The seven-year-old boy was abandoned by his parents in escrow and has not been found so far
The seven-year-old boy, Yu Bo, was sent to foster care classes run by the neighbor's Aunt Wang just five years ago. At first, Yu Bo's parents promised to give Aunt Wang a custody fee of 1200 yuan per month, and after Aunt Wang agreed, Yu Bo's parents sent the child over. Since sending the child, Aunt Wang found that the child's parents could not get through the phone when she wanted the custody fee.
I didn't find the couple when I went to look for them, and the children stayed in custody. Aunt Wang had no choice but to leave the child to continue to take care of, and usually continued to help the child find news of parents. The children's food and clothing were bought by Aunt Wang for the children, and slowly the children in Aunt Wang's home were taken to school by their parents when they grew up, leaving only Yu Bo unattended.
Yu Bo also reached the age of schooling, but Aunt Wang did not have the child's household registration book and other documents. Not even the vaccines that each child had to be vaccinated, which restricted the child's schooling. When the child was sick and hospitalized, the parents did not appear once. Now children go to school is the biggest problem that needs to be solved. Aunt Wang had no choice but to ask the reporter for help in finding it.
Aunt Wang took the reporter to the child's hometown, and they heard the phone number of the child's father. After the call, it was not connected, and it was blocked. The reporter has inquired a lot and found the contact information of the child's mother, the phone is connected, but the child's mother does not want to recognize the child. On the phone, she said that the family and the children had nothing to do with her.
The child's mother, who was very young at the time, is now only 23 years old, and she is unable to raise the child herself. Moreover, the child's mother is also married, and the husband's side does not know the existence of this child, and she is worried that her husband and mother-in-law will divorce her if she knows about it. After some understanding, everyone learned that the child's mother was 17 years old and the father of the 30-year-old child was in love and accidentally became pregnant, and after giving birth to the child, the relationship between the two people broke down.
She later left the child to the father and left him, when the two lived together without a license to marry. In reality, "He Ziqiu" is not as lucky as in the TV series, and can have a happy life with Li Dad and his sister without being hurt. But they all have a doubt, like the line in the play: "I don't know what I did wrong, why don't they want me?" "Children are innocent, the fault lies in the ignorance of parents, born without raising, cruelly abandoning children, children causing indelible harm, they are not worthy of parents."
Children abandoned by their parents, their pains accompany them for a lifetime
1. Cause psychological problems
Children who are abandoned by their parents will have a very serious psychological shadow from an early age. When these children grow up, they will be extremely insecure, and it will be difficult to sleep even at night, the author's nightmare of being abandoned. Such a child is very insecure in his heart. They will become very sensitive, want to have an intimate relationship with others, and fear of being hurt, and their hearts will be full of defenses.
2. Affect children's interpersonal communication
When abandoned children grow up, they are ridiculed and bullied from childhood to adulthood. When such children grow up, they will form a thick protective shell and prevent others from entering their inner world. Even if he gets married and has children in the future, he will become very paranoid and sensitive in his heart, and often worry about losing everything he has.
3. Affect the child's life
All children are supposed to have a happy childhood, while some children are orphaned by the irresponsibility of their parents. The pain in their hearts may not heal for the rest of their lives. When they grow up, it will also affect their personality, and it is difficult to have their own happiness.
Summary: As a parent of a child, you should be responsible for the children you have. Parental quarrels and separation should not hurt the child, in fact, two people are emotionally incompatible and separated, but they are still the father and mother of the child. Children are the most innocent, please don't hurt them. Parents should take responsibility and obligation to their children, so that children can grow up healthily.
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