Text: Flipping through the books in his spare time
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Miss S murmured with deep feeling: "The so-called love is to tolerate and forgive each other." ”
- Junichi Watanabe, "Blunt Force"
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To put it bluntly, to get along with people, is to dynamically adjust the balance between two situations.
One is principle and the other is tolerance.
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Principle is a circle you draw for yourself, trapping yourself in a certain rule. Tell yourself what you have to do and what you can't do.
Principled people are worth associating with, because such people have a sense of boundaries, will not cross the bottom line to do unexpected things, and for people, there is a sense of steadfastness and security.
There are also people without principles in the world, and in a sense, they should respond to the sentence: "People do not want faces, the world is invincible."
There is nothing to bind such a person, and they may become kings or they may collapse into bandits. But whether it is supreme glory or endless scorn, it is dangerous to associate with unprincipled people.
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Let's talk about tolerance.
Tolerance is based on a deep understanding of human nature. In response to this sentence: "No one is a sage, and no one can be blameless." ”
To be tolerant of others means not to seek complete blame, and to forgive others for the mistakes they have made at the slightest thought.
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People who have both principle and tolerance are people who can become friends, and it must be a simple and pleasant thing to get along with.
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If you want to choose one of the two, it is better to choose a principled person.
Because there is also indulgence in tolerance, unprincipled tolerance is a weak act.
People who abuse tolerance can even distinguish between right and wrong.
People who are principled and intolerant are at best difficult to understand each other, but they will not harm others.
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Or it should be said that there must be principles first, and tolerance can be learned slowly.
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