Reading Review: Take its essence (3) "Living in the Rift" Liwen
The personality of young people is a characteristic that magnifies the self, that is not called personality, but selfishness, they never judge themselves. Life needs to have an experience, although some people have better luck and teenagers, the wave curve of life always needs to be experienced, and people need to establish a calm mentality in growth, so as to control the fluctuations of life.
The interpersonal circle will affect people's lives, for the choice of circle, it is not necessary to be rich, but the social circle needs to be consistent with their own pursuits and values in life. Choosing the wrong interpersonal circle will only affect your own mentality, and if you can't find someone who is the same as yourself, then associate with books.
The correct posture of love lies in creating lofty friendships, allowing each other to discover themselves, achieve self-achievement, and surpass themselves. Love can become the starting point of marriage, but it is not enough to become the fulcrum of marriage, choosing marriage requires paying and accepting it, and there is no perfect other half in the world that can make love constant.
People will influence each other, and if you want to know how a person is, just look at what the people around him are like, and see what his partner is like. And the relationship between people, it can be said that everyone is selfish, which is a real human weakness. There is no better relationship between men and women than spiritual fit and spiritual resonance.
The relationship between parents and children in China lacks equality, and children are also independent individuals, they have their own ideas and opinions, and they deserve to be respected. People's personality and behavior are often the reflection of their parents, so children need to be free from the protection of their parents in order to have better self-improvement.
A woman's beauty seems to be a shortcut, but it is as short as youth, and people need to have a strong enough control over themselves to approach the overall sense of fulfillment of life.
People who travel from different cultural backgrounds may sometimes seem out of place on either side, but adventures that cross the boundaries will make their minds more open. After walking through other corners of the world, you will understand that there are great differences in culture and language, and even the definition of beauty is different.
Reading is about reading oneself, and the book is like a mirror that reflects wisdom and internalizes it. The book has a classic meaning, it travels through the times and regions, directly touches the roots of human nature, and it provides the parallel of spiritual peach orchard and wisdom so that we can belong to whatever we are experiencing.
Author: Shang Yulan