Introduction: In the matter of having children, one of the questions that young couples talk about the most now is: What if I don't have money to have children? Family economic conditions have become a key factor restricting the fertility of many couples, but many of the elderly who have been born often do not pay much attention to the problem of young people, thinking that this is not a big problem, and the child can be raised after birth.
Therefore, we often hear the old people often say that "children are born from rations", after the children are born, they must be able to afford to raise, the previous people did not have money, and they did not raise the children as usual. So, is it true to face this angry claim?
There are indeed such examples around the editor, the original living conditions of the husband and wife are quite ordinary, but after giving birth to the child, the situation is a straight rise, and people around them say that this child is rich.
The friends and husbands were originally small clerks in various units, the husband was a salesman, and the wife was a piano teacher, and the income level of each other was not high. After getting married, because of the problem of buying a house and a car, he never had children, and he did not start to think about having children until his age approached, but after having children, his husband's sales work suddenly became smooth.
Every month there will be a lot of high-quality orders, so the income directly increased by nearly half, but also accumulated a large number of high-quality and stable customers, even if the wife chooses to stay at home full-time because of child-rearing problems, their monthly income can also be well supplied for expenses. The various childcare costs that were originally considered have also been solved, and they have slowly begun to have more surpluses.
The couple also decided that the surplus of these incomes would become the child's future education fund and some small vaults of parent-child outings, and after having children, life was really getting better and better. There are actually quite a few such examples, after having a child, the husband's career has developed, the income level has increased, and it really looks like "the child brings his own rations" to come to this world.
But in fact, behind this is more the result of personal efforts, the birth of a child will not be for no reason to upgrade a family's income level, for no reason to bring wealth to parents. Just as the so-called "pressure is the motivation", couples originally have good experience and accumulation in their own work, and after the pressure, the potential motivation is stimulated more, so the family income will become more.
After the birth of the child, parents have to face the problem of improving their own income, because this is related to the growth of the child, which is the responsibility of parents to the child, so they will redouble their efforts at work and will begin to consider their other ways of income. This seemingly "self-inflicted rations" attribute is only a superficial result of the efforts of others.
All we know is the relaxed and better side of others, but we ignore the hardships of other people's efforts, and the husband runs, visits, and squats for them in order to get more and better quality orders, and works hard to maintain customers. Therefore, if you really listen to such a sentence, or even hope to change against the sky by having children, it is not necessary.
In fact, we think that this is indeed the truth, the current social conditions after the birth of children the basic growth conditions that every family can meet. Few families now say that they can't afford to take on the responsibility of raising their children at all, but the question we need to consider is not how to support children like previous people, but how to give children a better education and future.
The latter is the key to our parenting pressure, and every parent does not want their children's growth to be just a basic configuration but wants them to have a better growth and future. Therefore, in the matter of having children, we must consider the economic situation of our own families, we must be responsible for the growth of our children, and the children's own rations are the icing on the cake, and cannot become your charcoal in the snow.
Important: In our current living conditions, basic child support is not a problem. After having children, in order to give their children a better growth and future, parents must work harder and have a better development in their own work income, so it looks like "children bring their own rations", which is the result of parents being responsible for their children, rather than being born lucky.
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