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The really important thing for men and women to get along is actually not how much you have paid, but whether you have figured out each other's bottom line and whether you have respected each other's bottom line.
A lot of men love to do things that they like to do from a young age, frantically tentatively on the verge of being beaten. But one thing men should also know is that no matter how much you toss and turn, your parents will not leave you, and your girlfriend will not necessarily always be waiting for you.
These three things, men must not do, once done, women will never tolerate, because this is their bottom line in love.
One: Women are very taboo about betrayal
For women, betrayal is a road that cannot be turned back, whether you have corrected it or not, whether you have returned or not, it is the same result. She will no longer have any trust in you, and when she looks at you, she will feel congested and cold.
This is the first taboo in love, once a man is unfaithful, the woman will not forgive anyway. Either it will slowly torture you in the days to come, or it will leave decisively and will never have any intersection with you again.
The most beautiful and important factor in love is to remain loyal to each other.
Loyalty, let each other become the only existence in each other's eyes, which is also the meaning of us being in the vast sea of people, looking for a needle in a haystack to find the other half.
If such feelings can be shared and we are not unique in the eyes of lovers, then such a relationship cannot be declared love at all, and such lovers are more hypocritical than sincere.
As a man, you can't do something deviant at any time, and you must ensure that you are loyal enough at any time, and no one's tolerance can be extended to tolerate infidelity.
Two: Women are very taboo men who are not independent, immature, and have no responsibility
As a man, not to mention how good a life can be brought to the woman, it is necessary to bear your own life and allow yourself to survive independently.
If women leave because of financial factors, many times they are not vanity, but when survival becomes a problem, survival is more important than love.
Moreover, they also have their own family and parents, and there are many places where they need to take responsibility for themselves. Being with a man who can't even afford his own life for a long time is really beyond their tolerance.
As an adult, you have to think that you have to take responsibility for yourself before doing anything. Anything that threatens the fulfillment of one's responsibilities, or even survival, is actually intolerable to no woman.
You know, the person a woman wants to marry must be someone she feels can be trusted and trusted. If you have a problem even feeding yourself, how can you make her feel safe?
Economic independence, immature thinking, and no responsibility for people in the world are all taboos, which will make women lose trust in you and never want to continue to love each other.
Three: domestic violence
When we bless others, we like to say to others: I hope you are treated gently by the world.
To be treated gently is actually a manifestation of being loved, and everyone wants to have a lover who is gentle with them.
As a physically superior party, if men cannot treat their lovers gently, and even often cannot control their temper, and often run amok, they will create an illusion that they are in danger for their lovers.
After all, in many domestic violence incidents, the man is a person with great emotional ups and downs, irritability and inability to control emotions. Such a person not only can't control his words, can't control his emotions, but also can't control his fists.
No woman can endure the fear and shadow of violence for a long time, like walking on thin ice and trembling. In their yearning for their future lives, there is no such an irritable role, and they will not tolerate such an irritable person as their lifelong partner.
So in the process of male-female interaction, once you do something to a woman, then the relationship between you stops there.
A woman who is truly intelligent and knows how to take responsibility for herself will not allow herself to be with domestic violence or violent people, because it means that she will always live in fear in the future.
When men and women interact, women are very taboo about three things, which are mentioned above: betrayal, non-independence and domestic violence. Even if you occupy one, you will lose the love, trust and expectation of women for you, and I hope that you will not occupy one.
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