This is the 525th original of Dumb Dad
Dumb Daddy Parenting Contributing Author: Yue Yue
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Hello everyone, this is Dumb Daddy Parenting.
Recently, there has been another incident of child abuse by nursery teachers!
The baby, who was only 28 days old, was forcibly milked by the gold medal nursery of the confinement center and abused to the fracture of the thigh!
Really infuriating?
Here's how it went:
Not long ago, a bao mother in Shiyan City gave birth to a healthy baby boy.
In order to give her children more professional care, Bao Mom chose a confinement center called "Taihe Maternal and Infant Care Club".
30,000 pieces, 28 days, an average price of more than 1,000 a day.
Who would have thought that 1,000 yuan a day in exchange for not quality service, but a nightmare.
On March 13, The mother found that the baby had been crying non-stop, so she took the baby to the hospital for a film examination. CT shows a fracture of your child's left thigh.
How can a good end be broken?
At the strong request of Bao Ma, the club agreed to let the family view the surveillance video.
Don't look at it, don't know, look at it and be shocked.
The video shows: a baby girl first slapped the child, then opened the bottle, pinched the child's nose and began to force the milk, and even rudely reversed the child's body and twisted the child's head...
According to some statistics, in the 2-minute video, the forced feeding behavior of the nursery occurred 4 times, and the longest time of pinching the nose lasted for 7 seconds.
After being treated roughly, the child kept crying and even began to spit out milk, but the nursery did not stop...
Bao Ma saw this situation and directly collapsed. The child's family immediately called the police on 110, and the inhuman nursery was also summoned according to law.
Under the interrogation of the police, the nursery teacher Chen Moumou confessed: At 3 a.m. on the 13th, the child woke up because of hunger, and she endured sleepiness to feed the child. But I don't know how, the child is very resistant to breastfeeding, crying non-stop.
Chen Moumou said that he was tired and sleepy, and his mood was irritable, so he sprinkled all his anger on the child.
In the face of the accusations of the child's family, Chen Moumou slightly aggrieved to defend: I have been pregnant for 4 months, my body is already uncomfortable, coupled with the intensity of work, emotional irritability, so I treat the child like this.
But is that the reason?
You are also the one who is about to become a mother, and you will compare your heart to heart, and if your own child is treated like this, won't you be heartbroken?
The most infuriating thing is that Chen Moumou's professional ethics and professional level are actually the gold medal nursery teachers of this confinement center! Claimed to be experienced and professional!
So, what are the qualities of those nursery nurses who are not as good as hers and who are not as professional as hers?
Mothers who spend tens of thousands of dollars to invite them, are they good at taking care of their children, or are they demons who abuse their children?
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The most frightening thing is that in recent years, the child abuse cases in the Confinement Center have been frequently exposed, and it is not once or twice.
In October last year, a mother in Hangzhou took her baby to a confinement center and paid 70,000 yuan at a time.
When he was admitted to the hospital, the child was fine, but a week later, the mother found that the child's expression was painful, restless, and his body was curled up, and he kept crying.
Bao Mom asked the nursing staff in the confinement center, but the nursing staff said that the newborn child was insecure and it was normal to cry. He also told his family not to hug him, and to pat him pat and comfort him.
Who knows, just because of the negligence of the nursing staff, the child missed the best time for treatment...
A day later, the child began to have a fever and refused to drink milk. The paramedic called the paediatrician and transferred the child to the nursing room. However, the doctor did not take any cooling diagnosis and treatment, but after observing for half a day, he said that there was no way to deal with it and needed to be transferred.
After the child was sent to the hospital, he was diagnosed with no milk streptococcus infection, and because of the lack of timely treatment, he developed purulent meningitis, neonatal sepsis, pulmonary hemorrhage, septic shock...
Eventually, he died!!!
Spent 70,000 yuan to live in the confinement center, in exchange for the unexpected death of the newborn baby. Across the screen, you can imagine the heart-rending pain of Bao's parents and parents...
Coincidentally.
In 2018, a newborn in Guangzhou was admitted to the confinement center for only 3 days, and he suffered from neonatal necrotizing enterocolitis, and then died due to ineffective rescue. The court ruled that the confinement center should bear 25% of the liability and compensated 250,000 yuan.
In 2015, a newborn in Wuhan suffered from hypoxic-ischemic encephalopathy in the newborn due to improper nursing at the confinement center, and eventually died. The court ruled that the Yuezi Center should bear fault liability and compensate 570,000 yuan.
Behind this pile of human tragedies, there are innocent little lives, but also broken families.
This mixed confinement center, it is also time to take care of it!
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In fact, the surface market of the confinement center is hot, in fact, it is chaotic and there are many problems, which is really difficult to distinguish.
Qualification issues
The first is the issue of qualifications. Many confinement centers do not have maternal and infant care qualifications, which is to put it bluntly, illegal operation.
Take the Hangzhou Yuezi Center mentioned above, from the sky eye check, we can see that there is no maternal and infant life care in the licensed project of the center, and it is only until there is an accident with a child that the industrial and commercial changes are made.
In addition, in addition to the qualification problems of the confinement center, the so-called professional nursing staff in many confinement centers also have qualification problems.
