their children.

Accompanying a child to grow up, parents still have the strength to cope with other things, if they have children one after another, as ordinary families, especially mothers, they have to weigh the pros and cons. Because having a baby is a one-way street, once you're gone, you can't look back.

Kojima would like to say:

Even if the many children are blessed, in the past era, there were several children in the family at every turn, and the scenes of talking, laughing, and playing were very enviable.

However, if you think about it carefully, it is estimated that only in the past era can parents have the strength and ability to raise children who are worry-free, energetic and full of vitality