It is normal for single elderly people to want to find another partner after retirement, right? After all, the old people still need someone to accompany them in their later years, but there is a lady who cries that she can't find a partner. Could it be that the aunt's family is in a poor financial situation? But the woman said she had a monthly pension of $6,000 and a house for rent. 6,000 pension is not a lot, now young people, even if the salary is rarely more than this number, right?
Yes, this 6,000 a month's pension is really quite a lot, and the conditions at home are so good, why does this single aunt want to find a wife who can live together in her later years after retirement?
Today let's walk into Aunt Sue's life together, let's listen to the 53-year-old lady's story: 6000 monthly pension, but I can't find a wife? I'm just asking for 5 requests!
Ms. Su, 53, shared:
My name is Su Aizhen, I am 53 years old and a retired woman. I really can't understand, why can't I find an object? Although I have begun to enter the elderly and am 53 years old, I have always paid attention to maintenance, and I look at least 5 or 7 years younger than my actual age. And my figure is also slim, you think of women of this age, there are a few who can be as tall as me, and a meter six tall. It's really hard to pick it out, there are no wrinkles on the face, and there is no full head of white hair, like a yellow-faced woman. To be honest, I am still quite up to date, although I am 53 years old, but I am not like a rural mother.
Isn't it true that girls and boys are so much, and I already have an advantage in this regard? And my conditions are so good in all aspects, I am still a woman, but why can't I find a partner yet?
I've been looking for a partner since I was 50 years old, I've been looking for three years, I still haven't found it, and now I'm 53 years old and retired. alas! How can it be so difficult to find someone to accompany you in your later years?
I want to find a partner, but I just want to spend my old age with others, and everyone can get along and take care of it, so that the days are not so lonely. And the important thing is that there is a headache and brain fever can have a wife to help each other and take care of each other. After all, my husband has been dead for several years, and although I am already a 53-year-old woman, I still need someone to accompany me. This is also a very normal idea, don't you think?
When the children were young, we could still walk around them, but now my two sons and two daughters have grown up and started a family. They also have their own small family, they have their own life pressure, and they simply don't have time to take care of me.
It can be said that when a child grows up, he will no longer belong to his parents. All we can do is rely on our wives and take care of each other. But my wife also left me fiercely, leaving me alone in my hometown.
So all I can do now is find a new wife for myself and spend the rest of my old age with each other. I think so, find someone who is about the same age as myself, then you can accompany each other in the future. First, for their own good, there is a person who can help each other around, and second, this is also for the children, and finding a wife can reduce their burden. In this way, they don't have to worry about me, and they don't have to run between the county and their hometown for me.
Today's young people also have too much pressure in life, and it is a mortgage and a car loan, and it is a good school for children. alas! It's really hard for kids! So I want to find an object, I think a lot of single elderly people are also because of these reasons, so in their later years they want to find an object to accompany, right?
But why can't I find someone to accompany me? Doesn't it mean that a lot of older single men want to find women, and I'm a woman too? Why doesn't anyone look at me? Why can't I find a partner for a woman with a pension of 6,000 a month?
I really want to understand, my conditions are not bad, like my generation of elderly people, how many people have such a high pension as me? Some people don't even have a pension! 6,000 yuan is not less In the countryside, this money can do a lot of things. It can be enough for me to live for more than three months, as far as my good conditions are concerned, why can't I find a wife to live with?
In addition to my pension, I also have a house. And my appearance is also good, when I was in school, I have always been a school flower, and I am a sought after object of many boys. Then I went out to work in the society, I was the factory flower of the garment factory, and later I went to work in the real estate company. I became the queen of sales again, and I have always been a girl pursued by many boys.
I really don't understand why I can't find an object now? Although I am 53 years old, I am still the most beautiful and attractive woman among my peers. If I wasn't telling people the truth, a lot of people would think I was just a woman in my early 40s. Because my body looks good, but why can't a woman like me find someone to live with?
My requirements for finding objects are actually very simple! As long as you meet my 5 requirements, you can hug the beauty back! Why am I still single and can't find a partner?