Many caregivers hold certificates of various professional skill levels, which sound tall, but in fact, they can be obtained after a few days of casual training.
When the reporter secretly visited, he asked: "If you don't train, what if you show your horse's feet?" Some nursing staff replied without blushing: "Practice your hands first!" ”
Boy! The baby bumps that the mothers have worked so hard to give birth to in October are actually brought to you to practice! What a god-indignation!
Poor hygiene
The second problem that is prone to the confinement center is that the sanitary conditions are worrying.
In February last year, it was revealed that 14 newborns were hospitalized with viral pneumonia in the Shenyang Xinxiangyue Time Maternal and Infant Care Center in Liaoning Province. Some seriously ill children are already serious enough to be rescued with a ventilator!
A parent of a confirmed baby revealed that at first, only one child was infected with pneumonia, but the confinement center has not informed the parents. It was not until later that the child began to have a fever that the confinement center panicked and transferred the child to the hospital. As soon as the doctor saw it, he immediately arranged for the NICU.
The most infuriating thing is that the confinement center knows that a child is infected with pneumonia, and also mixes the child with a milk powder spoon and a saliva towel. As a result, one infected two, two infected ten, and eventually 14 children were admitted to the hospital.
Can the child be healthy with such sanitary conditions?
Arbitrary charges
Although many confinement centers have poor service and poor professional level, they are not ambiguous about collecting money.
Just a few days ago, Ms. Ai of Chongqing complained online about the confinement center where she lived.
28 days, 29,800 yuan, or preferential price!
As a result, after moving in, I found that my room was much smaller than the room in the online promotional pictures.
And that's not even the worst. What makes Ms. Ai even more speechless is that she has spent so much money that she still can't eat enough!
Although she has 6 meals a day, she can't eat enough every day because it is too difficult to eat.
Hungry stomach coupled with milk blockage fever, the child also suffered from thrush, this month sitting is really bad enough!
In fact, today's domestic confinement center fees belong to market behavior, and there is no clear charging standard. How much a room costs, and how much additional services should be charged, all of which are decided by the confinement center.
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Due to the lack of norms in the industry, the management department is not clear, the current stage of the confinement center is uneven, and if the mothers do not do their homework, it is easy to step on the pit.
So, if the family is really understaffed, how should the mothers choose the confinement center?
Here, to provide you with a few reference standards:
See if there is a formal business license
The quality, safety and health of the confinement center operated without a license cannot be guaranteed, so when Bao Ma visits, she should check the business license (whether the business scope indicates that it can provide "maternal and infant confinement care services"), the catering service license (can make confinement meal qualifications), the public place health permit, etc.
See if there is a professional staffing
At present, the mainland does have such a profession as a "nursery teacher", responsible for nursing children aged 0 to 3 years old, so mothers can check whether the professionals of the confinement center have a nationally recognized certificate.
At the same time, it is also necessary to ask whether the clubhouse has a long-term resident doctor and what kind of qualifications the doctor is.
In addition, regular confinement centers also conduct annual health checks on nursing staff. Before the mother signs the contract, she can also ask the confinement center to show the health certificate of the nursing staff.
See how the sanitary conditions are
When many mothers choose the confinement center, they will be blinded by the luxurious and bright decoration inside the center. But in fact, the most important thing for the confinement center is to have a sound health system and disinfection system!
Therefore, when Visiting, Bao Mama can focus on seeing whether there is a special disinfection room or equipped with corresponding disinfection equipment to avoid cross-infection.
Let's see how the room environment is
Mothers who have just given birth to a baby need a quiet rest the most. Therefore, it is best for mothers to choose a quiet confinement center to avoid the surrounding environment being too noisy.
At the same time, pay attention to the facilities in the room. For example, see if there are fully equipped nursing stools, accompanying beds, whether there are separate toilets, whether there are anti-slip facilities on the toilet floor, and so on.
See how good the confinement meals are
For confinement meals, moms must visit in person, it is best to try it, do not just listen to the marketers. At the same time, Bao Mama can also ask to check the menu to see if the confinement meal is properly matched.
See if there is professional neonatal care
Mom should ask clearly: Is it a one-on-one service or a custody system during the stay? There are no professional doctors rounds and so on.
Relatively speaking, one-on-one service between mother and baby in the same room 24 hours will be safer and conducive to the communication of emotions between mother and baby. If you choose a custodial system, you must choose a confinement center with monitoring facilities that allow mothers to see the baby's condition at any time.
Take a look at the Maternity Project
Some postpartum rehabilitation programs are very important for Mom's physical recovery, such as pelvic floor muscle repair and so on. Bao Mom should choose a confinement center with relevant postpartum rehabilitation, and also check the qualifications of the rehabilitator.
See if the charges are reasonable
Before signing a contract, ask if there are some hidden consumption items. For example, are postpartum rehabilitation programs included in the cost, or do they have to be paid for separately?
In short, every child is the most precious heart of parents. When choosing a confinement center, mothers must be cautious, cautious, and cautious!
It is also hoped that the state can strengthen the supervision of confinement centers and let more innocent children be spared.
I sincerely hope that similar tragedies will never happen again!
About the author: Yue Yue, a Buddhist mother who pursues "Qinqi calligraphy and painting poetry hops, chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea".
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