I'm 53 years old and I've been looking for a partner for 3 years. Still haven't found a wife who is willing to go through the second half of my life with me, don't those single older men want their wives to spend their old age with them? Or are these kinds of men dead? I'm really uncomfortable, can't I just end up lonely like this? What a sad thing that is, I really don't want to see such a result!
But I don't know if I should continue to find someone? I still gave up, but if I gave up, how would I live in the future, I was only 53 years old. There was not a single person around who knew cold and heat, and when he was going to lie in bed and wait for the day. Who will bring me tea and pour water, and who will talk to me? I really feel so bad thinking about this, I actually just made 5 requests.
My first request was this: the other party must have a 20,000 yuan pension.
You think I have a woman's pension of 6,000, let alone a man. Men are the pillar of the family, if the pension is not 20,000, how can you give women a happy life, men's pension of 20,000 this is very normal, because according to the relevant data, men's salary should be 4 times that of women, that is to say, 24,000 yuan a month. I only asked the other party for 20,000 yuan now, this request is not excessive, right?
So the man who wants to live with me in his old age must have a pension of 20,000 yuan. I think only then will we be safe for me, and our lives will be happy and sweet. I know that some men can earn millions of dollars a year, and I think their pension should also have two or three hundred thousand!
So my request is not difficult, right? Take my son, for example, his salary is more than 20,000 a month, this age of men, pension is also more than 20,000!
My second request is: If you die that day, then your entire possessions must be left to me.
I don't want to ask too much, we live together, then we are a family. So when you die, all your possessions must be left to me. Because I am the most important woman in you, this is also a manifestation of your responsibility to me, if you don't care about my life without you, if you are not willing to be responsible for me, why should I live with you? Right!
We all live together, it's a family. Your possessions are mine, and when you leave, the property should belong to me. I can't say that your children are responsible for me, and I don't live with them. Your children will certainly not take care of me, and I don't want to force your children. So the best thing to do is to leave all your possessions to me, so that I can have a secure and status in this family.
You leave all your possessions to me, and that's what's best for me. With this money. Even if you're not with me, I can ask the babysitter to come back and take care of the rest of my days.
With the property you left behind, my heart can be solid. With money I can do what I want to do, or I can go to a nursing home, where there are special people to take care of and the environment is beautiful. Only then will I feel that you are negative to me, and if you are with me, you must be responsible for me, otherwise who is responsible for me?
Moreover, money is something that life does not bring, and death does not bring. If you are no longer here, this money must be left to me, and if you don't leave it to me, who else do you want to leave it to? Could it be your son? I don't agree with this, I live with you, not your children. So it is right that you leave your property to me, and this is not too much to ask for!
My third requirement is that after I die, all my property must be left to my children.
Let me tell you this, I'll live with you. It's just a matter for the two of us, and it won't involve me in terms of property, so my property has nothing to do with your half a cent. If one day I leave this world, all my possessions will be left to my own children.
If you don't leave it to my own children, do you want to leave it to your children? They were not born to me and raised by me. I am not related to them by blood, and I am only living with you, let alone with your children. If my property is not left to my own children, shall it be left to you? It's impossible, I live with you, even your possessions have to be given to me. It's your responsibility to me, not to mention that these are my private property. It is absolutely impossible to give it to you, you have to figure out this matter, although I live with you, but my property is still my own.
So no matter how much money I have, how many houses I have, you don't have to worry about these things, I will handle it myself. Anyway, I intend to leave these properties to my own children, and my request is also very normal, it is not excessive at all, right?
We are only two people together, have no task to do with my property, and my property will always belong to me. So you don't have to worry about what to do with my property after I die, it's my own business. You don't have to care so much or know how much property I have.
The fourth requirement is that the other party must have a house of his own.
This request I made is very normal, and young people nowadays are reluctant to live with the elderly. I think so too, because the various habits of young people are different from those of us older people. Living separately is good for both parties and less unnecessary trouble, but only if we have to have a house of our own.
Although we can rent a house outside, we are always insecure, right? There are also rented houses that have to pay rent every month, but in the end the house is not their own. There is also a more important point is that the rented house is definitely not as comfortable as its own house, which will affect the quality of life, everyone thinks this is also the reason, right?
And in case that day the landlord suddenly did not know the wrong nerve, he wanted to drive us out and not rent to me. So what am I going to do? I couldn't find a house to rent for a while and a half. Isn't it hard to go to a hotel? So my subject must have a house of his own, so that he can be safe for me.
I'm in such good condition and in good health, and I'm only 53 years old now. It is also normal to live to be 80 or 100 years old, since you still have to live for so long, you must have a house of your own! I also thought about living for two people, and having a house of 180 to 200 square meters so that the two of us could live comfortably. I don't ask for too big a house like people say they want to be 400 or 500 square meters. It's not for partying, singing and dancing, it doesn't need to be so big.
The house was too big for only two people to live in, and the empty felt even more insecure. And I have to ask a babysitter to clean up, or I have to work hard to clean it myself, and what I hate and fear the most is doing housework. Having a house of your own only wants the feeling of a home, and with our own house we can live happily and happily together, so that you are good, I am good, and our family will be better.
So I think this request I made is also very normal, not excessive at all.
The fifth requirement is: I am so beautiful, my subject must also be tall and handsome enough, so that he can be worthy of me.
I'm in such good shape, so pretty. The object you are looking for should also be tall and handsome, so that you are worthy of me. If I were an old, ugly man who was several years older than me, I would feel very disgusting. If everyone shares a bed, I think I will wake up with nightmares in the middle of the night. I really can't accept such a man, I will be so disgusting that I can't even eat well. Can't sleep well!
Although I am a 53-year-old woman, I am well maintained and in good shape and a very attractive and temperamental woman. If I hadn't said it, people would have thought I was only 40 years old. So I think this requirement of mine is not high at all, don't you men also have to find young and beautiful women? With my good figure and conditions, I can also find a handsome and handsome man.
So men and women are the same, they are mutually trying to find beautiful objects. The men who look ugly and old, and who have white hair, or not even hair. I will not like it, and I will not wronged myself to be with him. I'd rather live alone than find such a man to spend the rest of my life with. I am such a woman with personality, rather than indiscriminate!
I only have these 5 requirements, and it may sound like these requirements are very demanding. It's hard to do, but I'm so pretty and have a monthly pension of $6,000. So these requirements are already very low, but why didn't I find the object?
I've been looking for three years, why hasn't there been a man who can accompany me for the rest of my life? I really don't want to understand it! I only have these 5 requirements, which is not too much. Why is there no man willing to be my object? I'm only 53 years old, and I have the right to find a partner! The kids also don't have the power to stop me from finding someone.
I was speechless, even more devastated, why did I look for so long and not find the right object? I'm really annoyed, is it to continue to look for it? Or give up on a person, but how lonely a person is! But I am very helpless and disappointed, I have been looking for 3 years, and I have not found the man who can accompany me in the future. People say how many years will I have to look for to find someone? I really can't afford to wait, how many decades can I have in life?
Final Conclusion:
First of all, thank you from Ms. Su for sharing, after listening to your story, I also sympathize with your suffering. But after listening to the five requests you put forward, as a woman, I also want to say a fair word, in other words, I am a man, I will not agree to be your object. Your five demands are really excessive, and if you don't lower them, I can tell you with certainty that you'll find them for another ten years. There is no man who is willing to be your object and accompany you on the road of life after you are done.
Here I would also like to remind the majority of female friends that the request is also considered and in line with the actual situation. Don't let the lion open his mouth and think only about yourself, not the other person. Like this Sue made the request. What man would agree to live with her? If I have a pension of 20,000 yuan a month and a house of my own, why should I still look for a partner and find anger. They are all old, and they have lived alone, is it not fragrant?
The world is very realistic, how can people be with you when the conditions are good? If you really want to find a partner, I still advise this Ms. Su to change the conditions. Only then will you be able to find a man who meets the requirements, do you think the analysis is correct?
Friends passing by, do you say that such a request is acceptable?
Welcome to everyone's message, this article is from a lady's real sharing. Thank you all for reading!